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I mean can a man of very low income be confident of a genuine love from a woman.?

2006-06-06 05:53:39 · 14 answers · asked by Micheal Adeoluwani 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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yes its not the money your on its your personality i would never choose someone that was happy with cause they had money and i wasnt happy with them. i was in a situation where i had to chose between someone with money a car and i wasnt happy with and couldnt be myself, and someone that lived at home was on low income and i was happy with. i chose the one on low income and was happy.

2006-06-12 20:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sure. See my question. I love my husband to death, even though he's gone without work 14 months out of the past 18. He gives me a lot of emotional support, a large amount of his time, takes me on dates occasionally, and strengthens the connection we have throughout the week.

I still respect him and love him, though I want to see him take up some form of employment. I don't care what it is, but he does. I think he thinks I'll respect him less if he gets an average job. I know I would respect him more for not allowing pride to keep us from paying more bills.

Anyway, I was working when we started dating, and I haven't stopped yet. In reality, I would prefer this be a 50/50 situation... but it isn't, and that doesn't change a whole lot, how I feel about him.

And this isn't a gender based question either, really. Plenty of men mooch off of women, and vice versa.

You should feel confident in yourself, and go out and get whatever it takes to feed the family. Plenty of decent ladies couldn't be happier than that, regardless of whether it's less than she makes, etc. As long as you're working hard to improve the situation, and trying to be as self sufficient as you can.

2006-06-06 13:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by UnrealJuju 2 · 0 0

uhhhh yes....very much so. here is my philosphy on money...money comes and goes...dont matter how rich one is ...it can be gone tomorrow...then what do u have...a woman who leaves you cuz u dont have anything...better to find someone who loves you just as you are with what ever amount you have...

i come from a wealthy family...my mom taught me at an early age..."to find a man with working hands...cuz if and when the money is gone...he will not be afraid of manual labor and that is the true test of love" ! and you know what...she is 76 and that statement is oh sooo true!!!

2006-06-06 13:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I loved my husband when he had this lil old white Honda and it was loud. He wasn't my husband then but I didn't care about money. I just wanted an honest, caring, loyal man. I've always had my mind set that if I wanted money, I'd go out and make it on my own. I like knowing that I can take care of myself.

2006-06-06 13:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by mamajoven 3 · 0 0

yeah. just because you have a low income doesn't mean that you can't find love. geez, maybe the woman has a low income too. you never know.

2006-06-06 12:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by International Socialite 3 · 0 0

Yes, love is like that Genuine, love can solve any problems and money is not everything love is happiness and more secuty than money

2006-06-06 12:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Totally!!! Actually when I married my husband, it was definatly not for money. I love him through and through. I don't think money should be an issue if you really love someone unconditionally. It might not be love otherwise, and may sound a bit shallow.

2006-06-06 12:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by scbyzgrl 2 · 0 0

Yes you can even if you have to be the one makeing the money. You love him for what he is!

2006-06-06 13:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0 0

If both are in the same monetary structure and always have been. And if the woman does not have dreams of big houses with servants, sure, it can work. Otherwise, RUN!!! RUN LIKE THE WIIIIIIIND!!!!!!!

lol!

2006-06-06 12:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Quietman40 5 · 0 0

hell yeah, REAL women are not attracted by bank accounts. maybe guys with lower paychecks get real women cause those arent the fake girls that go around tryin to get as much money out of guys as they possibly can

2006-06-06 12:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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