Friends - October 2007

I saw uhhh my bro making out with a handheld gaming system O_O (god this is so stupid) Help me out here before he becomes the next Hitler

2007-10-31 10:18:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-31 10:18:22 · 5 answers · asked by Pam S 1

2007-10-31 10:16:59 · 1 answers · asked by patsy 1

Well...I have had a good friend of mine for the past few yrs that is a Italian living in Italy (he speaks good English). Then, all of a sudden he told me that he started feeling pain in his body. After about half a yr, he told me they found a cancer in him but was not worried because he already has a plan for a surgery with a well-known doctor.

Then later, he told me the surgery was not successful and that he was just going through the treatment while planning for a next step.

Now I can't get in touch with him any longer. My emails get returned to me (his email account doesnt exist any longer), his cell phone is disconnected....I have his house and apartment phone numbers but when I contacted the numbers the people who picked up the phone said "No English" and hang up on me so...at this time I really dont know what to do....can anybody share their thoughts on what I should do as a friend?

Im really concerned about him.... sigh

2007-10-31 10:16:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I moved in with an old highschool friend in august. We signed separate year leases. The apartment is TINY without any common area outside of a tiny kitchen, and i have an 8x8 room. Such little space would make it hard to live with even the perfect roomie, which this girl is NOT. Without getting into details, its bad enough that I want out. I found a new place, and i want to move out a little before jan.
How do i tell this girl that im leaving? Ive already tried getting her to look into getting a bigger place with me, but she doesnt want to be bothered right now. Its her first time living away from home, and she doesnt have any friends in this city except for me. For years she's been going on about how I'm the "perfect roomie" and how she's so happy, but I'm miserable. We're on separate leases, so if i leave she wont have any problems rentwise. I know she'll still feel abandoned. How do I break it to her gently, and perhaps preserve the friendship?

2007-10-31 10:11:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

or some reason im kind of shy around guys some times. i have a lot of guy friends, but sometimes there are awkward moments.. lol. i cant think of anythin to talk about except things like how are you, etc... and i wanna talk about other things i just dont kno what. its funny cuz i have some guy friends that i can say random things nd be retarded around... lol, and i can say whatever i want and comes to my mind, its just easier to find something to talk about. but with other guys (includin this guy i had a crush on, but its not just crushes) i cant be like that, i dont know why. i am shy at first but once i get to know the person i let lose. thats just the way i am. but how can i help avoid or being less awkward with other guys????

2007-10-31 10:07:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

and you don't know what to say or do...

2007-10-31 10:04:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to go from most unwanted kid in class to most wanted kid in class!
Why
I will explain a list that shows why i am not wanted

1. I ask a nice question and one boy always replys "Because it saw your face"
2. No one wants to be my friend
3. I keep being called names like "Gay retard, retarded,"
4. They think i have brain damage.
5. I even have a crush on a girl but she already has a boyfriend.
6.I am just sick of this crap.

Please help me.I would add anyone that can help me to my contacts for sure.PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

And i am 12 O_O

2007-10-31 10:03:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been feeling really down recently and one of my friends has told me that she self harms. I've never thought about self harming but for a while I just feel so depressed and like I want to die. My other friends don't care - they don't notice much of what's going on in my life. I'm really stuck and I seriously need some help. Any help would be good so thanks in advance.

2007-10-31 09:58:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this really good friend, Josh, who moved to another state this May. I've kind of lost contact with him, and I'd really like to find out his address/phone number so I can write/call him. I've tried some online search websites, but they aren't really working. It's really important to me that I find him. Please help!

2007-10-31 09:42:34 · 25 answers · asked by dancegirl.victoria 1

What constitutes a friend to you???..........Is the word "friend" used too frequently when we're talking about an "acquaintance"????...........What makes a person a friend and not an acquaintace........While we're at it in cyberspace are we "friends", "acquaintances" or correspondants???.......Share your thoughts..........CAT

2007-10-31 09:28:19 · 12 answers · asked by Sandi 4

Loose - not tight enough, as in "these pants are so loose they're going to fall off"

Lose - get rid of something, as in "I need to lose weight"

2007-10-31 09:26:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am living with a roommate who is constantly talking about herself in negative ways, such as "I wonder if men think I look good". At first I was saying things like, "Of course they do". But then she started talking negative about her family and how no one loves her or ever will love her, and she does this every day. She walks around telling everyone about how horrible she is treated and cries and cries to me every night, then eats to make herself feel better. I've tried to suggest ideas such as going to counseling, reminding her how wonderful she is, but it seems like the more I encourage her, the more she complains and whines about no one caring about her and her life sucks. It has gotten to the point that I don't feel like with her, because she will talk about everything that is negative. It's like she is doing this for attention, because all she does is tell everyone. But at the same time, it's like she wants to stay in the same spot. How should I deal with this situtation?

2007-10-31 09:10:14 · 6 answers · asked by mochaflavoredmami 1

if you think i was imposing when i invited you to go to the cinema, please tell me. I don't want to be awkward and i just wanted to be nice. I'm writing this cos i think you might have got the wrong impression.

I got a message from this guy i know and i'm so confused! I didnt think anything more of the fact that he invited me!
Sorry to be vague

2007-10-31 08:57:15 · 7 answers · asked by duck duck duck goose 2

2007-10-31 08:41:40 · 8 answers · asked by y e s i 1

evening folks,if your boyfriend went out on a night out with friends and ended up at lap dancing club.then paid for a dancer to dance for HIM.would you have a problem with it?

2007-10-31 08:41:31 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have two friends who always hurt my feelings some way or the other. I don't talk to them much now a days. If I stay with someone else they call me a "chape"(which means that you stick to other people like glue) behind my back. It's difficult for me to patronize others cuz that's not my thing. I need some advice on how to deal with them.

2007-10-31 06:58:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Say it's a friend (and just a friend) you are very open with and you are talking about sex, sexual stuff etc, and you notice he's excited. Do you check it out? Do you say something? Are you offended? Any comments would be appreciated. I had a similar situation happen so I am looking for advice.

2007-10-31 06:30:49 · 23 answers · asked by Josh B 3

I see her 4 days a week and she wants to know how they were but I don't want to seem unappreciative of the jesture. But I also don't want her to think I enjoyed them because she'll no doubt cook them for me again. We've known each other for about a year now and she's a really nice person but I don't want her to ever cook for me again. How can I say that w/o being rude.

2007-10-31 06:05:53 · 6 answers · asked by daqueen_v 1

Stalking sounds really harsh but its the only word i can think of. I asked a few questions about this before but i'll just tell you the story again. I met this guy on a course and he seemed alright. I'm a sociable type of person so i went out to the club with him and that type of stuff. I just want to stress i'm 100% straight. As time went on he started to text me everyday and phone me every few days. Now he texts around 3 or 4 times a day on seperate occasions and phones most days. I try to be nice but he's really starting to freak me out. He doesnt know my address but when he hinted for it and i didnt respond he said "ill go into the course, print off your CV and get your address" with a laugh in his voice. He also always says things like "oh you love my voice dont you" when hes on the phone. He even said we should live together and other things. Theres a lot that doesnt make sense. He said he was beat up but had no marks on him. He was talking to me at midnight one night...

2007-10-31 05:51:06 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had this friend named mel and she always told me that my other friend cloe (who has a 5 month old) takes really bad care of her child. That her baby named julia is losing a lot of weight and she can't even hold her head up and that cloe barely bathes her. Well i went to mels house one day and she was crying saying I can't believe how sick julia looks she looks like she has a dieses. well being scared and having a 3 month old myself I did what was best and called the police to tell them that there was a sick baby and I think it has to do with neglect. Now I didn't do this to have the baby taken away I just wanted to make sure that she was ok. So I gave my name becuse they said that they wanted it and I told them that I do want it anonymous though. The cop went over there to see how the baby was doing and said that she looked fine. Also he gave out my name which I told them not to. Now she wont talk to me even though I apologized wouldnt you do the same thing cause you were worried?

2007-10-31 05:49:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

so I was drunk with my best friend's boyfriend and a few other people, and someone said that a friend of hers was having a party this weekend the same day I'm having mine. I said **** that ****, her parties are always the same three b***hes sitting around doing nothing, which they are (I'm normally not this vulgar by the way). and all I meant to say was that her party will be gay and that everyone should come to mine. Anyhow, for some reason I started naming the people that will be there and I said it will be heather cristin and his boyfriend (as I point to my buddy). I would never mean to say something like that about my friend and as soon as I said it everyone was like ah ****. and I told him I didn't mean to say it like that.

If he tells her I'm obviously in trouble, but thats not what I meant at all, can I chaulk it up to the alchol? Do you think she'll understand?

2007-10-31 05:35:54 · 8 answers · asked by Nate 6

WHERE HAST THOU BEEN???
Are you still happy with/in LOVE, or has it failed you by now.
I have missed you?
Are You Well, my dear???
Lots of Love
Abi G.

2007-10-31 05:34:59 · 1 answers · asked by skydancerwi 6

Whenever I talk to this person, he becomes very aloof and doesn't talk to me. And whenever he does talk, he acts as if he does not want me to be his friend. Slowly, I stopped talking to him. But now, we hardly talk. We do nothing. I want to talk to him and be his friend. What do I do? I'm a guy. And he's not my crush.

P L E A S E help!!

2007-10-31 04:46:08 · 32 answers · asked by i 3

Does anyone here live in Rocky Mount, NC, or anywhere close by like Nashville, Wilson, etc?

2007-10-31 04:24:46 · 4 answers · asked by I think I'm Dumb ~Amy~ 7

for your closest friend ?

2007-10-31 04:07:02 · 27 answers · asked by rudeguest 6

ok, yesterday at school i found out a guy who i was fairly good friends with died. he was only 16 and he had heart problems and before school his parents found him dead. at first i was REALLY shocked and i didn't believe it, but then i was sad. When i went home i was crying a lot.. but then i kinda went numb.. like seriously numb -- my body was tingling. then i was laughing at werid stuff and i just couldn't concentrate on anything.. idk.. is this normal? and is there any ways i can get over all of this quicker. i have dealt with close ones dying before but this is different cuz he's my age. plus, me and him used to be good friends but this year we didn't talk as much so now i feel even worse and guilty.. plz help me!!!!!

2007-10-31 02:44:43 · 10 answers · asked by jade<33 2

ohkay. well my bff is effin lame all she does is play this gay online game maple story and hang w/ her reatrded bf and we like never get to chill or do anything no more so ppl wht shud i do???

2007-10-31 02:42:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

if it's platonic?
some of my girlfriends, and such told me I have guy friends just because I am "pretty" and they really don't want to be "friends"
that isn't true is it?

2007-10-31 02:07:27 · 15 answers · asked by Dots 4

For instance.... with winter coming on, we should give a thought to the elderly who may feel the chill and not venture out as much. If you didn't see that person, would you think there was something wrong and would you be concerned enough to pop round and say hello?

2007-10-31 01:22:35 · 1 answers · asked by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7