2006-06-06 13:10:13 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what's wrong, are they cheap panties?
I think he is banging some cute easy-going girl with a ponytail who dresses comfortably and is not a HUGE WASTE OF SKIN SNOB like you because you are too self absorbed to be good company for him.
I hope it's true, and ya know what? I hope he dipped that "social ladder" WAY deep into the gutter to find her! After all, charity does start at home right?
2006-06-06 14:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by redsoxfan11x 5 · 17⤊ 9⤋
Ok, because you even asked this question it is obvious that you love your husband and you want to give him the benefit of the doubt, therefore I will give you 3 scenarios that would prove your husband to be a decent, honest and trustworthy man.
1. They are your white panties that were washed with red sock swhich is why they are pink and unrecognizable to you.
2. You purchased the panties at a moonlight sale one night when you were sleep walking.
3. Your husband bought them for you for Valentines day and forgot to tell you. He put them in the wash because he was concerned about you picking up some weird 'new clothing" infection.
See. Now don't you feel better!
2006-06-06 13:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by JoJo Pnuckle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's a thought: buy some men's underwear (something that he might not ordinarily wear) and slip one every so often in his underwear drawer. When he questions you about them, smile sweetly and tell him the same thing he tells you: "honey, these are yours! I don't know why you don't recognize them."
On the serious side, you need to find out if:
1. He's cheating--you have to decide if you want to stay with him
2. He's wearing the underwear--which may not be a problem if you accept it. Some men do enjoy a cross-dressing now and then. If you show you are supportive, he may feel free to be open with you about this.
It's up to you what you can accept from him in this direction. I saw a TV program about cross-dressers where the wife used to go out shopping with her husband when he was in full drag. They appeared to love each other completely.
Good luck with this!
2006-06-06 14:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be concerned???? I would be a little more than concerned especially if you know for sure, that they aren't yours. He is either trying to get you jealous, to get some kind of attention(totally inappropriate way to do it by the way)or he is cheating on you big time!!! I would watch out, sounds like there is trouble here. How are things in other areas of your marriage? You guys sound like you have some other issues than this, would sit down, talk it out, get it all out, however long it takes or go to a counselor to get help! I don't know, if either one of you is interested in doing that and it may be too late already...........I am saddened when I read stuff like this. : ( I will say a prayer for you guys tonight! Be strong!Know that no matter what, you can handle anything!!! Take care of YOU! :)
2006-06-06 13:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the panties belong to Life O The Party, we could all tent out in the backyard!
The panties are yours. He has been slipping them in so you will STOP wearing those stained with bacon, white/pastel-up to your navel granny panties you insist on wearing 'because your preggo and it's more comfy'.
Poor guy is just trying to introduce a little action into the bedroom.
Put on a raunchy g string and make him smile! or laugh!
2006-06-07 03:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by Hippie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL YOU 'LL KNOW IF PANTIES ARE YOURS RIGHT? I FEEL YOU SHOULD BE VERY CONCERNED. YOU NEED TO GET HIM, SIT HIM DOWN, AND ASK WHAT'S GOING ON CAUSE SOMETIME MEN DO HAVE SICK FETISH YOU KNOW. MAYBE HE'S ONE. JUST ASK HIM BEFORE SAYING HE'S CHEATING. IF YOU KNOW HE'S NOT THE TYPE TO PUT THEM ON THEN YEA HE'S CHEATING. DON'T LET HIM KEEP LYING ABOUT THE SITUATION, IF HE CHOOSES TO CHEAT ON YOU THEN OBVIOUSLY YOU'RE NOT WHAT HE APPRECIATES. I WOULD LEAVE HIM BECAUSE HE MAY NOT STOP. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-06-06 13:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by tata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be 3 answers - one of these may be true:
1. He's cheating
2. He's having sex with other women.
3. It's really his and he's wearing them for a feitish reason.
2006-06-06 13:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, for the obvious reason, but also because he's insulting your intelligence. What woman doesn't know her own panties?
2006-06-06 13:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lotte T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you know what you buy and what you wear. If they're not yours, and there are no other women living in the house, then SOMEBODY must be bringing them in.
Not only is he a liar, he's an idiot for crapping in his own nest.
2006-06-06 13:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Chryss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Ms. Mona , Ya think! hey , I have an idea, bring in some men underwear and stroll them around the house and see how he feels.
2006-06-06 13:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by belizeigram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a 16 year old & i think every1 should deserve a second chance but honey if u seen it more than 1ce, dere are such thing as divorce papers u do no that rite lol
2006-06-06 13:13:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋