My girlfriend was divorced two years ago and it seemed as if she had "moved on" after all the financial and other stress of divorce. She has three children from the marriage, who live with her almost full-time but they've all handled things brilliantly. She was together with her husband for about 14 years.
She met her ex-h's new girlfriend for the first time over the weekend when we picked up their children from a weekend at their Dad's. They seemed to get on really well together, and the g/f gets on really well with her kids.
He's subsequently told her that he and his g/f are engaged and plan to get married next summer.
She's been surprisingly upset by this, but has really been struggling to identify what it is that is upsetting her.
I'm not sure how to act around her at the moment, and feeling uncomfortable about this. I'm not sure if this is a sign for her that her marriage is totally ended, or if she feels that he's easily able to marry again and it isn't so easy for her.
2006-06-06
02:38:58
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James
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