I met someone roughly in the 90's and we kept in contact throughout the years.We ended up being best friends. He expressed his feelings towards me a few yrs back in lettersabouut loving me and that he didnt want to ruin our friendship. I was married & now he is. Too make a long story short. I was thinking about him alot a few weeks ago. I managed to locate him and when I did I also heard he was searching for me too. He had to come to NY by coincident for military duty for fleet week. He expressed his feelings & I expressed mine. He said he wish I didnt get married & that the only reason he got married was because the woman was pregnant and he couldn;t have me. I am still legally married but not together. Anyway, we cross boundaries and made love. Almost everyday for two weeks. He kept mentioning to me that we have a bond. When I asked him to explain he stated that he always compared other women to me but they couldn't match up to me. We miss each other so much. He calls me all the tim
2006-06-06 02:46:59 · 5 answers · asked by yogishwife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Both of you are wrong for doing what you did together.
You both know that you want each other in a relationship/married type of relationship... you both need to fess up to your partners and get real. You both need to get a divorce and get together b/c right now you are being sinners. God don't like ugly.
Be honest to all involved and be honest to yourselves. Will this work for the two of you, how will your mates react and what will happen next if divorce is going to happen? Look at the whole picture b/c you two aren't the only people that is important in this picture.
I pray that God guides you in the right direction and you go the way he would want you both to go.
2006-06-06 03:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Deanna M9903 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both you and he need to deal with your current marriages before you start anything. It does sound like you have found the person you are truly meant to be with but, it will take time finish all the loose ends of your former life. Tell him you want to be friends for now until your current marriage situations are done and then you would like more.
2006-06-06 09:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by meggiek97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how you both view this... If he loves you more then a friend then maybe so. You may have a bond but what kind of bond is it? You need to divorce your husband and set him free if you want out of your marriage and to be with your so called soul mate!
2006-06-06 12:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be, you don't need to ask. You both would get a divorce without hesitation and make things happen, if it's truly meant to be.
2006-06-06 10:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Boss' n it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then he needs to decide what he wants from his marriage if it isn't her then he needs to move on, in the meantime you should sleep with him again until he makes a clear decision
2006-06-06 09:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋