my husband is not doing any thing and every dime we get goes to parking tickets, $890.00 phone bills,?

Question

he totaled his car and he is a complete turn off, because I have to fix everything that he F*** up. do you think i should start packing or what?

I'm only 21 and he's put alot of pressure on me Iove him but I always wonder if he really loves me. he's 22 and every time i get to the point where i'm able to save money he does something dumb like order
magazines for $75 a month. we have a little girl too and i can't even give her every thing she needs because of him. I feel used. I'm in college right now and he acted crazy cause i had a project due and my lab partner was a guy. he has women calling his phone 3 in the morning but i can't do my project with some one from my school and he's nothing more than that a partner at school.I'm so stressed , i feel trapped
i can't go out, or do any thing that normal 21
year olds do. do u think I made a mistake in marrying him. ? what should I do i've been married to him since i was 19 and now in july i'll be 22

Answer 1

You mean you haven't started to pack yet...what the heck are you waiting on...to hit the lottery and split it with him? Every minute you waste with this looser is money down the drain..and money is hard to get. Speaking of getting, are you gone yet? Why are you wasting time here when you could have been gone by now!

Answer 2

First, cut off that phone! Second, do not under any circumstances let him have access to the bank account. If necessary remove his name from the account and make him get his own account and pay for his little extras that he feels he needs. If he has a problem with it, then leave him and sue him for child support. He should be willing to give up everything for his child. If not, girl, give that man his walking papers. You do what you have to do to take care of that baby. You don't need to be taking care of a grown a** man!

Answer 3

yes i think you should have packed and been gone, obviously you have to take care of everything anyway so what good is it doing you to have him around? its supposed to be a partnership but if he isn't participating in any useful way why should you feel obligated to keep up your end of the bargain. let him rot on his own, he's dragging you down with him, abandon ship!!

Answer 4

well it seems like you do everything for him anyway...so pack his stuff up in some Gucci Luggage, and be sure to get him a first class ticket to Las Vegas. While you're at it, deposit $10,000 in his bank account so he has enough money to eat...

Answer 5

Well have you went over all avenues b4 giving him curve side service, do you baby him, if so you created that if not get tough let him no you mean buss. if he don't step his game up Axe his a$$. But try to give it a chance b4 the Axe!

Answer 6

You are not responsible for his mistakes. If he wants to live like this and you don't, move on..... It sounds like he is taking advantage of you. You are a much better person and don't deserve to be treated like that..

Answer 7

Why are you still there? You should have been gone long ago. He is going to mess up your credit, his credit, and even your credibility. Get out before it gets worse.

Answer 8

I think that at the very least you two need counseling, but also sometimes you just gotta get out.

Answer 9

yep get your things and go and never look back.... 5 years from now you'll be thinking what did i ever see in him?!

Answer 10

why should you pack you pay everything so let him hit the road