I'm just a little mixed up...I would think it would be wrong but maybe I'm wrong..Just want to know if I should just get over it and not think anything of it, or is a problem...
2006-06-06 04:08:49 · 30 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
With prono....
2006-06-06 04:09:45 · update #1
Yes, men will always do this, even if they say they dont. It's normal.
2006-06-06 04:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just as there may be times when you are neeeding a release and your husband may not be available there will also be times that he may need the same thing and you are not available. You might ask the question to your husband about why he feels the need to do this and be open to the response he may give you. Maybe you are not always there for him? Maybe he needs it more than you think? Maybe he doesn't want to trouble you everytime he needs it? If it bothers you then talk with him about it so that you two can work through it.
2006-06-06 11:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by willinkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masterbatio* can be a good thing in a marriage.
Oh let me ask you this. 1) how would you feel if he sought another woman for his sexual (NEED) and how do you feel if by caring for his own need without bothing you and finding someone to cause more friction in the marriage with an affair?
but if he is doing alot of it then it's a sign your not interested in him sexually while he is always being arroused by you with no releif. ( very painful for a man) god I hate the case of Blue balls.
Do you walk around naked all the time? does he watch you take showers or do you sleep naked together. are you aware that men autonomically respond to visual stimulation? Does he work in an envirnment where he is exposed to alot of women, where they talk or dress provocitively?
honestly though I suggest you read the books on marrital relationships
Start with His Needs, Her Needs, By Willard harley Jr.
this talks about each persons ( 5 most basic needs) and guess what is at the top of most mens list.
a sexually satisfing relationship with their spouce.
a recreational companion and
some one who appreciated their man.
read the book to learn the rest.
2006-06-06 11:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sully 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long time ago, I was young and a newly wed. When my wife was at work or not in the mood, the Playboy magazine came out and I went to the bathroom.
Now if he is turning you down to be with himself, then there may be something wrong there.
2006-06-06 11:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by my_alias_id 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self pleasure in the Western world is considered a nono. At one time in the texts of psychiatry, it was considered an illness. Of course that is silly. Everyone indulges. Read an enlightening book by the well known sex therapist, Lonnie Barbach, called "For Each Other" and "For Yourself". She's written others as well. Get them cheap on Amazon.com. and learn alot!!!!!!!!
2006-06-06 11:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by ladyren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's normal......many men require to release themselves without having need to have sex all the time with their partners. And many times it's much easier to masturbate. As long as he's not having sex with someone outside the relationship, it's his body . Rarely couple are match in their sexual needs. Especially between male and female. Think nothing of it.
2006-06-06 11:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal. Men think about sex CONSTANTLY! If you had to lay down or bend over everytime your husband wanted to get one off, you'd be ruined!
Let him get himself off once and a while. You'll save your precious goods a lot of abuse. Your husband loves you, honey. He's just a dirty boy like all of them!
Personally, I think it's hot. You're lucky. My man doesn't do it. Now I think THAT's strange..LOL.
2006-06-06 11:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm maybe if hes lonely and you're not home, but if you're there and he could be with you instead, its awkward...have you talked to him about it? I agree with that other girl, try counseling! Maybe you're just reading into it too much..but I think talking to your husband is better than talking to people on a message board..I got in fights over this with my ex, and Im happier alone now...one less thing to deal with
2006-06-06 11:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by randilish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be impatient. Sometimes a guy just needs some release. It isn't always about getting off with a girl.
2006-06-06 11:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all man have please there self before and he may like 2 do it if he is in the bed with you and get out and go please himself then u have a problem but it he do it and u not around or he cant get it from you then no it nothing wrong with it women do it 2
2006-06-06 11:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by poohbearbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because its more convenient and sometimes we have fantasies that either we dont want the wife to know about or we know damn well that she wont participate in if we brought them up.
2006-06-06 12:46:32 · answer #11 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋