Marriage & Divorce - 6 June 2006

My husband is a control freak who thinks that everything has to go according to his plan, and that no other plan is right. Even if he is told that there is a better way to do things and is presented with evidence, he is so stubborn that he will never admit that he could have been wrong, and that I am right! Now, don't get me wrong, he is a good man, takes care of me and the kids, and our home. It's hard to find any faults with him except this one. How do I deal with this for years to come? We are newlyweds, only married for four months now. I really do love him, but I'm sad that his ways will not and cannot change. Help me please...

2006-06-06 12:34:22 · 12 answers · asked by candy0813 3

2006-06-06 12:30:59 · 110 answers · asked by lucykettering 1

What is your favorite body part on a woman and why? Do you prefer real boobs or is it ok if a girl gets a little help with the size?? Hmmm...... I can't wait to see this one........ Considering implants and I am a 36c.. Suggestions? No rude comments please!!!!!!

2006-06-06 12:23:52 · 33 answers · asked by ****** 2

2006-06-06 12:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by jad 2

Is it normal or is there something wrong with me. There are days where I want it really bad and days where I don't want to do it at all. I love the feeling of being active, What can I do to feel like that more often? My sex life is great......I just don't know why I feel like this...

2006-06-06 12:09:52 · 4 answers · asked by yo_010180 2

I've been married for 15yrs, we have 2 kids. She basically tricked me and we had the first child, then I gave up on life being any different, we had the 2nd. I LOVE my kids. I've known for yrs that we didn't love each other, but I would not break it off for the kids' sakes. My wife is cold, unloving to me and the kids, and is very selfish. I've always thought it would get better, have supported her endeavours, given her all the material thinngs she wanted, tried to ignore the problem, did all the romantic things I should( trying to convince myself it would get better), encouraged counseling etc, but no avail.
I find myself completely in love with someone I've known for several yrs, we're not physical together, that wouldn't be right, but we have acknowledged our love for each other for several months, it really is the real deal. The only things I care about are the well being and development of my kids and my love for this woman. My wife will fight me for the kids, what can I do?

2006-06-06 12:08:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM WITH HER.He threw me away with no remorse.I TRULY LOVED HIM AND HE SAID HE LOVED ME, YET HE QUICKLY AND EFFICIENTLY MADE ME LEAVE.He turned cold and nasty towards me . I could not believe he was the same person anymore-he actually scared me! I saw anger come out of him that I had only seen in small glimpses during our relationship.How could someone change that much? He would not discuss our relationship like a "normal" couple would. I told him if he thought it was over that we should try and work things out and get some help.he said"everything you have said all makes sense,but we are still breaking up.This was what he was like, all black and white no inbetween about anything. It was horribly frustrating for me. And he was extremely immature about things. Also, very self centered and materialistic.He would also flirt with women in front of me and very often at his work where he met lots of single women. He ia now seeing his second women .I'm stillgreiving

2006-06-06 12:08:23 · 2 answers · asked by fabfourfanmusicfan 1

2006-06-06 12:04:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know absolutely nothing about her. She is my something in law. Well anyway, she invited me because some how she found out i was related her and now i dont know what to get her!

2006-06-06 11:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by Jasmine 3

Why is it that when a man has a beautiful, smart, classy lady at home he chooses to always put her down and constantly belittle her? Why must a person treat one so bad when they are so good to them? Any answers please help I am ready to divorce

2006-06-06 11:53:51 · 14 answers · asked by danaispeace 2

In the secular world and the christian world, couples married or unmarried enjoy each other's company through the bond of love. No duh. Non christian couples often enjoy there sex life before and after. And i'm sure married christian couples enjoy them afterward. But from what i have picked up from relationships from even some of the least devout Christian couples is that all christian couples do is one on one sex. I mean, are there any Christian women who willingly perform oral, or men that will ask of it. Or mutual mast**** type things. This question is real. Answer if you can, Christians.

2006-06-06 11:50:52 · 25 answers · asked by donttrustsheep 3

We're good friends, and no affairs on either side. Just no passion on her side.
HELP!!!

2006-06-06 11:41:45 · 8 answers · asked by NYman 4

My husband and I have been together for about 8 1/2 years. The other night we were arguing and he told me that he wasn't in love with me. He loved me but wasn't in love . What should I do?

2006-06-06 11:40:05 · 22 answers · asked by mjmj0103 1

2006-06-06 11:37:54 · 5 answers · asked by g g 1

As the years goes by..sometimes i feel our love faded.

2006-06-06 11:21:29 · 5 answers · asked by sweet_angel 1

Can you unthink about them? Can you unsay all the things, undo all the things that used to mean so much? I just wish I could unremember. But I find it's impossible to do.

2006-06-06 11:20:36 · 25 answers · asked by itty 7

Have you ever cheated on your mate? More than once?

2006-06-06 11:05:22 · 22 answers · asked by thisisme 6

I have that feeling that he is doing it but, I don't have hard solid proof. There are other signs that I have picked up on and even though I don't believe everything that I read on the internet, out of about 32 signs, there are about 25 that say he is. What can I do to find out for sure?

2006-06-06 11:02:26 · 7 answers · asked by brittme 5

i think my wife knows i cheated on her. the thing is, i realized my mistake and don't want to lose her... i don't want to tell her the truth because she might actually leave me... now, i'm afraid she might actually do the same just to get even... we used to share friendster and yahoo mail passwords and even phone text messages... i think she's getting even on me...

2006-06-06 11:01:40 · 8 answers · asked by larry 1

I have been married for 8 years we have no children. My husband changes jobs a few times a year and he lies to each of these companies. He went as low as to tell one of them that his parents died. I have caught him in several lies. Last year we were actually tring to get pregnaunt from Aug 05 to almost the end of Dec 05. I never got pregnaunt. He had some arrguments and then it got to the point like it has in the past that he thretens divorce, takes his wedding ring off at me, says I am a waste of his time, the marriage is a waste of time, he has packed up a suitcase and his truck and has thretend to leave. I went after him a few times. Now I don't. I love him but I feel like I deserve more. We have had sex 2 times this YEAR!!! I do not think that I am ugly. He has told me in the past that he does not think that we are connected anymore. I am scared to be by myself. All of my family and family friends wonder why I am still with him. Please help me I don't know what to do anymore.

2006-06-06 10:53:57 · 42 answers · asked by firecrackertx 2

A woman can knock it off its axis ............"Agree or Disagree" ?

2006-06-06 10:51:10 · 9 answers · asked by million$moufpiece 2

2006-06-06 10:45:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was born August 13, 1994. I was born in San Diego, CA, and 1 year later we moved to England. I have 3 older sisters and a mom and a dad. MY dad started cheating on my mom in England. Alot. When I was 4 we moved to Connecticut. My dad kept cheating on my mom. When I was 6 my mom found out and kicked him out. He came over alot wihout telling and hit my mom and yelled at all of us. 2 years ago my mom had to move me and my sisters across town to a much smaller town. My mom doesn't have a great job, and we, well... aren't able to spend alot of money. Everyone always yells at me ALOT and last year I started cutting myself. I hate that I feel like no one loves me. LAst April my dad got remarried and didn't ask us if we cared until after he proposed. I HATE THE WOMAN! JERK! She ruined the chance that my mom and dad MIGHT get back together! I FEEL SO ALONE! Help me! WHERE ARE YOU GOD? JESUS! HELP! I feel so alone... maybe suicide is the answer...

2006-06-06 10:42:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

he totaled his car and he is a complete turn off, because I have to fix everything that he F*** up. do you think i should start packing or what?

2006-06-06 10:35:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am stressed i got divorce yesterday n i m attempting sucide cuz i dont wana live anymore.

2006-06-06 10:35:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

on my firt MOTHERS DAY i caught my fiance/ babys daddy chetting....after a week i took him back but cant forgive him..at first i thought i should do the same for him..but now i know i dont want to play games with me or my sons life... I REALLY DONT THINK HE DESERVES A FATHERS DAY GIFT..AND HAVE DECIDED TO PRETEND THERE IS NO FATHERS DAY .. NOT EVEN A CARD HUG OR NOTHING.. WHAT DO YOU THINK...

2006-06-06 10:32:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-06 10:27:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-06 10:25:14 · 11 answers · asked by The Bearded One 4

Would you let them know? By being dishonest, I mean by not mentioning that they did something(not something TOO horrible) that they KNEW you would not approve of. A sin of Omission as it were.Right now, I'm staying quiet about it-but it's killing me! If I keep my mouth SHUT though, it'll give him more rope to hang himself with... GAH! I am so torn between confronting him, or laying low till he blows it on his own and I'll be in the right!

2006-06-06 10:24:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you know you have done all you can? Married 1 1/2 years (2nd marriage) to a man who is totally selfish and emotionally unavailable. We went to counseling for 6 months until he could no longer fit it in his schedule. A little more history here: We chose to marry when I found out I was pregnant. We had just recently gotten back together after being broke up for 3 months. So bad situation to begin with. I often feel second to everything. We spend hardly any time together and it is always me with the 4 children (3 from previous marriage),little to no help from him. He has for the most part shut me down when I try to communicate my needs to him. Even though when we were broke up he swore he wanted to change and he understood what I needed. Now he resents me for still needing these common things out of a marriage, time, consideration, respect, attention, compliments once in a while. I have never been jealous or had a low self esteem until I met and experienced him. I feel so stuck.

2006-06-06 09:52:49 · 23 answers · asked by momkmmt4 1