Friends - October 2007

I'm ditching my friends cuz the friendship I had with them went downhill and fell apart badly ... But how do I do it ? Do I just ignore then and if they try to talk to me I just act is if they are not there or go "Thats good" and walk away quickly ?? Do I not burn my bridges or do i ?? Help?

What is the best way to end a friendship ?!?!

2007-10-19 01:58:35 · 11 answers · asked by pop 4

I don't smell or have snakes in my hair, but a lot of people just do not like me from the moment they meet me. Men and women. I will hear how wonderful someone is and when I am finally introduced and I am so kind and nice and try to have conversation they will not really speak to me. The men completely ignore me and will not even look at me and the women just seem to stare at me and give me dirty looks and say bad things about me to my other friends. This seems like it is always happening and it is starting to make me feel horrible. No one seems to want to get to know me or give me a chance. Maybe I am over thinking things. I met my friends new potential boyfriend last night and he said hi and shook my hand and said NOTHING to me for the rest of the night and talked w/ everyone else. He wouldnt even look me in the eye. Plus girls I meet ALWAYS give me nasty looks & dont want to even try to get to know me. Any suggestions? Do people do this to you? Im really feeling bad.

2007-10-19 00:47:59 · 11 answers · asked by A little Southern Comfort 5

2007-10-19 00:22:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 22:49:27 · 5 answers · asked by roy a 1

I have beens friends no with this girl for nearly 4 years now (we are both 15 nearly 16). In this time we have become really close friends. So much so i really like her, i told her other friend who i no quite well aswell and she told the girl for me about my feelings for her.

Only problem is that she found out my feelings days after finding out another boy liked her. She seems to no give him prority as they never wer that close. I feel a little jealous at times with this as she is the one girl I have ever truely liked and i feel that my chance has just gone. What shall i do? (taking into account i am not that confident about talking about how feel)

2007-10-18 22:28:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

..when you can't be with the one you sincerely care and love?

and it's not some teenage infatuation - it was unexpected - started off as friends and went up the ladder - you've grown a close fondness and bond as the yrs went by...

2007-10-18 18:32:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I totallt forgot and her birthday is tommarow

2007-10-18 18:05:14 · 11 answers · asked by patrickyodasuperman 2

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2007-10-18 17:21:52 · 1 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7

I am extremely shy and she invited me to her house, but im always quiet. i feel better if there is a group of people but there isnt. what do should i talk about or do!?!

2007-10-18 17:18:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont think he realy loves me.. i think his just scared who can fall in love with and he doesn't want me to be with anyone else iif we break up. i realy think he is seeing someone else,could you tell me why does he go out with other girls?

2007-10-18 16:34:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

whole different state and I'm not use to being with these kind of people. At my last school there were only native americans but here there are only three and I feel like an idiot when people are talking and I have no idea what they are talking about. The people here are really nice but I just can't seem to fit in... someone help... any advice will do.

2007-10-18 16:20:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I met a mom who joined my playgroup website. We met at a local bookstore for storytime, with our kids. We had a little bit of language barrier problems but I was patient and tried to be all ears and supportive during our conversations, even though I sometimes didn't understand when she spoke and vice versa. English is her 2nd language and I think Russian and German is her first. She was also blunt and showed no expression and very rarely smiled. I tried to be friendly and smiled often so her first impression of me is positive. But my first impression of hers was not so good but I smiled anyway and tried to be positive.
When I emailed her when I got home, I included in the email "Sorry, we had a little bit of language barriers. Hopefully, this will improve in the future. :-) " I also confirmed the date of our next meeting.
Well she emails back and says "I didn't have any language barriers. I understood you perfectly. Maybe it was you who didn't understand me."
This is offensive.

2007-10-18 16:11:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going out with a few of my girlfriends tomorrow night and am completly out of ideas. I would like something fun, unique and inexpensive. Any ideas?

2007-10-18 16:09:09 · 2 answers · asked by belizeable 4

We are adopting a newborn soon and one of our not-so-close friends wants to throw us a baby shower. We only see her a few times out of the year and I really don't get along with her. Why would she be wanting to do this when she never really calls and we are not close??

2007-10-18 16:07:34 · 3 answers · asked by Tilly123 1

Don't get me wrong or anything, but I usually go out with my friends and eat. I mean sometimes I feel embarassed to be by myself but sometimes I rather be by myself. Yeah I know this might sound funny but one year of high school I sat by myself. I wasn't a loser just none of my friends had the same lunch as I. I don't care of what other people think of me but I don't want it to be like weird or anything if I'm alone eating.

2007-10-18 15:46:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i did get beat up by a gurl last year and these guys keep asking me "is it true u got beat up by _____????!! " everyone knows its true already and that i didnt even bother to fight back! i thought it all blew over. y are they bringing this up now? well anyways, its kinda embarrassing saying "yes i got beat up"
so wut should i tell them to stop bothering me?!

2007-10-18 15:39:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay well first of all I am a 10th grader; so yes give some advice to a teenage girl! Well okay I New school and trying to make friends. In all my six classes, only 1 of them is where I can talk good and be myself. don't exactly know why. It just feels more comfortable perhaps because Im in the back row. But I don't talk in front of all the class or ask questions to my math teacher. I tend to talk to the kids around me and start conversations. I have been shy since like when I was little, so laughing and joking around is a huge step in me when it comes to school. I do have an outgoing personality so I pretty much love talking. The thing is that I have trouble making friends in my other classes. Like I don't have the same confidence. I feel all boring, quite, and lame I feel like a loner!in about 2 of my classes I completely stare at the walls around the center of the classroom! its complete different types of people that I have trouble with! like the "loud" kids! and also boyss!! help

2007-10-18 15:39:30 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3

I have a friend, her name is Nina and last year she start liking this boy named Ian and she ditched me (an asian girl) for a girl named Mariana, who now i hate so much!! And now I don't have that much friends this year and I fell bad for myself because I think that I hate myself, just letting a friend backstab me like that. What should I do?

2007-10-18 15:37:51 · 4 answers · asked by liljinia101 1

2007-10-18 15:26:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my friend useed to like this guy for like a week, so nothing big. But then he started flirting and hanging out with me and now i really like him but my friend freaked out when she found out and now shes all mad at me. She liked him for a few days and now that me and him are getting serious she claims to HATE him eventhough i know shes just jealous. Now she's giving me a hard time and turning all my friends against him and she's starting to treat me so bad. What should i do? Is this my fault?

2007-10-18 15:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by Christa M 1

What if you dont talk as much as you used to but the reason is that you simply dont have the time..she thinks that i dont want to talk to her, so she got mad and wre in this big fight were she just hates me..whats up with thatt?? please telll!!!

2007-10-18 15:18:00 · 5 answers · asked by vmichii75 1

I regret just about every decision I've made throughout my life. I wish that I could redo it all knowing half of what I do now, but I know that that won't happen. Anyway, I'm sick of always being the good guy. I've always gotten good grades, followed directions, listened to my overprotective, psychopathic mother, helped out those in need, stayed out of trouble, etc. I may be on the path to success in life, but I never have any fun. I also believe that people chose to take advantage of me based on my good guy reputation. I'm sick and tired of it. I have a lot of friends but we never do anything. When we hang out, we just sit around and watch time go by. I want to get out and just go crazy rather than being cooped up in this house for the rest of my life. Am I right or what?

2007-10-18 15:09:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

so today is my b-day but im going to celebrate on saturday.. my friends are having a party back home and invited me out to it.. i havent seen some of them in a really long time and would really like to go.. on the other hand.. one of my co-workers is throwing a huge halloween party and everyone i work with will probably be there.. i just got hired into this company a few months ago and would really like to go to establish a better relationship with my co-workers.. plus it just sounds like a lot of fun and i have the perfect costume idea.. hehe.. i cant go to both parties either since they are about 2 hours away from each other.. so which would you choose and why??

2007-10-18 15:06:39 · 12 answers · asked by Kevin H 3

I am a freashman in high school, and I have started to notice one thing- that people (especially girls) like being around fun and funny people. How do I achieve this goal? Should I be worried about this, or do I just need to relax? Thanks!

2007-10-18 14:29:49 · 4 answers · asked by Drew S 1

ok you know that "rule" where you dont go out with your friends ex? well so i liked this boy and he liked me back but we never went out (long story just go along). we liked each other for about a year and then he became a playa and i stopped liking him. but during the time i liked him and he liked me my bff became really good friends with him cuz she wanted to know if he like me. meanwhile i think she started liking him. so now they both like each other and they are gonna go out. she started crying cuz she thought she was a bad friend but i wasnt really mad at her (i still kinda like the guy). should i be mad? what would you do?

2007-10-18 14:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by m 2

A blockmate of mine in college appears to be the "Little Miss Sunshine" in our class because she always has a smile on her face and appears to laugh a lot. I used to like her company because I thought she was fun to be with, until she keept making seemingly ambiguous negative remarks about me in front of my other classmates, from the way I look to the way I behave. To make things worse, she always makes sure that she includes my other friends in the conversation and makes me feel left out. My other classmates eventually told me that she told them that she didn't like me at all, and I couldn't understand why because I did not even do anything to her. Help! =(

2007-10-18 14:18:42 · 6 answers · asked by etherealkisses 1

2007-10-18 13:38:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

The situation is that we dated briefly in high school, but stayed friends throughout the years. I'm married now, and he's in a longterm relationship, but they don't live together. I don't want to get in touch so that we could rekindle anything. Even though we did date, we were friends first and foremost, and the dating took a back seat.

We had a lot in common, and there were times he was there for me when my own family should have been and weren't. For instance, I was in the hospital when I was fifteen, and my family didn't come, but when I woke up he was standing at the foot of my bed.

I was really ill for several years and things in my life went terribly wrong, and the same happened to him. Anyway, because of my illness I became really withdrawn and lost contact with everyone I knew.

I was thinking of dropping a note and a book I wanted him to have in his mailbox, and explain what happened. I wanted to let him know that even if we don't see each other (continued)

2007-10-18 12:55:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my friend imane likes this guy. last year, she was really good friends with him and would hang out with him almost everyday. this year for some reason they dont hang out with eachother as much. she wants to find something she can do so they become friends again. how? what can she do? help

thx

2007-10-18 12:32:40 · 3 answers · asked by lala b 1

Her name is Kristina, and she's in my class, I've liked her since 4th Grade, she's Cute Funny and Kinda is men but also nice, I kinda wanna tell her I like her, but a ***** let's just say "Dora" will make fun of me and say bad ruors please help me.

2007-10-18 12:28:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous