if it's platonic?
some of my girlfriends, and such told me I have guy friends just because I am "pretty" and they really don't want to be "friends"
that isn't true is it?
2007-10-31 02:07:27 · 15 answers · asked by Dots 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No who you have for friends is up to you, You cam have a mixture of both genders , Just make sure that the guy knows from the start that it is friendship not a relationship you want.
You will soon discover who is a real friend and who is hoping for more.There will be some guys who think they may get lucky if they become friends with a girl but there are some who would love to have a female friend to talk with. And if you have male friends as well it makes it safer for you and your other friends when you all go out .
2007-10-31 02:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In some cases men don't always want to get into a woman's panties. With that being sd, some women find it easier to deal with male friends than it is to deal with female. You don't have to deal with the pettiness, complaining, jealousy and the list can go on. The only down fall with having a lot of guy friend is if you should get into a relationship and the guy you are with cant handle you friendship with the other guys that can cause problems, but other than that in my opinion it's less stressful
2007-10-31 09:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No that is not true! When I was a young girl I ONLY had guy friends! I had no girlfriends at all. It's great to have guy friends. I think your friend is just jealous. Guy friends are the best! They keep your secrets and they are not a gossip. You keep doing what you are doing. GOOD LUCK. BLUEBUNNY
2007-10-31 09:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by BLUEBUNNY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel okay with guys as a friend, I have many of them. They're pretty helpful with things that girls can't do and we can have more topics to talk about. Hanging out with boys doesn't mean that it's a bad thing.
2007-10-31 09:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer to have guy friends. I'm not like alot of women, I don't get into shopping and gossip and stuff like that. I prefer to swill some beers while watching a game or out fishing and doing guy type stuff.
2007-10-31 09:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes unfortunately this is probably true unless they are gay. When a girl is really pretty she has what is called 'orbiters', guys that are her friends but secretly want to have sex with her and hope that they might one day
2007-10-31 09:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad to have a guy friends...I have a lot of guy friends and i like them more then mu girl friends...Becouse they don't like gossip...If you tell them something personal you are sure thet no one will find out!!!But if you tell something to some of your girl "friends" the whole town will know it!!!So becouse of that and a lot more I prefer guy frinds!!!!And there is nothing wrong with that!!!!
2007-10-31 10:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by little.dot 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah i have lots of guy friends who are just platonic. its possible- just dont give them hope. if you wanna just be friends make it clear from the start so you arent in any akward situation.
2007-10-31 09:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why those gals are just JEALOUS of you wishing they had more guy friends. I dont see anything wrong with having guys as friends.
2007-10-31 09:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not true , having guy friends is good , means you get a mixture of topics to chat about
2007-10-31 09:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by Fr3dinbed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋