Family - March 2007

My life at home is h*** and my life in school is worse. I just got into lots of trouble at school and I need some good advice or help.

2007-03-26 08:31:22 · 6 answers · asked by Zmflavius 3

why do ppl av a prob with goths?? i mean i am a goth n i only 13. n i tlk 2 ppl on the internet n when i say i goth they say i dont want to tlk 2 ya i dont like goths which can be a bit hurtful sometime but i dont care anymore i am wat i am n ppl will av 2 deal with it. but what is wrong with them we are all the same under a **** lot of make-up.

2007-03-26 08:30:19 · 5 answers · asked by me_4_pete 1

Even my underwear, which is extroardinarily disgusting and irritating when I'm looking for a certain pair to find out that she has had them for a whole month, sometimes longer. She always says "I didn't know it was your underwear?" and such but that is undoubtedly a lie; she is not stupid and she knows whos underwear is and isn't hers. She also uses my computer and electronics after I've said no, or without asking... considering she's on her fifth phone in the past year and hasn't gone a year without breaking and electronic of hers to an unusable state, this really irritates me. What can I do??? By the way, she's in the eighth grade and I'm not that much older than her if that helps tell the situation.

2007-03-26 08:29:22 · 10 answers · asked by QT Patuty 2

I live in a 3 bedroom house with my parents, brother, cousin and boyfriend. my sister had a baby and works nights so the baby stays here to and sometimes my sister does,

me and my boyfriend got our own room, but when my sister says we sleep on the settee because I have the biggest room so the cot fits in there, my little cousin who is 7 got mentally abused so my parents took him in, so we turned the back living room into a bed room. my brother got his own room and my parents, it is so over crowed I cant even breath,

I am in full time college so I cannot get a job that will help me survive if I move out, my boyfriend cant work because he left school at 12 and these days you need qualifications. my brother did move out but came back because him and his g/f of 6 years broke up. ARGHH

what can I do?!?! I cant ask my parents for help because they have no money what so ever. I have been on the counsil list for a year but still nothing, please help

2007-03-26 08:19:26 · 4 answers · asked by Leanne1988 1

I was just wondering if somebody hurt you really bad in ur life (for example, ur mom) and you haven't talked to that person for about 8 months...would u forgive them or wait for them to realllyy regret everything they've put u through? Or would you just completely cut that person out of ur life?

2007-03-26 08:15:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have great respect for my Dad but at times i think he fails to understand my point of view & loses his patience & temper on me.I always try to keep quite in front of him.But at later interactions , i at times blow the frustation out.Which he is not appeciative off.Please guide.

2007-03-26 08:10:17 · 5 answers · asked by crazy1000 1

I have friends, but they live far away...like 15 minutes away.....and my dad is always at work so he cant take me anywhere....and my mom doesnt have her drivers license!

2007-03-26 08:10:15 · 11 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4

I have released them from prison and jail and want them to marry my friends daughters and get the hell out of my house, my daughter is sick of her brothers smoking marijuana in her room and I am sick of finding rolling papers in their PS2's so I broke their PS2's and burned most of their stuff which I bought they are 23 and 28 how to break it to em?

2007-03-26 08:01:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-26 07:58:50 · 2 answers · asked by Americka S 3

2007-03-26 07:48:34 · 20 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3

my dog, theadora, is NUTS!!!!!!!!! she is sad cause my brother lost and or broke her collar. i feel bad for her, she is now depressed. any ways to cheer her up???? ;)

2007-03-26 07:44:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-26 07:43:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-26 07:42:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had him thrown in jail for being a lazy such as not doing his chores so I told the police he was unruly and that I want to press charges on him for house damages and damages he has done for not doing his chores. I threw my oldest son in jail 3 years ago for not helping me with the grocery and house payment he is still serving time until 2009 also for damages of my back when I loaded 80 pound bags of salt into mybackpack he is now turning 28 and if he don't pay me either he will be sent to prison for hitting his mother what should I do?

2007-03-26 07:33:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend's mother acts like she loves me, but I have heard that she only tolorates me because of our son. I have done NOTHING for her to dislike me and it pisses me off that she may be talking trash about me and getting away with thinking that I have no clue! Should I have a talk with her or not? My mom gets along well with her too and she cant believe it, although I have heard this same thing before I had my baby!

2007-03-26 07:29:16 · 2 answers · asked by vrc 1

Ok, here is my problem, I need a non-confrontational way of talking to my husband about my brother. They get along better than my brother and I do, but that isn't the problem. They talk about all my faults. I am feeling hurt right now that thy are doing this. I have asked both my brother and my husband to stop. But they don't.lately, they went over to my in-laws (whom I love dearly and get along with) and while they were there all they did was talk about my faults, things my husband knew about before we were even married. I feel like my brother is trying to sabotage this realtionship like he has in past ones, but when I try to talk to my husband about this, he accuses me of comparing him to them, not the situation that is similar. I want to work this out, but I am lost as to how to do it. Pleae help me, I don't need any rude answers, I need caring and understanding ones, please.

2007-03-26 07:28:08 · 12 answers · asked by victoria E. 4

2007-03-26 07:16:15 · 3 answers · asked by MeanderingMind 2

Well, one day my dad and Unkel (dad's brother) went out on a camping trip, and we were out there for a couple of days. Well any who, we did not have any way to take showers... So we used the lake. While my dad was asleep I happened to get ready to take a bath in the lake *yuck* and I happened to run into my uncle out there bathing. I tried to turn away bc I was embarassed, but he told me it was ok and we were all men. So, we ended up bathing together, and Uncle Larry could not wash his back so I did it for him and he washed mine. Is this normal or is my uncle a weirdo. I don't think i will be able to look at him the same again.

2007-03-26 07:15:41 · 12 answers · asked by buster b 1

i think it's a myth, but does anybody know a large family. were their kids messed up? if some of the kids are adopted, will that affect whether or not they are messed up. i want 12 kids when i get older, and i want to have 4-5 and adopt the rest (mainly older kids and families who nobody wants). will they turn out messed up and twisted like everybody says?

2007-03-26 07:08:40 · 7 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3

May be living in or near Columbia Mo. I made a big mistake in letting his mother's sister take him in 1995. He is 17. Please respond to jonesbobtotal@yahoo.com-- reward for information on his whereabouts. 314 761-5527

2007-03-26 07:02:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23 and my sister is 15. The other day she told my 20 yr old brother that she hasn't been coming over b/c she doesn't like me. I asked her about it and she said that I'm a bad influence b/c I'm always being negative. She's gotten mad at me before and not told me about it. A couple of times I've had to confront her about things I'm told my other people she's mad about. I'm tired of playing mind games. This time, she said something that there's really no apology for if that's the way she feels. It just bothers me b/c she doesn't understand the problems I have, I'm always helping everyone and I think I'm entitled to have issues, I can't be perfect. I just don't tell her everything. Is it wrong to be upset? I know she's just 15, but she keeps talking about me behind my back and my method of "talking it out" obviously isn't working. Right now, we're just not speaking.

2007-03-26 07:01:30 · 17 answers · asked by Kristen J 2

Well, i have sister she was the reason that i lost my job 6 month ago and i didn't speak to her ever since. I was mad at her so much because i had baby at the time when i lost my job because of her and it make it even harder to for give her what she've done. But now, 6 month later i forgive her but i can't forget so my question is did i have done right thing because it doesn't make me feel any better about it ...??

2007-03-26 07:00:30 · 4 answers · asked by D_na 2

My mom had this boyfriend(CJ) i liked alot. I thought of him as a dad. They dated for 4 years while he cheated on his wife. I guess to them it was ok because she was going to pass away soon from cancer. I hated him for that, but i got over it. Then she passed and i guess he couldnt deal with it so he started to drink. My mom couldnt handle his drinking so she left him. It hurt me alot cuz he was the only person i thought of like a dad since mine walked out when i was 5. It didnt bother her that i was hurt but she told me and my brothers and sisters that she will never bring anyone around ever again for us to got close to. A week later she had Rich. I hated him from the start and i told myself i will put up a wall and not let it come down ever! So i did. My mom yelled at me because i wasnt being nice to him after all he moved in withing a few days. Next thing i know almost a year latter he is gone. CJ is back now. Should i leave a wall up or should i let him in again?

2007-03-26 06:55:17 · 5 answers · asked by Nessa 2

This woman is bossy. We are buying a new house, I have colors planned out for it. I am going to paint the cabinets because they are too dark. She butts in with why they just need cleaned. I stated cause I don't like them. She went on till my husband said Mom we don't like them end it. Then she started on the kids rooms. My youngest son wants his blue and white with a skateboard theme. The oldest wants Hawaiian blue and white with a beach theme. They both want loft beds. She got her panties in a bunch over all that. Oh and two weeks ago she wanted to come paint. Ummm no! I can't take the stress of her being there. Our current house she came in while we were on vacation and re-arranged my cabinets. Told me that skillets don't go in the oven. Who cares? That is where I like them and it saves cabinet space. Help! I can't take her bossiness much more. I tell her I want it this way and she starts with well I would...

2007-03-26 06:45:11 · 10 answers · asked by misstigeress 4

my 13 year old daughter was sitting next to a boy in English at school today, as she looked across she caught him masturbating, should my husband and I go directly to the school principal or should my husband speak to the boy.

2007-03-26 06:29:21 · 16 answers · asked by The Boss 2

of himself that he was able to tell them before I was.

I don't even care to begin with, but then he texts and calls me immediately, SO proud of himself!

It's getting annoying ... what can I diagnose him with and get him to move on to something else?

2007-03-26 06:25:36 · 18 answers · asked by Reserved 6

this dude does weed around her and im worried she'll pick it up 2 what do i do about it if im really woriied about my sis?

2007-03-26 06:23:01 · 6 answers · asked by chrystal 1

2007-03-26 06:18:22 · 7 answers · asked by dominoes2009 1

At what age do you feel uncomfortable bathing your daughter? What about helping her on the potty, putting on lotion, or applying diaper rash cream.

Seems like kind of a touchy subject, so I don't want to flat out ASK my husband. But I'm so comfortable doing these things, I forget that maybe he's NOT comfortable, and maybe I shoudl cut him some slack.

2007-03-26 06:14:23 · 13 answers · asked by Milana P 5

he had his hand on my best friends breast. what should i do? hes 19 and shes 13. i really like my brother and dont want him to go to jail,, but 3.

2007-03-26 06:11:51 · 24 answers · asked by Erin J 1