I had a boyfriend overseas after i broke up with my ex. this new guy is really weird, kinda nice but after i got to know him more i realised that he's not the type of guy i'd be with me. i mena he's a great fun but nth more. How do i explain that?
he seems a lot into me.
2006-06-06 05:13:57 · 19 answers · asked by rafinuota 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-06-06 05:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Jasmine 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is something you need to do and it should be obvious to you by now that you need to be out of what was (no longer) a good relationship for you.
My brother and his friends use the SANDWICH....They say it works.....
This is how they said they use it....They deliver the announcement.
Top Layer....
Something good about them you always appreciated, etc.
Second Layer.....
Another good thing about them or the relationship.
(this is the ketchup)
The Limitation, the MEAT of the sandwich.
You say,
I have decided this relationship is over and I am getting out of it so we can both "move on".
Fourth layer:
Another thing you liked about them or the relationship.
(this is the cheese)
The Fifth and Bottom Layer ......
I have gained a lot from the relationship and I hope we can always remain good friends.
It may sound funny, but they say that this actually works, that way you can remind friends with that person and not hurt their feelings..
2006-06-06 12:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay in a relationship you are not happy in. I made that mistake and I got burned pretty bad. Let him know that he's just not the one for you, but for someone else. Oh, and don't rush into things and look for a relationship. When I stopped looking and trying to force a relationship, one smacked me in the face and we are now going on a year soon.
Good luck!
2006-06-06 12:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by intelligentaphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him that he's a great guy, but right now he's not what you are looking for and he deserves to be with someone that wants what he wants and wants him the way that he wants to be wanted. He deserves to have someone like that, and that person isnt you. Thats what I would say.
2006-06-06 12:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like you did right now. Tell him he's a nice guy but you don't see a long relationship with him in the future.
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2006-06-06 12:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him! There is no way of avoiding him a heartache...but it is worth all the while it´s your life you are talking about. There is no real dilemma, just tell him that you feel you´ll be better off alone. Who knows, maybe he feels the same way too!
2006-06-06 12:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Toto Lotito 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you don't wanna be in a rel right now. Do you know the song by KT Tunstall or whatever her name is ? She's singing bout a cherry tree... & a horse... forget the title... Learn the song & then sing him...
"You're not the one for me... . Woo-hooooooooo....... Woooooo- hoooooooo............ LOOL.. jk. But let him know that you aren't meant to be together. (Btw, that song is good. Download it :).)
2006-06-07 18:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him its not you its me (LOL) seriously just tell him that you feel that the relationship isn't going anywhere and you don't want to hurt him so its best to end it before anymore feelings get involved
2006-06-06 12:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you, he may not be that attached yet. men don't fall head over heels like women do. i think if you cut him loose he won't sweat it. just be honest with him, and i am sure he will take it like a man. remember men are simple creatures, so keep it simple when you let him go.
2006-06-06 12:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by TKO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never write a letter, email, or call them. those are the 3 worst ways to brake up. go to a quiet place, a santuary and tell him. its a calming place.
2006-06-06 12:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him i dont like u that way or can we slow down and just be friends or eww get lost loser! take ur pick but watever u do make sure u do it before he gets any more serious
2006-06-06 12:16:31 · answer #11 · answered by Gwen Stefani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋