my friend is always bailing out on our plans. i am sick of it. shes one of my best friends but shes been doin it ALOT lately. its like she'll hang out w/ me unless she finds something better to do. THEN she ditches me. shes completely nice, but can she NOT see that it hurts my feelings? when i TRY to talk to her about it, she says i'm really sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry....but it never changes.
2007-10-30 06:01:23 · 5 answers · asked by dance*dance*dance* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wouldnt call that nice and especially if she has done this before and you have mentioned it to her that is just down right hateful I am sorry to say that friends dont constantly do these things...tell her that you want to be her friend but that you have needs to be met too and that you are hoping to find someone else as a friend...bet she changes or that you have a new friend really soon..thats mean I wouldnt do that to you
2007-10-30 06:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she must not be that nice then. Have one final talk with her and tell her that if she doesn't change you are going to have to stop hanging out with her. If she still does it, keep your word, she sounds like an awful friend anyways.
Good luck!
2007-10-30 13:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by b-E-C-C-a 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to stop asking her to do stuff.
this might sound mean and i am sorry but it sounds to me like she is using you as a plan b. and that is not fair.
you stop calling her and asking you do stuff. if she calls you back then go from there. but she will probably not call you back and you just found out what a person she really is.
you can't do all the effort in a friendship. if you are doing that, they are not a friend. you deserve better.
2007-10-30 13:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by baby_sunshine_4eva 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
maybe she has good reasons behind it. Talk to her, it might solve things.
2007-10-31 18:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by [*sMiLe FaCe*] 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start doing it to her a couple of times and see what she has to say about it..........
2007-10-30 13:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by reddbbird92 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋