I have that feeling that he is doing it but, I don't have hard solid proof. There are other signs that I have picked up on and even though I don't believe everything that I read on the internet, out of about 32 signs, there are about 25 that say he is. What can I do to find out for sure?
2006-06-06 11:02:26 · 7 answers · asked by brittme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well if you really want to know just sit back and observe his actions we women have a natural gut instinct that lets us know things I'D SAY FOLLOW YOUR HEART if you are unsure gather the info you need everything done in the dark does come to the light ok!
2006-06-06 11:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Danette 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that maybe instead of freaking out about the "possibilities" of him cheating, that you should try to find ways to reconnect with him. The main reason men cheat is because they are lacking something at home... sad to say, it usually is respect. Make him feel like the king of the castle for a while and don't question him, and don't be cold to him... see if it changes. Otherwise, simply ask him. Geez... it isn't that hard and if you still think he's lying, then don't sit there in a failing marriage. Get up and get out.
2006-06-06 11:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by techgirl95 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you gut feeling usually is always right when it comes to things like this we women know our own intuition is right,follow your internet leads emails,and try following him sometimes or perhaps buy a very small camera and put it above somewhere it will see the computer and what he is doing and writting to then you will have your proof you can buy these cams for around 35 dollars they work and are very reliable they are tini no one would even know there there,you can also make up a fake email address and send him an email pretending your someone else and see how he responds to it pretend you are one of the girls he is seeing or talking to,
2006-06-06 11:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like everyone else said, go with your gut feeling. If you really want to know 100% you could always hire a private detective (pref. female) and see how he reacts to her hitting on him, ect. This way, it's an outside person he won't know, and the P.Detective won't have a bias opinion.
Good luck.
2006-06-06 11:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by Baby_1821 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt bother with all that crap. The more you think about negative things like that the more depressed you become. Then when you do become a nagging untrusting, lifeless heap of a wife, then he surely will go astray.
2006-06-06 11:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by loveva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants to hope that it ISNT happening. That's why you think you don't know for sure. Think about what you are going to do about it anyway. Divorce? Just fight about it? Ask him.
2006-06-06 12:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a pi if you r real serious about this
2006-06-07 03:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋