Friends - October 2007

he gets high and drinks a whole lot.

2007-10-06 14:18:49 · 7 answers · asked by Becca 1

this girl in my class is always talking to soemone else and whenver i try to tlak to her she always gives me this look and plus how do you make firneds with

2007-10-06 14:13:27 · 12 answers · asked by 2cool2bnice 1

Ok. I have this friend whose mom is really crazy. Ive known her for years and her mom gets mad at her for everything. She has 3 older sisters that got pregnant at either 14, 15, and 17. My friend is 15 now and she also has a younger sister who is 5 years old. The mom has a drinking problem and her sisters all make her watch kids and shes in school and everything she hardly does anything. Her mom just broke her tv and phone for NOTHING....just because she was sleeping and her little sister came in the room and started making lots of noise and her mother took her little sisters side. I wanna go to like social services but I feel like its not in my part. Shes scared to talk to someone because the rest of her family will call her a b*tch or a brat which shes not. I dont know what to do because she is like my best friend and shes a good person who doesnt nothing but watch other peoples kids. Can you help me please?

2007-10-06 13:33:42 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ I Love Lamp 4

2007-10-06 13:32:02 · 3 answers · asked by Tinkerbel 1

for me friendship is everything in my life,ive alot of friends in my own country but at the moment im in another country.Im a student,ppl here r okey but ive hard to love ppl.But i love my friend she was my roommate last year we had so much fun and she was like everything for me she filled the empty space i had coz of being away of everyone.but now we cant share room but we live in the same house,i feel that we r not that close anymore and it hurts me it actually kills me.i love her too much to loose her...but whenever i try to get in contact and talk about this issue or when i ask she either dont answer me or just say thats not true...but how can i make her to understand me and get her back as my best friend?coz without her i feel so lonely in this countryyy

2007-10-06 11:45:52 · 7 answers · asked by mimmi 1

My bff does and people are always making fun of her because of it i wanna no what other people think!!!!!

2007-10-06 09:34:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

The female equivelant of being kicked in the testicles being hit in the breast while on your period.

I need to know cos I accidently hit my sister there,she was in severe pain and said it hurt like crap cos she was on her period.And she said it was,I'm just wondering if she's correct.

Thanks for answering!!!

2007-10-06 09:34:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother that I thought was close with me stopped dealing with me over a year ago over something very petty. It really hurt me, particularly since I had just given him $1,600.00 of money that I could've benifited from by keeping. He's married and has a family while I'm single with no kids. I was there for him with the cash because I thought that we had a bond that was special. When he stopped speaking to me suddenly for unkown reasons, I tried to find out what the problem was and what could be done. My Mother and other brother claim to know what the probnlem is but they wont say. I feel they are co-signing the situation by not stepping in to say enough is enough and encouraging my brother to resolve whatever his feelings are and to contact me. I can't contact him since he has moved, but he knows how to contact me. I haven't done anything to deserve this, and I'm certain of this. I feel my mother has always been happier taking sides with my brothers as long as it hurts me. Help!

2007-10-06 07:26:54 · 3 answers · asked by sustasue 7

when im in school, i think i am different, yesterday a new teacher of history got to the school, she was presentating herself when suddenly she asked if she was making a joke cuz i was smiling since she got to the classroom, then a guy from my class told her that i was happy all the time, and the rest of the class agreed with him, but i dont know how i feel anymore, because right now i can feel like laughing out loud but in a whiole i can feel like crying in a corner, but they say i am happy all the time, and looking it at that way, im always laughing in the school, but yet, sometimes i feel really sad, but the side of me that they know is being happy and smiling, so it is that i really am happy all the time and i feel sad because of the wrong thing, or is it that they only know that part of me?

2007-10-06 06:58:18 · 2 answers · asked by jose r 3

Ok.. trying to make this short... i'm a guy.. my best girl friend.. is..well.. a girl. We've known eachother for 3 years but have been great friends for 2.. we're in tenth grade now.

We've been through so much together... i have thousands of emails messages saved in my inbox just from her... we always talked and shared our thoughts with eachother and everything.. during 9th grade we went to seperate high schools but that didn't stop our friendship.. it got stronger.. this year for 10th grade i switched to her school from the private school i was going to (i hated it)... we've had our ups and downs, but we've always recovered... but now.. recently.. i feel like she doesn't even know me... she hardly ever talks to me (talks to other ppl tho).. doesn't even look at me in the halls.. i mean.. i feel like if i just vanished it wouldn't matter... its not like her to do this.. i've talked to her about it and its not getting any better... i know she has a lot on her mind.. but i mean she

2007-10-06 05:37:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-06 05:08:57 · 10 answers · asked by Amit S 1

I recently found out that my best friend (and her b/f) are jealous of me b/c I want to pursue grad. school... I've written a letter in hopes of calming down and asking for their support but haven't received a reply.

But I don't get it.. I've gone through this more than enough times in my life.. every time I try to move "up" or do something progressive, like others have shot me down or call me names, try to brag in front of me, make phony accusations about my life, etc. I've been active in a disability organization and actually have been sent hate letters for being "opinionated," "different" and such when I try to speak out.

Do other people get this? I try to live humbly, I'm nice to everyone (and I'm shy a lot too!), I sometimes think I'm even a dork or a geek. I'm a tiny 4' little person, so I don't think I'm a threat to anyone. My parents tell me it's b/c others are jealous of my accomplishments or whatnot, but I don't know how to deal with this anymore.

2007-10-06 04:45:05 · 3 answers · asked by two_design_kitties 3

I am a bit angry right now; just don't know whether I should show it.
My friend was abroad for 2 months because of her course. Before that we were really good mates and would meet once a week at least for one of our chats. She's been back for 2 weeks now and she hardly returns my txts and keeps saying she's busy. Anyway I will see her tonight because she's going to a party of a common friend. Am I right to be annoyed or am I being b i t c hy? Should I do the whole "I don’t even care" thing or just be nice and friendly like it never happened?

2007-10-06 04:21:20 · 6 answers · asked by baby jesus 2

Do you have to keep your distance or even avoid certain friends because they drink too much alcohol and smoke way too much?

2007-10-06 03:33:11 · 14 answers · asked by Allergic To Eggs 6

nothing too serious . just lookin for someone to correspond with, someone who knows how to have fun and talks about anything. i'm 15 and french so i'm lookin for someone between 15 and 18.
if u r interested e mail me

2007-10-06 01:14:47 · 2 answers · asked by ima_scare_yo_2nite_yep! 2

A friend of mine asked me for to have sex with him because it would "mean the world to him." I do not want to but everytime I turn him down he trys to put me on this guilt trip & basically says i am a bad friend because I wont do this "one thing" for him. He keeps saying that if I were a good friend I would have sex with him because it would mean to alot & make him really happy. All he says is I have no idea how much this would mean to him and that he would do anything for me so I should do anything for him.I really don't feel comfortable with doing anything sexual with him but he wont drop it. In the past he has also tried really low things like saying he is going to killhimself & his last dieing wish is to have sex with me.Thing is he is alot older than I am & I can't help get the feeling that he never had friendship on his mind to begin with. Should I just stay away from this guy?

2007-10-05 22:38:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok all I want to do is pick up a friend that is 15 mins away. But no I can't, because my mom is afraid that I'll get into an accident and my friend will soon later sue me. That is if I don't kill her in the accident. And I'm not one of those bratty irresponsible teenagers either. I'm 19. And I take driving very seriously. But I respect that its my mom's car and all. And she does trust me but she doesn't think I have good judgment. I've been driving for 9 months, and I need some independence! Is it that my mom is just making it harder for me to see my friend, because she discriminates against gays? Or is it because she's afraid that her insurance will go up. But the risk of getting into an accident is the same if I drive to school or a friends house...so I don't know. But I'm exhausted to the point I can't argue anymore. What can I do?

2007-10-05 20:00:57 · 9 answers · asked by Kate 2

One of my closest friends wanted to go for a hike this weekend but had no specific ideas where. She asked me where I wanted to go, so I threw out 4 or 5 ideas, but she got really upset and called me back saying she was cancelling because she had something else in mind and blamed me for wasting her time because she had to ask for time off from work and such, and she seemed insulted by my other hike location ideas. I feel like she's overreacting and I don't know why she'd get so upset.

2007-10-05 19:33:36 · 8 answers · asked by /\|][/| 4

My best friend always uses my money for lunch. She says she will pay me back or pay for our lunch the next day but she always says she "forgets". I dont know if i should believe her. She barely ever hangs out near me anymore. Only at lunch. During PE or at our break time she leaves me for another friend. But if that friend is busy or something then she comes back to me. She always asks me for the answers on homework, she always asks me for rides, lunch money, or money for when we go to the mall. When we go to the mall, i buy her ticket for the movies, or i buy her what she wants, but she never pays me back! She knows i dont have a lot of money, but she asks for some anyways! I think she's using me. But she's my best friend, she said she'd never do that. But is she using me?

2007-10-05 18:42:17 · 25 answers · asked by Hil 2

About 6 years ago I hang around with a group of friends and I notice they always talk smack about this one chick behind her back and then they were cool with her when she was around. I just thougth that was messed up so one day we all went to the mall in different cars & I end up going in her car and had alot of time to talk without the rest of the girls. I just end up telling her how much crap they talk about her behind her back. She took it well and was'nt surprice at all about what was happening after that we never talk to them again. After being her friend for about 6 years I notice that all the **** they said about her was so true. She's a selfish lier . Little stuff she done in the past made me realize she's a two face . I wish I would of kept my mouth shut in the beggining . I been patient with her but NOW IM ABOUT TO EXPLODE what should I do.

2007-10-05 18:27:47 · 13 answers · asked by Nonya 2

im 18
hes 21
i went to a party
the point is that we were all really drunk
me and one of my guy friends were lying down on the grass
and he started touching me everywhere
i dont remember that much cuz i was so drunk
but i know that we didnt do more than that

now i have to see him at school
i dont know how to act
i dont have a bf he doesnt have a gf
but i meen were just friends and i never though we were gonna do that
i dont like him he doesnt like me he tells me he likes another girl and i like onother boy
so i just want to know an opinion
was i wrong in letting him touch me

when i see him at school
when were talking or something he all of a sudden smiles or laughs a little and i know that hes laughing cuz hes remembering

so do yall think this is going to change our friendship??

thanks

2007-10-05 18:25:53 · 7 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2

Met this person after she had been rejected from a group of her friends for apparently no reason. Felt sorry for her - started inviting her out with my friends. She seemed level headed, confident and friendly (bit annoying sometimes, but not too bad). Recently had a uni rotation with her where she started hanging out with me all day (even though she was supposed to be working with another group of ppl). At first didnt mind - she seemed lonely, but then it escalated to the point she seemed to be making up white lies and changing her story so that we could be together all the time. She would even use subtle manipulation to further our 'togetherness'. She keeps on inviting herself to things i do with my friends and ringing my house.

Told me about her time in high school where she was rejected and taunted, & almost would have self harmed. I get increasingly annoyed by her presence (to the point i cant enjoy myself), but dont want her to hurt herself. Also still feel sorry for her....

2007-10-05 18:04:16 · 5 answers · asked by daine 2

my wife died suddenly last year. of the many people that we spent time with on a regular basis, only 3 people have stayed in touch with me. about 65 people came to the service, and I got cards from people, but they didn't make any further contact. I keep thinking that I shouldn't have had to call everyone when my wife died, and they should have stepped up and been there for me. Am I right to have thought this? Should I have had to call everyone? Just because they were busy? Everyone's busy, but when your friend loses his wife, you step up and you are there if you care about them. 3 years before my wife was critically ill, and I had this one guy that was there every day for 5 weeks - he sat there with me in the ICU every single day in 2003, and then when she died, he didn't say a word to me for a year. He came by my house a year later and then told me he didn't know what to say. I'm just trippin on these people. I know I need to forget about it, but I'm still confused..thanks

2007-10-05 16:43:54 · 6 answers · asked by art_flood 4

I feel like my life doesn't matter...like if I moved nobody would even miss me.... when im with people and ask what people say about me behind my back they just say nobody talks about me... it's kind of depressing me. I try to be nice and become friends with almost every1 I meet but they don't seem to care. Yet the jerks get talked about and recognized all the time.. I feel like I don't even matter sometimes... what should I do to be more recognizable?

2007-10-05 16:22:10 · 5 answers · asked by superdupernick12 1

ok so this guy asked me(a girl) to be his "fruitloop" wat does this mean!!!!

2007-10-05 15:58:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-05 15:42:59 · 7 answers · asked by Girl 2

Yea,well lately I always have been down alot,like,I felt all nice and kind towards people back then,and now Im 13,and Im being mean towards others,feel all bad about myself and everything! What the h*ll is wrong with me!!Does anybody else get like that or is it just me?Now everybody practicly hates me and talk behind my back!

2007-10-05 15:40:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend hardly talks to me anymore since she's gotten busy. I'm busy too but I would be happy to make time for her if she was up for it. She once said that friendship mostly takes motivation, which we can control. So, with that logic, it means she doesn't care about me anymore, right? She's not motivated to talk to me because she doesn't care, I guess.

Does that mean she was just using me when she used to talk to me everyday before? Because now that she's become busy and has made new friends at her workplace, she doesn't talk to me as much. That would seem like using, but maybe I'm missing something. But I guess I'm not as important to her anymore, either way.

I still love her...she's one of my best friends...but I think she's moved on :[

Tell me a story of your own if you can relate. I'm in a misery loves company kind of mood...

2007-10-05 15:17:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the best way for a shy guy to meet new people or even to meet girls? maybe places you have in mind? i have tried everything to break my shy streak and nothing seems to work. got any ideas???

2007-10-05 14:56:49 · 5 answers · asked by Empty_Glass 3

The girl I was going to go to homecoming with just left me for someone else! This is unfair!
I already got tickets and everything! What should I do with them?

2007-10-05 14:08:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous