Why is it that when a man has a beautiful, smart, classy lady at home he chooses to always put her down and constantly belittle her? Why must a person treat one so bad when they are so good to them? Any answers please help I am ready to divorce
2006-06-06 11:53:51 · 14 answers · asked by danaispeace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well that IS ABUSE. WHY do they do it ? Don't worry about WHY. The bottom line is he has PROBLEMS and they are not your problems unless you allow them to be. Please seek help at a battered woman's shelter immediately. They have great programs to help you understand ALL the different kinds of abuse and how to get away from it. Also why you allow yourself to be treated that way. Don't wait. IT opened my eyes. Search in yellow pages for the closest facility to you.
2006-06-06 11:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by bbq 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
cause they are insecure, they project their own insecurities onto the closest people to them. belittle , humiliate and put down are just typical behavior. If a relationship can't bring positive change to your life and enhance your growth as a person, it's time to move on!! Be it single or couple again, you soul need positive nourishment. The sooner you get rid of the source of pollution the healthier you get.
2006-06-06 11:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that person has issues and before you get hurt walk away for your own sake. sounds like he is trying to find a way out of the relationship anyway so let him go then file for spousal support if you want to. hopefully he will realize that the grass isnt always greener on the other side and hopefully you will be long gone by then and he wont be able to come crawling back. good luck...
2006-06-06 11:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder that too cause I know a woman who had a good-looking b/f at home who would work, clean the house and watch their 5 kids whenever she wanted to go somewhere, his parents also paid all their bills and got them a nice house. Then she turns around and sleeps with his 12 year old son!!! How stupid can you be???
2006-06-06 12:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Stranger In Maine™♥ (Thriller) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do this cause thier allowed to, obviously u have let him demean u in such a way that he feels its ok too. Have a heart to heart and put your foot down. If he doesnt care then he's not the one ~ The Divorce!
2006-06-06 11:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first... who says she's Beautiful, Classy? Her?
Second... A man that is cared for, and for whom his wife is attentive SELDOM treats her that way... He cherishes her.
My guess is that THIS wife is a *****... and she's being treated with the same kinds of treatments as she dishes out.
2006-06-06 11:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought that i was the only one who put up with this kind of treatment i do everything i can for him and i fix his food in plates for him run his bath water and what ever else he wont's done but that's just not good enough for him and personally i am ready to just give up and be on my way
2006-06-06 12:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by sclady62001p 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just can't seem to appreciate the people that are closest to them. You need to have a long serious talk with him and see if he is interested in saving your marriage.
2006-06-06 11:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by loligo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question.......I know a guy who treats his wife wonderful, but she does the same thing. I think it is because they are just unhappy with themselves or the situtation they are in. Better questions should be why does she allow him to do it.
2006-06-06 11:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by alwyzn2somthn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that only the morons are like that the pieces of crap that doesn't understand what a man is supposed to be like
2006-06-06 11:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Love_is_there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋