i think my wife knows i cheated on her. the thing is, i realized my mistake and don't want to lose her... i don't want to tell her the truth because she might actually leave me... now, i'm afraid she might actually do the same just to get even... we used to share friendster and yahoo mail passwords and even phone text messages... i think she's getting even on me...
2006-06-06 11:01:40 · 8 answers · asked by larry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you truly don't want to lose her, you had better be honest with her. Lies do not make a good marriage. You can't worry about what she might do- you need to worry about being honest with her and figuring out how you are going to convince her that YOU aren't going to do this again. Find a counselor, a minister, or someone to talk to. You are not going to be able to change her or make her stay- you can only change yourself....
2006-06-06 11:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by daddysnurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then you would not be angry with her if she cheated on you,i suggest you loose all contact with any other girl you have and get your priorities right start treating your missus like she is the only one and take her out and love her forget about your one stupid mistake oh but thats if you trueley love her and not afraid of what you might loose if you were to break up with her,dont do it again think about why you did it because if you really loved your wife you would not have done it in the first place
2006-06-06 18:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's the price to pay when you cheat!!! if you had a loving wife and a good marriage, what was you reason then?? you have to take the pain as much as you would've given it. Maybe she doesn't know YET, but she feels it. I think a woman can't keep such thing for herself. she will kick your ***..
2006-06-06 18:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by cosmicwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is dirty. Cheating doesn't wash off in the shower either. Sir, youre forever dirty. Youre wife shouldn't cheat on you she should leave you. Because you sir are dirty and that sort of dirt will never wash away.
2006-06-06 19:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows?? If you are that nervous about it, then you need to talk to her and tell her the truth, but make sure you stress to her how much you don't want to lose her. Everyone deserves a second chance, but if you've already used that one, I don't know what to tell you. LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-06 18:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by jennymustafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around. If your just being paranoid you desreve it. And if she is cheating on you, you deserve that too.
2006-06-06 18:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well its worse to just keep it from her and then a year later tell her. "oh yea honey, i cheated on u.....a year ago" how will that sound. some ppl forgive and forget but. thts wat happened to me this year. my bf cheated on me a year and some ago but yes it hurt but i love him so much that i had to give a second chance. so u need to tell her and not hide it from her anymore
2006-06-13 17:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sara L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is
with me
2006-06-06 18:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋