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What do you do when your friend leaves his gf and wants to go back to his ex girlfriend who has caused trouble for him in the past, nearly ruined your friendship and is just a b*tch in general?? how do you convince him that he's making the wrong choice without getting him mad??

2007-10-30 23:41:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

feel of my friend

2007-10-30 21:01:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend that at times I really enjoy being around. Other times, she makes stupid comments like, "I used to sit around feeling sorry for myself all the time, but I don't anymore." After I confided in her about my husbands physical and mental abuse, less then a month after it happened.
Today, after I called and told her about a job she wanted. I told her about my step-children's new hamsters. She then asked, did their mother get them for them? I felt like it was a jab, insinuating I would never do something like that for them. Which is intirely not true.
I've gone from talking to her everyday to a couple times a month. I've never told her how much comments like these upset me. Should I? Or should I just stop talking to her all together?

2007-10-30 19:40:38 · 17 answers · asked by steffi 2

2007-10-30 19:18:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have 2 extremely close friends. one is goin through a very difficult time. the guy she loved is gettin married in a week's time. final exams are goin on & she's ruinin them. she cannot stop thinkin about it because this guy's house is right in front of her house and she knows every activity that takes place there. we've tried our best to convince her, her tears don't stop, she doesn't stuy either. i'm concerned, pls help.. thanks in advance..

2007-10-30 19:12:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to be honest. I'm intelligent and well read for my age...for any age actually.

I can tell you about the fauna of the taiga, discuss Nietzsche and know something about every country in the world but...I dont know who I am.

I dont know what my opinions are as I keep agreeing with other people, I'm not assertive, I don't know how to make small talk and I don't know who I am. Everybody around me seems so confident and so outspoken but I feel like part of the furniture.

How can I be 21 and still not know who I am. It hurts.

2007-10-30 19:01:23 · 3 answers · asked by Liwah Farah 2

I'm a 17 yea old guy,
How can I get them to stop, 9 out of the 10 people I meet eventually call me spoiled.

Is there a way that I can make them stop? Its just getting old now...

2007-10-30 17:42:32 · 17 answers · asked by B-Rad 4

2007-10-30 17:32:19 · 7 answers · asked by loseit 2

I'm looking for a friend of my mother in the Usa, but i can not find her phone number, because i live in Italy, i know that she live in New York around Woodsbury probably, near a beach, if anyone is interested to help me, please send me an email and i will write you the name to search on the phone book.
I thank you in advance, Leo

2007-10-30 17:22:44 · 6 answers · asked by anubi_85 3

My Boyfriend and his family whom i love beyond belief and are pretty much the most important people in my life, have a grandson. Well it's His grandson. The boy is 10 & i have asked a few questions before regarding the kid. He is beyond any 10 year old i have ever seen. he calls his mother a *****, uses the f word like it was candy, hits any one he so chooses with a big metal bat, tortures the neighborhood animals and on and on and on. his family says that he just has a few issues and to let him be. Well i'm not going to let some obnoxious out of control little brat hit me with a bat or call me curse words that no kid has any busines saying. But it is also not my place to correct the kid. i feel totally uncomfortable in the house when he is there. But i don't want to hurt my Boyfriend or His family. How do i tell them i can't be around when the kid is there without it sounding like an ultimatum or needlessly hurting them?

2007-10-30 17:15:19 · 5 answers · asked by purple dove 5

hes way too hard on himself and never accepts compliments.

2007-10-30 17:03:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been going out with this guy 4 almost a year. the problem is that he lives in another country. i used 2 be there and then i moved here last year. he never keeps his promises. he says he'll do this and he doesn't do it. if he knows that he cant do it, why does he say he will. i broke up with him three times...and we end up going out again. that was because he doesnt contact me for more that a month. i really don't like that. recently, i told him that its over between us and that i cant do this anymore. i called him and told him that. he said that he loves me and we should keep it going. so i told him i'll think about it 4 a week. he promised 2 call on sunday. sunday came and he never called, plus he said he was gonna send me an email and he never did.
sometimes he'll say he mobile gets stolen or something came up and he couldn't call. he has an email address but he doesnt send me emails. i dont mind him now calling..but at least he can send emails. what do i do?

2007-10-30 16:32:12 · 3 answers · asked by Aggie 2

I recently told my parents about a man who molestered me and my friend since we were 6 or 7, I can't really remember. It was definitely before we were 8. Anyway, I'm 13 now. But they want to send me to a counsillor, but they said it's my decision. I know it would be good to go to a counsillor. But I can only talk to one person about all of this, and that's my friend who went through it too. But the problem is, we both moved to different countries a few years ago, so she now lives in Australia and I now live in Ireland. I can't even talk to my parents even though they've known for a few weeks now. They try to talk to me, but i hate it and end up hiding under my quilt or something. I'm scared of what questions a counsillor would ask, what do you think they would ask? I don't want to relive the experience again and have to talk about it, and i don't want them asking awkward questions.

2007-10-30 15:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by *DAMAGED --x 3

This is not just a "relationship" question...it relates to all friendships and other relationships in life. Can love transcend the issue of trust at times?

2007-10-30 15:20:56 · 53 answers · asked by maryfromwalnutcreek 2

First off, I'm a 20 year old college male. I've been shy all my life and I guess this branched off into being awkward and having a lack of confidence. To give you an idea of how shy I am, I have no friends at college (I've been here for 3 semesters) and I have only 2 good friends at home (when I'm around them my awkwardness and lack of confidence almost disappears). I also joined a club in college, do dorm activities, but no help. I have never remotely been close to having a girlfriend and the last girl that I could call a friend was in first grade. I'm very attractive, however I know it doesn't mean squat w/o confidence. I try to put myself into social settings more (as in class group work) and when my peers are talking in class, but everything I say just gets blown off and no one really wants to hear me. Is it at all possible to improve myself or am I screwed for life? Thanks in advance.

2007-10-30 15:16:51 · 3 answers · asked by surftaco600 1

Her sister used her the way my "friend" used me so I thought she would understand. She told me not to be negative & wouldn't even listen to me! Her sister & my ex-friend were friends.

My so-called "friend" stayed with us for 6 months, no expenses, I bought not only her needs, but her wants, cigarettes, vodka, etc.

2007-10-30 14:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7

what can i do to make it better or more exciting?

2007-10-30 14:15:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

in the gym,and then have a silly grin on her face from a distance.And then when you ask her about what's funny she says nothing.We had good convos a few times,but she is doing this lately.(passing by me in different sections of the gym).

2007-10-30 11:01:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok. I am 15 years old and i am in high school. Everyday, in my health class, close towards the end of the day, this big kid in my grade and this little kid in my grade always bother me. The big kid and the little kid are friends and they have two other group friends in the class at the same time. The big kid pushes me and other class kids ask him why he's doing it and he says: "because he's pussy" and still pushes me. I pushed him back once, and he said: "push me again and ill punch you in the face". I tell him: "why would i push you for no reason, its because you pushed me, that i pushed you back". Then the bell rings and class starts. The little kid, you can say, is the class clown. He talks alot and makes jokes during class, to which a majority of the class laughs, sometimes even me. This kid makes really, perverted jokes like the average immature, high school kid and the other kids laughing, fuels him to keep going further. I feel really bad when he keeps making jokes, please help!

2007-10-30 10:46:05 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just found out yesterday that some kids are planning on egging and t.ping my house for halloween. and me and my so called best friend got into an arguement starting with that im overreacting and ending with we'r no longer friends.

do i have the right to be furious???
would you be???

2007-10-30 10:35:39 · 56 answers · asked by BUBBL3Z <33 2

2007-10-30 10:28:35 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

I have said 'SORRY' to my dad most number of times.

Then mom.

But hey, i have been with them for 18 years. My best friend (female) isn't far behind.
I met her 2 years ago & i have said sorry to her thousands of times.
So, at this speed, she will become #1 in that list in 1 year i think

2007-10-30 10:18:30 · 13 answers · asked by The Great Montitude 7

im just really worried,im always lost in my mind and i dont speak up in lectures or tutorials or to my lecturers themselves!i feel so nervous trying to make friends and thinking of joining clubs as i think people will view me solely as a weird loner!!and reject me,im a nice person when people give me a chance,what will i do?it gets me down quite a bit and i cant be a dynamic active person when i wake up in the morning,as when i have to speak to others im either shut off from them or i come across as slow as im not practical,im abstract and find it difficult to be practical about things,what am i gonna do?i really need help,i dont want to be a weird loner,do you guys view girls like me as such?

2007-10-30 10:16:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi, I'm sixteen years old and I am going to a new high school in maryland, I'm from El Salvador and I would like to know how people is going to be like with me: kind, friendly, angry, upset...¿? how, what do you think? and what do you think I have to be introduced to the class¿??

2007-10-30 08:30:12 · 10 answers · asked by Audrey 4

are people really your friends if they don't like what you do or wear and benasty about it?

2007-10-30 07:03:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I'm a 15 year old, and I'm moving to Toronto, Canada with my family. I've never been there, and I jez want to find out how people will treat me, I'm from Russia...are people nice in the High Schools, or is it like in the American movies?
Are people smart, or okay-ish, or what?
Are they crazy about boyfriend/girlfriend like in the US?
What do people wear? Things they do? Popular places to visit? Some good schools?
Please help, I'm desperate!+D

2007-10-30 06:36:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay...im tall and have big boobs...sorry but i do...and according to them i walk like donald duck sticking them out. so a) i really dont think i do b) they are D size, they probs stick out anyway, c) at least one of them walks like that aswell, but the thing is its getting old and a bit offensive, does anyone have any advice for me on how to get he to shut the f*** up?

2007-10-30 06:03:43 · 34 answers · asked by Emmy W. 3

my friend is always bailing out on our plans. i am sick of it. shes one of my best friends but shes been doin it ALOT lately. its like she'll hang out w/ me unless she finds something better to do. THEN she ditches me. shes completely nice, but can she NOT see that it hurts my feelings? when i TRY to talk to her about it, she says i'm really sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry....but it never changes.

2007-10-30 06:01:23 · 5 answers · asked by dance*dance*dance* 4

i wanna know if i get an answer out of interest and because im trying to find someone lol

2007-10-30 06:00:43 · 20 answers · asked by blue skies 4

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