We feel more like friends than lovers. How do we get back to the way it was when we were first married?
2006-06-06 13:47:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello Casey, ask your spouse to go out to dinner one evening when neither of you have to work the next day. Wear something you know your spouse will enjoy seeing you in. Once there, you need to stay positive and talk to your spouse. Be honest and open with your feelings and ask your spouse to do the same. Talk about the good times the two of you have had together. Talk about the fun things you have done together.
Keep it positive! After dinner, make plans to have a "date night" together real soon. Talk about it together and come up with a couple of things both of you enjoy doing with each other.
At the end of the evening, there could be some kissing and lovemaking, the way you used to when you first met!
It sounds like the two of you have fallen into a rut!
Break out of it and try somethings that you BOTH enjoy!
Good luck
2006-06-07 08:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-08 21:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it takes a part from the both...You need some time alone do things for each other...Try to work it out to have a his day and a her day...You kind of take care of each other around the house...Think back to the early years what made you feel good and you knew made him feel good...Add just a little spice dress a little different make changes...
2006-06-06 14:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through this..we were in a rut..nothing exciting happening..so we decided to have a date night..we would call up a babysitter..get all dressed up..and go out alone..it helps to be a little daring..kiss again..hold hands..and respect each other..goodluck
2006-06-06 14:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋