I am a bit angry right now; just don't know whether I should show it.
My friend was abroad for 2 months because of her course. Before that we were really good mates and would meet once a week at least for one of our chats. She's been back for 2 weeks now and she hardly returns my txts and keeps saying she's busy. Anyway I will see her tonight because she's going to a party of a common friend. Am I right to be annoyed or am I being b i t c hy? Should I do the whole "I don’t even care" thing or just be nice and friendly like it never happened?
2007-10-06 04:21:20 · 6 answers · asked by baby jesus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be nice and friendly to her, as something might have happened to her that might have knocked her sideways. Bring it up that she hasn't got in touch but don't lay it on thick as you don't want to lose a good friend. Everyone needs some space now and again no matter how close you are. Good luck!
2007-10-06 04:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is just find out what was happening when she wasn't answering your txts, and say it's OK. The chances are that she was just busy, and you should not throw away a friendship because you didn't know what was happening. Just go to the party with a happy attitude and it will all fix itself once you get talking. And don't dive into a conversation by asking her what the hell she was doing not paying attention to you. Ask how her course went and when you should catch up.
2007-10-06 04:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jake T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you imagine how busy you would be just coming back from a long trip like that? Plus I'm sure everyone wants to hear about it. That being said, she hasn't been very sensitive to you. My suggestion is that you put your snit on hold. When you see her, ask her to set a specific date for lunch, just the two of you. Then, when you're alone together, explain nicely how she hurt your feelings. I'm sure she'll apologize and everything will be fine. If you overreact to this, you could blow a good friendship. So, try to stay cool.
2007-10-06 04:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by Terri J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PLAYING GAMES is never good in any relationship. It just creates more bad feelings. Just be honest with her when the time is right and tell her you are hurt.
2007-10-06 04:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would completely ignore her..you've been dropped..she's beiing very unpleasant so leave her to it. find new friends and don't bother with her. friendships come and go and it's alot less painful if you just let it happen. people come into your life for a reason and a season..when time's up..the loving thing to do is to let them go.
2007-10-06 04:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by minerva 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about going in neutral?
2007-10-06 04:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by sundsqk321@sbcglobal.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋