Ok.. trying to make this short... i'm a guy.. my best girl friend.. is..well.. a girl. We've known eachother for 3 years but have been great friends for 2.. we're in tenth grade now.
We've been through so much together... i have thousands of emails messages saved in my inbox just from her... we always talked and shared our thoughts with eachother and everything.. during 9th grade we went to seperate high schools but that didn't stop our friendship.. it got stronger.. this year for 10th grade i switched to her school from the private school i was going to (i hated it)... we've had our ups and downs, but we've always recovered... but now.. recently.. i feel like she doesn't even know me... she hardly ever talks to me (talks to other ppl tho).. doesn't even look at me in the halls.. i mean.. i feel like if i just vanished it wouldn't matter... its not like her to do this.. i've talked to her about it and its not getting any better... i know she has a lot on her mind.. but i mean she
2007-10-06 05:37:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talks to other people ALL the time! I just don't know what to do... is this just a phase or something? Do u think she will come back around and be my best friend again? I know friends come and go.. but we haven't changed any since 8th grade... i just don't know what to do.. i feel so lonely.. and it feels like part of me is missing... what should i do? I love her like my sister.
2007-10-06 05:37:53 · update #1
I think that is pretty sad, if you tell her this thing and it hasn't change you will have to understand that friendship is not forever, and maybe she is not the same girl that you knew and loved, people change and you will have to change too someday. The only thing you can do is try to get new friends, I know is hard to leave the feeling that you miss your best friend but someday you will have other friends and you won't feel that again, try to think positive an remember that nobody is alone in this world full of people.
I hope this will help you, and i hope your friend realize that she is missing a very cute person with wonderful feelings.
i wish you luck.
2007-10-06 05:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by expensive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 10th Grade I suppose you're both about 15 years old. You have moved from another school into an environment where your friend already had her own circle of friends which she had established without you. It's always hard to join an established friendship group, especially if your a boy trying to join a group of girls (if she hangs round with other girls mainly). Your friend's relationship with you was something that happened in a different environment to school. Perhaps you should just be friendly to her at school but ask her if she would like to do something after or at the weekend when she isn't with her school friends. Perhaps she is embarrassed about having a boy as a friend and worries her friends may make fun of her if or tease her about having a boyfriend. Also at 15 girls' interests expand and she may have a wider circle of friends now. This doesn't mean she likes you less but she is dividing her time differently to accommodate all her new friends and interests at a time when she has more responsibilities such as school work or maybe a part time job. You will soon make other friends too and she won't take up such a massive proportion of your life as you can share your time with a wider group of people as well. Just carry on being friendly and show no resentment and she'll still regard you as a friend.
2007-10-06 05:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you "love her like a sister" In HS most girls are looking for a little more. She may be concerned that there is more or that there could be jealousy issues that she doesn't want to deal with. Even though you have been BF for so long it may be time to move on. I know it is difficult but there is a world of people out there and when she sees you are OK she might feel OK being friends again. Just try to meet new people and take it one day at a time. It is hard now but it does get easier. Good Luck!
2007-10-06 05:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arlines answer: ok maybe some people r talkin **** about u and gettin her 2 not like u or maybe she thinkz ur a nerd or maybe she thinkz dat u think dat she wantz 2 goout wit u but i think u should get urself a new bf 2 get her jelouse shell come runnin 2 u trust mi i no diz
Boys Answer- Okai, litsen up. Friendships can only last so long, so you need to stop bothering the chick. Obviously, she is not interested anymore so just leave her the hell alone. bothering her won't change much, it will only make her hate your *** more. She prob. found better friennds that dont apporve of you. maybe she thinks your strange. So just dude, build a bridge and get over it
(not rude, brutually honest)
2007-10-06 05:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by AskingAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her about it! Don't do it aggresively, be tactful, but ask her if she's really avoiding you, and if so, why? If you did something to offend her, see if you can resolve it. Ask one of her friends if she's mad at you or something.
If all else fails, invite her to do something you know she loves and won't say no to. Spend some quality time with her. Sometimes, especially if you've both been really busy, all it is is that you are drifting apart. Hang out in a non-school setting where you can both be yourselves.
I think I'll take my own advice this weekend. Some of the same things have been happening with my friends; we aren't in the same classes and simply never see each other.
2007-10-06 05:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by LittleLost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two possible reasons to her behavior:
No. 1: She may have feelings for you, but keeps away from you to control them.
No. 2: It's always sad when this happens, but she might just be moving on and making new friends. Some people stay friends for life, but others make other friends and get drawn away from their old ones. If this is the case, make some new friends, and show her you can have an equally good time without her. She may then try and make the effort to be your friend again.
2007-10-06 05:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Emma H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something about high school changes things. It can ruin a friendship you had since kindergarten let a lone 8th grade. Just try telling her exactly what your tellin us and see how she reacts. If she still doesnt change back than you need to accept that ppl change and ppl suck. It'll be her loss...
2007-10-06 05:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha1029 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have talked to her about it, there is nothing else you can do. People change and grow apart. That's life. Join some clubs and get involved in student government, sports, yearbook, music, etc. You will meet new people and make new friends. Don't waste your time feeling bad about something you can't change. Just move on.
2007-10-06 05:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 05:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her like a sister. Tell her you miss her. Tell her you can't stand having her be like this and that it's just so different and lonely not having her as a friend. She'll come around. Don't stop trying to get her back to normal, but don't be annoying about it. Good Luck...Sincerely.
2007-10-06 05:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋