Friends - October 2007

WE still owe $13,000 for the car but the insurance company only wants to give us $11,000. Is there anyway we can get them to pay for the total amount of what we owe or do we have to settle for thier first offer?

2007-10-01 19:00:48 · 2 answers · asked by jason b 1

she keep calling me and i dont want to tell her not to call me. i feel bad if i tell her that.

2007-10-01 15:13:02 · 9 answers · asked by Shugufta 3

My friend always talks about her fablulous life and her other fabulous bff. I am sick and tired of hearing about her. Can't she talk about anything but herself??? Should I tell her in a nice way, igonore her e-mails, or ignore her?

2007-10-01 14:43:04 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ l'amour est tout 1

my best friends has been going out with this guy, & i have nothing against him hes a good friend of mine but like.. hes kinda a sucky boyfriend & he gets pissed at my friend for like the stupidest & littlest things & he told her she cant even talk to HIS best friend.. so hes like becoming controlling & he always makes her cry but she doesnt realize hes a sucky boyfriend & like idk what to do cause i cant tell her "oh brake up with him hes controlling" but i need a way to show her how controlling he is, since like everyone has told her but she doesnt do anything about it! help please?

2007-10-01 14:30:09 · 11 answers · asked by hello :) 4

My friends and i want to dress up as something. there are 3 of us. it doesnt matter if it is a girl thing or a boy thing and it doesnt matter if it is only like 3 of six. Some of the things we had in mind were like the Wild Hogs. Thing One and Thing Two, The Benchwarmers etc. Does anyone have any other ideas? we really need some help.

2007-10-01 14:08:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let's be mean to Karl, it's not like he has fellings!

2007-10-01 13:11:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 12:47:02 · 4 answers · asked by lavender_x_bloom 2

okay so my friend and me havnt seen each other in about a year im seventeen and were getting together this weekend. me and her twin brother who is my age also have had a crush/ dating thing going on for longer than i can remeber there has been nothing official and we've only gone to first base. my friend(the sister) does not know about any of this. me and her brother are trying to figure out when and where i can give him a little action (thinking a bj) but we dont want to be interupted. so when and where should we do it.

2007-10-01 12:37:20 · 13 answers · asked by fongirlz4 1

I believe my boyfriend is gay. he is a musician who travels around the country alot and his driver is gay I just found out. The driver cooks for my bf, serve him his meals. I asked my bf why couldn't he get his own meal, he said the guy was just being nice. I called his hotel suite the other day it was 4:00p.m. they were both sleep and the driver was snoring so loud as if he was right next to my bf. I ask my bf about this and he said the guy was 8 ft away. Whenever they don't have gigs they stay in the hotel rooms 2 or 3 days without coming outside. He told me they have separate beds and all they do is eat, sleep and look at tv. My bf and I always share our fantasies and his is with another guy giving him oral sex. I've asked my boyfriend if he was gay he says no. I suggested he get rid of the driver because of my insecurities, he told me casually he'll start looking around and doesn't understand why I am making a big fuss and he doesn't like the fact that I'm doubting him.

2007-10-01 12:24:12 · 3 answers · asked by Ebonee 3

A female friend of mine whom I've gotten to know rather well over the past 3 or 4 months has shared quite a bit about herself to me. She says she feels comfortable talking to me. A while ago she told me she was bi-sexual and not to tell any one which I never will. I'm sort of a private person and don't tell about my life to too many people. My spouse is an addict/alcoholic and we have had many problems but I'm still with her. I've never told this to anyone. My question is since my friend has shared her secrets with me should I share certain things about my life (besides my wife) to her. Thanks guys.

2007-10-01 12:16:45 · 2 answers · asked by Nash M 1

i only remember his first name,town, and school we went to. please help

2007-10-01 12:16:40 · 1 answers · asked by candygirl 1

my best friends who i am EXTREMELY close to and my ex girlfriend who is close to my friends as well have been all goin out together a few times lately and i havent even been invited at all. Did i mention i am still extremely in love with my ex girlfriend who i dated for a year and 8 months, its been 4 months since we broke up. is this right for my friends to be doin this because it hurts me. i still love my ex and it hurts to see her out and having fun without me and it hurts to know my best friens dont even invite me out with them...its almost like they are chosing her over me. what do i do, cuz this seems totaly wrong to me or is it just no problem at all?

2007-10-01 12:06:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i lost one of my friend's necklaces that he lent to me, i had no idea the ring attached to it was a family heirloom, if i had known i wouldn't have even accepted it being lent to me. well the point is that i lost it, i'm afraid to tell him. i've only known him for like a month so i dunno if he will be able to forgive me, if he's a true enough friend yet. you think he'll be so mad he won't speak to me again or worse?

2007-10-01 11:54:16 · 8 answers · asked by A Lonely Kitty__♥ 3

Well to make a long story short
theres this girl in my 3rd period english class who saw I had manga with me and she asked if I could bring the first volume of one and i said sure ...... but now I'm not sure I'll stay true to it becuase I only see her during science ad I don't really know her

The problem is I don't wanna appear to be a mean person and/or a liar
Should I just simply tell her that "I'm sorry I can't let u borrow it"

2007-10-01 11:48:17 · 3 answers · asked by THFNB F 1

2007-10-01 11:36:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

He talked to me about it recently and now that he feels like I know too much he has kind of shut me away too because I called him on his patterns.

He gets in relationships, moves in with the person, lasts about 1-2 years, then he decides it's over but he doesn't tell the other person. He just looks for a job in a new state and moves away and in the process breaks up with the person.

Then he shacks up again, gets a new job, one or two years later moves again, etc.

He also can't handle feeling bad. If someone says something to him that makes him feel bad (because he really did something wrong he should feel bad about) he gets very angry with the person and cuts them out of his life forever.

I have never met anyone like this before, and I am kind of feeling like trying to stay friends after these years is too hard. But I don't know what I should do.

2007-10-01 11:35:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've fallen out with one of my best friends over eating problems [which I've got help for] and we've had a huge argument in which she's really upset me to the point of self harming, told me I'm attention seeking and to piss off. I told her I wouldn't speak to her again. I really don't wanna lose her, she's a fantastic friend and I just wish my problems would stop getting in the way of my friendships. Do I deserve friends? Should I just give up and hide away from the world? I don't know what to do. I feel so bad for everything I've put my friends through, but, at the same time, I need my friends, they've helped me through everything so much. Without my friends, I'm nothing. At all.

But.. Also without friends, I'll just give up on myself. Let my eating problems spiral. It won't matter if no one cares.

Someone, please, what should I do? Try and resolve the friendship or leave it and let her have her life back.

If the person this is about sees this, I'm sorry.

2007-10-01 11:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by .x*Emma*x. 2

Ok well he just won as vice president, what he really wanted, and he was happy at first, but all the teachers are nagging him more because, well hes not the most "well behaved" person, and the teachers say now hes vice president he has to set an example, he is thinking about resigining and i dont think he should do it, he is in office with his best friend, but if he resigns out new VP will suck! My frined i thought would do the best job but i mean, is there anyway for me to convince him to stay in council?

2007-10-01 10:19:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my ex broke up a week ago. Basically because we both work a lot and go to school and its not fair to each other we dont see each other. It was his decision to break up but he is insisted on staying friends because he cares so much about me. He said he really does believe there is a chance of this working later down the line but stress from work school and arguing about not seeing each other made the relationship not fun anymore. Could this be a thing of right for each other but not right now?

2007-10-01 10:00:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a best friend, of over twenty years, who has two small children. I have been involved with her family since she got married and love her children like family. She often complains her own family doesn't spend enough time with her kids and they act like it's some sort of "obligation" to come over on the kids birthdays. I love spending time with her and her kids and often offer to baby sit or whatever if her and her husband need a break, especially since their own families seem to often be "too busy" to help baby sit. Here's my question. I get upset/dissapointed because whenever she has a birthday celebration for her kids she invites "family only". I don't get invited because I am not a relative, even though her brother in laws girlfriend can come. Do you think this is right? I've spoken to her about it, but she says birthdays are one of the only times her family ever sees the kids and she wants to keep it a family event.

2007-10-01 09:54:29 · 12 answers · asked by Disney Dreamer 3

2007-10-01 09:53:11 · 13 answers · asked by sonia aziz 1

Okay, shortened version: I was once close friends with someone. Life and circumstances being what they were at that time in my life, we grew apart and haven't had contact in years. I recently reached out to this old-friend with an interest in keeping in touch and possibly rekindling our friendship now. While I'm happy about this, there is one problem. She is most likely still in contact with someone else from my past who I lived in fear of for a long time. Someone who I do not want to know anything about me or my whereabouts, as this could pose problems for my family. So, how do I go about talking with this old-friend and updating each other on our lives over the years, without letting her know important info about me that could get back to this other person? I realize that NOT TELLING is the best way, but I don't want to offend her by saying - I can't tell you cuz it could get back to that person, as this could surely squelch any changes we have of being friends again. Any ideas?

2007-10-01 09:52:50 · 3 answers · asked by I, Sapient 7

I am a 23 year old guy, and I still live with my parents. I've tried going to college so many times in the past but I just can't seem to concentrate on the work. I think I have ADHD or something. I feel so hopeless now. My parents are sick and tired of having to provide for me. The only jobs that I can get are minimum wage jobs. The cost of living is relatively high where I live so there's no way I'd ever be able to afford my own place. I just feel like giving up. I would never actually attempt suicide, but I have been finding myself thinking more and more about how I might "accidentally be killed". Why should some drunk driver hit and kill some innocent person filled with life, when they can hit me instead. I just don't know what to do anymore. My parents hate me and I know I just can't live with them for much longer. I'm ready to die. My time is running short. Hopeless, and seeking an answer.

2007-10-01 09:49:22 · 15 answers · asked by The cool dude 1

OMG!..am sooo bored with my life. I just turned 20 in Aug and I can probabaly tell you how mant times I've been out with "friends"..I dont even have friends really...especially now after HS, although mot of my "friends" were more like acquaintences than anything. I start college this coming spring but I am really just bored to death that sometimes I am just a negative energy(I think because am so lifeless..literally) toward my family...I hate that I dont have friends, I dont even know what its like to hang out regularly feels like anymore..I want to live life to the fullest but I dont know where to start. Its so frustrating that I could cry even. Am like an old lady, everyday(for a reallly long time..maybe even 2+ yrs) is a routine and am not even exargerrating...seriously..having real friends to hang out with is like fantasy to me..please give some advice, am burning myself wayyy out!

2007-10-01 09:40:13 · 1 answers · asked by Cilantro 5

My friend's birthday is in a couple of weeks, and I have NO clue what to buy her. She is into cooking, scrapbooking and video games. The problem is that anything she says she wants, she goes and buys, leaving nothing for her friends to get her. Any suggestions??

2007-10-01 08:53:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 07:18:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently, my fiances friend moved in with us. I was completely against the idea, except we can use the extra money. It is not like we need it to get by, but it is helping because we are saving it up.

THe roommate is driving me NUTS. Everything he does annoys me. It has been 4 months, and I really put in an effort to get along, but I just cant.

I dont think its natural for a couple (who are getting married next year) to be living with a bachelor. I hate it, and there's nothing I can do. Asking him to move out would cause a riff between him and us, and what else can I do but suck it up and deal with it? We are moving to a new place this spring so I just have to hang in there til then...

It is causing problems between my fiancee and I. I am trying so hard to live with his guy but he is just extremely annoying. I don't want to go into too much detail, but there is just a huge long list of things he does that drive me batty.

How can I deal with this better?

2007-10-01 06:54:59 · 7 answers · asked by LifeLove 3

Is it normal for your guy friend to ask personal questions like if u want to have kids and is there any guys on the scene. My male friend is very flirty and has been asking me the questions. Im a gal by teh way . I havent known him that long

2007-10-01 06:28:22 · 12 answers · asked by slinkthemink 1

am 24 (Female) and my boyfriend ,22, reckons he's not good looking. What do you think

This is a pic of him

http://www.friendsreunited.co.uk/fr.asp?wci=gallery

2007-10-01 04:00:02 · 1 answers · asked by mip_010 1

2007-10-01 03:57:39 · 7 answers · asked by Sorry deleted 4