Why are kids in my class bullying me?

Question

Ok. I am 15 years old and i am in high school. Everyday, in my health class, close towards the end of the day, this big kid in my grade and this little kid in my grade always bother me. The big kid and the little kid are friends and they have two other group friends in the class at the same time. The big kid pushes me and other class kids ask him why he's doing it and he says: "because he's pussy" and still pushes me. I pushed him back once, and he said: "push me again and ill punch you in the face". I tell him: "why would i push you for no reason, its because you pushed me, that i pushed you back". Then the bell rings and class starts. The little kid, you can say, is the class clown. He talks alot and makes jokes during class, to which a majority of the class laughs, sometimes even me. This kid makes really, perverted jokes like the average immature, high school kid and the other kids laughing, fuels him to keep going further. I feel really bad when he keeps making jokes, please help!

Answer 1

Stand up for yourself. If you become too difficult to tease, they'll move on to easier targets.

Answer 2

God, high school sucks doesn't it? I can sympathize with you 100% because most of my elementary and high school years were tortorous. The only way this is going to stop is for you to stand your ground. My son was always overweight and there was this kid who was half his size and always made fun of him. My son would get so upset because he wouldn't fight back which would piss me off. Well finally...my son just had it. He told this kid to get off his a$$ and said he was not his friend anymore. If this kid pushes you, you need to push back, no matter how afraid you are of getting hurt. If he says "push me again and I'll punch you in the face" say "go ahead and I'll make sure you're suspended". Either that or if he lands you one in the face, do your best to keep hitting until he goes down or a teacher comes and breaks it up. Don't tolerate bullies hun. You'll be doing it your whole life if you don't break this now! Good luck.

Answer 3

You should seriously report these kids to the principal. I tell my son to go up the chain of command. First tell your teacher, if they persist with the bullying, go to another school employee, and then the principal. Most of all, tell your parents. The bullies of today are not the bullies when I was in highschool. They don't just tease and taunt you now, they ruin lives and the bullying can lead to some horrible violence. These shootings occured because the kids were bullied-

Luke Woodam-Pearl, Miss.
Michael Carneal-West Paducah, Kenn.
Kip Kinkle-Springfield Oregon
and the most famous bullied victims of all, Dylan Klebold and Eric Harris.

By no means am I justifying what they did, but you need to go to an adult and have these two stopped. Don't think of it as ratting or snitching, think of it as preventing this from happening to another student.

Answer 4

The truth is that the kid who's pushing you was taught that behavior by someone else. There is a chance that he himself is bullied at home. It's hard to tell you what to do since I don't want you to get punched. When I was bullied in school, I always ignored them. They won't keep bugging you if you stop giving them a reason. When you respond, you egg them on. That goes for the jokester too. It's hard since the rest of the class laughs, but eventually it will come back and bite him in the butt. Take comfort in that.

Answer 5

OK if u tell a teacher u r a wimp but at the same time u r being responsible so u make some friends in health class gang up when he does or have a signal if that does not work get the teacher to step in at a certain time he will get caught but try 2 make friends with him

Answer 6

I haven't been in high school in ages, but it's amazing how little things change! I'm glad that I took the "high" road by ignoring or taking whatever they dished out (I happen to know one bully who has been in and out of jail so many times that the judge just says, "You again?". Seriously!).

All I can say is, these days, schools have low tolerances for bullies and jerks. Report them to your counselor or principal (they will protect your anonymity), but don't expect miracles. Sometimes, it just makes things worse. Or, you can take a martial arts class, and teach the bully a lesson (you can't hit a class clown for acting like a buffoon; besides, some of them might become President of the United States!). ;)

Good luck!

Answer 7

High School are your main suffering years. Your not a nerd at all. You are obviously just more mature than your classmates and this is a problem for them because they still have a long way to grow up. You just have to put up with that stuff while your at high school and look forward to the future when you wont have to spend any time with those kinds of people. Try and stand up for yourself as much as you can and remember that the fact they are picking on you does not mean that there is anythiong wrong with you.

Answer 8

Look, being a pansy is no way to go through life. Next time he walks up to you to give you trouble, punch him in the face, knee strike the gut and then jump on him until you are pulled off. Yeah, you may get in trouble and suspended for a few days, but you will have your self respect. That is priceless.

Or just go tell. Create a paper trail of trying to get the bullying stopped. When the school sees they may be held accountable for your safety, they will then act. Until then the lazy, public school beaurocrats will do nothing.

Answer 9

They are bullying you because you are easy to pick on. Stand up for yourself. You don't have to be the biggest kid but fighting back earns you respect. Even if you do get beat up. Make sure you land the first punch. Hit him on the bridge of the nose. The pain and blood will stun him for a bit.

Answer 10

You're immature for your age, I must say that. I know how you feel, been there, done that. You just ave to get over it. ave some self confidence. He pushes you, push him back. And don't excuse yourself for doing it. If you pick a fight, and you come home all bloody and broken, at least you would've stood up for your rights. Don't let those people humiliate you! You're better then them, they're immature idiots. Just be self confident. That's the key. No one should make fun of you. No one. Stand up for yourself for god's sake.

Answer 11

The solar plexus in located above the abdomen and below the chest in the center of the body. The brachial plexus is located on either side of the neck underneath the ear. The nose is... well you know.
Do a one two three number and that asshole should drop like paper.