Even my underwear, which is extroardinarily disgusting and irritating when I'm looking for a certain pair to find out that she has had them for a whole month, sometimes longer. She always says "I didn't know it was your underwear?" and such but that is undoubtedly a lie; she is not stupid and she knows whos underwear is and isn't hers. She also uses my computer and electronics after I've said no, or without asking... considering she's on her fifth phone in the past year and hasn't gone a year without breaking and electronic of hers to an unusable state, this really irritates me. What can I do??? By the way, she's in the eighth grade and I'm not that much older than her if that helps tell the situation.
2007-03-26 08:29:22 · 10 answers · asked by QT Patuty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is obvious that she looks up to you in some way or another.. granted it is not that big of an age difference.. and she may be annoying as sin.. but she is just wanting to be like you..let her know that you would like for her to ask to borrow things.. but don't be so mean to her that you become something that she doesn't want to be.. be a good influence on her... i was always told and have come to realize it more in the recent past that you can have friends and you can have family.. but in the end your family will always be there for you... don't ruin what you have with your sister .. you will regret it later on.
2007-03-26 08:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sofa kings woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain it all to your parents.
Get your parents to buy you a large wooden chest like a pirate chest, and lock your things, your electronics up. Lock up the power cord to your computer. Lock up your clothes. Use a big lock, put the key around your neck.
Good luck.
2007-03-26 08:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your frustrations- Normally siblings who are close in age tend to fight over things....or, like in your case- annoy eachother.
She is not supposed to take your things without your permission, most importantly your under wear, my goodness! Sit her down, dont fight- and tell her how you feel. You can talk to your parents about it too. Seems to me like she is just doing it intentionally....can you lock your room/drawer? So she cant get to your stuff? She is being disrespectful and takes you for granted. Take a stand and address it without being loud, mean or even fight..
Good luck!
2007-03-26 08:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come she dosen't have her own underwear? And she is your sister and you have but she dosen't?
Anyways, I dont know what kind of person you are. If you really adore yopur sis (and her irritating ways) just take her shopping and if you are really fed up just tell her and if she dosen't listen I would #^&* her @**
2007-03-26 08:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Viaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your own laundry, if you live with your parents ask them if you can't put a lock that locks from the outside on your door - just know pesky younger siblings are always going to think your stuff is cooler
2007-03-26 08:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by ms_debbieg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to go through this too!!! It is so annoying. Just tell your parents. See if they will do anything. If that doesn't help, confront her. Tell her you are sick of it and you won't handle this no more. Good Luck
2007-03-26 10:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by lost_upstairs27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Involve her more in your stuff.. After awhile she will get bored with you and move on Most of the fun is driving you crazy
2007-03-26 08:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by I AM BACK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
tough situation!!! but what i think you should is since your he older sister you can play pranks on her or you can go through her stuff to let her know that it is so annoying!!!!!
if you these things just try them and see if they work!!
hope all goes well
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Haley
2007-03-26 09:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by Hailey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to your sister... she obviously idolizes you. Just give her love and let her use your stuff. Remember, its only stuff. Don't be so materialistic.
2007-03-26 08:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mandi Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be grateful it isn't your brother wearing your clothes and underwear.. :D
2007-03-26 08:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋