my husband is a retard i called him and he said he would come back but not now he didnt know how long he was going to stay with mommy and daddy and she called me and told me she felt like i was using her and her husband how the hell am i doing that i dont ask her for anything like her son does and then she was going to say well a wife needs to be with her husband but he was the one who wanted to go i didnt force him then when he came back to get some stuff he told my mom there was no working it out i hadnt seen him for 1 month or even really talked to him on the phone but he came back the other day just to visit and said he wanted to work it out but he isnt willing to stay here or whatever so what the F*@$ should i do
2006-06-06 15:32:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am certain he was not a retard when you married him, so therefore, he has opted to talk to mommy and daddy about things he should be discussing with you. He needs to grow up and realize your his wife.
As for me, I would be to the point of divorce or legal seperation, so he will have to pay you child support and take the kids every other week end.
Ties him down with the kids for a while, I am sure he will be singing another tune.
If you don't have children, then it is time for you to move on, he has had plenty of time to bond with his parents prior to the age of 18. He needs to grow up and cut the close knit ties with them and stand up and be a man on his own two feet.
Mommy needs to stop giving him what he wants.........
2006-06-06 15:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by young at heart 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
man how old r u? I am 27 & married for 5 years now. Yes my husband is stupid sometimes too. But yours has issue w his mom. You should've known he was a momma's boy. you personally should leave or tell him it is over and not come back home. Do u have kids? You sound mad even in writting. It is time to move on and put his belonggings in bags since he isn't coming back. i would brake his stuff & put it in black trash bags, call him to come & get them b4 trash pick up, change the locks and get the divorce papers ready. Mail them to his momma's house.
2006-06-06 16:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by whijess03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me, but you are the one who married the retard...what does that say about you. Either love him or leave him...no in betweens here. If he is a momma's boy, I would run like hell.
2006-06-06 15:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant even finish reading this its to exhausting I say move on..aint worth it so many fish in the sea so much better tell him he can marry mother im sure they would be very happy together ewwwwwwwwww
2006-06-06 15:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him stick his head back up his mother's butt! Sounds like she doesn't mind it. And wants to blame you cause you know her precious baby boy can do know wrong....it is sad!! But yes he is a RETARD spawned from a couple of RETARDS
2006-06-06 17:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by tatgirl66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably recommend reading a book about run-on sentences and their effect on the messages you are trying to deliver. Even bitching requires punctuation.
2006-06-06 16:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i can say to u is, when two people have problems at home, thats as far as they should go and they need to be worked out at home, its hard to work something out when everyone is involved, such as family, get councling, and leave family out of it
2006-06-06 15:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he is way too attached to his mom...
2006-06-06 15:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Iowa_Bound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLAN ON NOT BEING WITH HIM.
2006-06-06 15:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by romadgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋