Do you think that after a couple have been together for many years it is still love or just a habit of being together?
2006-06-06 04:03:22 · 11 answers · asked by cuddlebunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
can be either. it depends on the couple and what goals they have for the relationship
Try reading Smart Love By Dr Phil McGraw has alot of great answers on dating.
2006-06-06 04:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sully 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello cuddlebunny, I think that for many couples, they can and do fall into certain routines that make their lives just a series of habits or going through the motions if you will. There are others though and I include my wife and I when I say this that make an effort to keep things fresh and positive. This Saturday will be 11 years that we have been married and I can honestly say that we are happier and more in love now than we were on our wedding day! You both just have to be willing to work at things!
Good question
2006-06-06 11:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my man and I have been together 20 years and we are still in love with one another and are the best of friends... if you are asking this question for yourself you need to get some counseling to see what is going on with your relationship...yes comfort can be a part of it and there is nothing wrong with that either.. relationships tend to change about two years into it, they start to settle in for the long haul or they split up because they don't love one another any longer if they ever did.....
2006-06-06 11:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by howlincoyote 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that now a days with the divorce rate the way it is that couples that are together and want to stay together are in love. I think that if they were not they would join the rest of the world and get a divorce. i love my husband very much and don't see me ever leaving him but if he stopped loving me i would not want him to stay with me .
2006-06-06 11:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a combination of both... It is definitley commitment and love and usually more then just a habit. It is a choice!
2006-06-06 12:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE for all means grate happines around the heart successful by staying together for better or worse you be become partners...
2006-06-06 18:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young love has a lot of sexual excitement to it and is based more on physical needs and wants. Older love is spiritual and mental. It also has a sense of security and peace.
2006-06-06 11:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by my_alias_id 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they truly luv each othr then luv or they r both wanting 2b just bf but dosnt knw bout the othr person then a habit
2006-06-06 11:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its liking, habit, dependence, love, togetherness, in short its companionship. got me my dear.
2006-06-06 11:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think yes they can still love each other... but all of us is different. and feeling may change... i love my wife... but no passion anymore... i been thinking about looking around.... is that what you want?
2006-06-06 11:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by robert f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋