if u have a sister who likes and is going out with a guy that does weed and ur really concerned what do u do?

Question

this dude does weed around her and im worried she'll pick it up 2 what do i do about it if im really woriied about my sis?

Answer 1

just tell her your concerns about becoming a doper

Answer 2

Have you tried talking to her about this in a non judgmental way........ Not by saying I don't want you to see or do but by saying I don't like how this affects him and I know it would be the same with you if you were to do it.

Also depending on the ages of you, your sis etc....talk to someone at school, a favorite teacher maybe. You would then have some personal feedback on what to do.

I you are close to a cousin or other relative that is close in age get feedback from them and then you will also have moral support. You don't want to be "hostile" about this. Tell your sis that you are concerned, and you just wanted her to know she can talk to you without you sitting in judgment of her. Maybe she has tried it and decided she didn't like it and she will tell you this.

If you are worried about safety issues....she's riding in his car while he is under the influence then you will have to involve an adult that can talk to her. Telling her that you are concerned for her safety is why you involved someone else.

All of the above is assuming she and you are younger, school age. If this isn't the case and you are both older, early 20's for instance then just tell her your concerns and let her know you are there for her to talk to if she feels the need.

Hope this helps.

Answer 3

Tell her straight up that her so-called bf is a loser, and explain to her that modern day marijuana is 200 times more potent than it was 35 yrs ago, thus recent medical studies have revealed that 96% of people that use marijuana on a regular basis have been diagnosed with various levels of schizophrenia, of which causes them to behave irrationally and in many cases violently. If all else fails kick her *** until she realizes how much you love and care for her, and involve as many family and friends in the matter as you can...

Answer 4

First of all try talking to her. Who knows, you may talk her out of it. If that doesn't work then you need to just tell someone. Maybe not your parents right at first, but if talking to a teacher or school counselor doesn't work out then you definately need to tell them. Issues such as this need to be nipped in the bud. Being a stool pigeaon may not be the most desireable role to play, but remember this " There's often a great deal of difference between what you want to do and what you need to do."

Answer 5

all you can do, is talk to her. sit her down and tell her how you feel about the situation. for all you know, she dosent like that the guy does weed. Mybe if you confront her about it, she will have the guts to confront him. Good Luck!!

Answer 6

You're not her mother!