Well, i have sister she was the reason that i lost my job 6 month ago and i didn't speak to her ever since. I was mad at her so much because i had baby at the time when i lost my job because of her and it make it even harder to for give her what she've done. But now, 6 month later i forgive her but i can't forget so my question is did i have done right thing because it doesn't make me feel any better about it ...??
2007-03-26 07:00:30 · 4 answers · asked by D_na 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
there is a difference between forgiving and forgetting. To forgive someone is to give up the resentment or blame. That doesn't mean that you have to forget what she did. I have forgiven some people for things, but i wont forget what they did.
It takes time to feel better about something or someone when it has affected you a great deal, especially when you have been mad for so long but you have taken the first step.
2007-03-26 08:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by mom of 2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you decide to forgive you also decide to forget- its quite hard to forgive and keep on pounding on the same problem. So take a load off your back and if you forgave her also forget what happen. Your better off, you'll feel spiritually lighter. Hope I Helped out. :-)
2007-03-26 07:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the good book says to forgive and forget....it is easy forgive someone but it is very hard to forget...just pray about it and see how things go from there
2007-03-26 07:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH?
2007-03-26 08:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Rae 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋