Family - March 2007

My toddler son and my ex boyfriends' teen are not biological siblings - proven. My son is his and the daughter, who he always believed was his - is still his, but not biologically. She only knows one Dad, he only has one daughter. Their relationship is the same as before the DNA and the daughter does not know. This Dad never married - had 2 kids from 2 different long-term relationships.
My son and 'his daughter' have a lot of contact, through their Dad. He has them both usually on the same days.
My question is, what do I tell my young son? Do I live the lie and teach him to believe that they are blood relatives or do I be straight up with him and tell the truth and in so doing cause psychological harm to the teen girl. Her mom is unaware that she has been 'caught'.
I truly want to be honest with my son. I don't want to die without my son knowing I knew. I don't want my son to think that his father was a liar,and was fooled. I don't want my son to think I was fooled.

2007-03-02 20:17:25 · 5 answers · asked by yolkyolk 5

I'm in love with the mother of my only daughter, however, she has conducted herself in a manner of a pure forinicator at 39 years old for the last 4 years since I have known her. I am 28 years old. How do I get over her in a mature manner without becoming a dog myself?

2007-03-02 20:13:17 · 8 answers · asked by babydaddy 1

My brother was sent to prison for something he did to a family member and my cousin keeps harassing me by confronting me or my husband when we are around other people. He gets extremely nasty. We have told him about it several times but it is non-stop - he is a grown man with a family of his own. My husband and I did not have anything to do with my brother before or after what he did. Please help!!! it just keeps getting worse - Oh and he's usually very very drunk when it happens. His family just blows it off.

2007-03-02 19:55:03 · 4 answers · asked by finstergirl2003 1

Which movie is scarier?

2007-03-02 19:50:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

well...

2007-03-02 19:34:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents both abused me physically,sexually and mentally when i was little, i have moved on and i am happy ,content with my life but my daughter of nearly 13 wants desperatley to see her nannan i personally know they are no good for her but with mothers day looming she keeps on about it to me. Should i see my sister explain to her the situation and let my babes find out for herself the hard way that they no good or just put my foot down and say no obviously i don't want my child to think i'm a bad un for not letting her see her nan what would you do?

2007-03-02 19:18:24 · 10 answers · asked by clare w 4

I am a dreamer, write love songs, romantic dreams, i love chat on yahoo, i like ladies and respect them, but still i find when it comes to love they are not true to me. I love music, books, movies, dancing, beach, bike ...................... I am soft spoken person, joking all the time. Can I ever find my true soul mate.
alex_00in@yahoo.co.in

2007-03-02 18:55:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My eldest son and partner gave me my 8th grandchild yesterday, as he lives in Spain and I am in UK havn't seen him yet but I wanted to share my joy with the world, my mother has never cared for my son but I left her a message to tell her the knews, because she knows it will hurt me, she has not bothered to reply. When my dad was leaving her he wrote her a letter, I thought that after 25 of marriage that was a bit harsh so I took it upon my self to tell her. She stayed out of my life for 10 years, when she became ill I recived a message from a family member and went straight away yo find her, her excuse was that she just hadn't been well. I excepted it. She has spent years telling me how much she hates my father and my sister but all of a sudden she has re-kindled her relationship with my sister, I am pleased for them but now I am out of the picture. What would you do?

2007-03-02 18:45:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-02 18:42:43 · 16 answers · asked by lolipop_01_420 2

2007-03-02 18:32:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-02 18:25:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

first of all, i am a stay at home mother, so i feel i can say this. i also remember a time when i wasnt a mother. some stay at home mothers seem to forget that they are still mature intelligent women and all they seem to care about is diaper genies and finger painting. i am a feminist, and as a feminist i believe that women have CHOICES, because for so long we didnt have a voice in society. if a mother wants to stay home with her children, that is wonderful. but if a women decides to go back to work after having children, she shouldn't be judged and told that she is a bad mother. women's thoughts, education, and ambitions should not have to stop just because she is a mother. i love my little girl, but i also like having adult conversations too!

2007-03-02 18:18:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think she is the victim of child abuse

2007-03-02 18:04:11 · 11 answers · asked by And For A Moment I Am Happy 6

he only looks at his mother too much his sisters too,when his mom comes in room he drops everything and when he leaves outside room he sees his mom his eyes only go on her is she his gf by any chance im sorry i didnt mean this but seriously tell me what i should do so he looks at me not her

2007-03-02 17:53:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My name is Amir Muhammad Sheikh.I wan born in Rawalpindi Pakistan.Now a days i live in Philippines.I have no job More then too years having big problems,I always ask help to God(Allah).I go to mosque and i go to Chruch every where i go ask help to God and guidance.I ask to my family (mother and sister)Give me my shear in my house and lot .but they never give.After i call to my cousin asking help please help me For the sake of Allah (and prophet Muhammad (PBUH).But no one help me,they give me very very litlle money just to stop asking my rights.I ask to my mother many time, But she said she has no longar hold to my sister,since she has transfer every thing in the name of my sister.
I ask my self where is Allah(God )now?I am muslim or i have death panalty If ever i say wrong but i am tired with my life..Very hard too see my kids only few mounths old crying for milk ?where is God ?If some one say to remove have NOBLE QURAN i say burn all.Because no one is helping you for sake of God.

2007-03-02 17:18:49 · 14 answers · asked by Amir i 1

2007-03-02 17:10:32 · 16 answers · asked by Bud's Girl 6

2007-03-02 17:07:20 · 13 answers · asked by genes 1

im tring to find people who are witchies. im a true witch. not saying you have to belive but i am a true witch, i have been one for 21 years. but hey just wondering.

2007-03-02 17:03:57 · 10 answers · asked by god's child 2

i mean not genderbut i want the exact meaning and history of the word female

2007-03-02 16:46:57 · 15 answers · asked by vejay kumar 1

She always cackles uncontrollably while she does it, too.

2007-03-02 16:38:44 · 3 answers · asked by bbcranks 4

I'm scared to tell him. What if she doesn't like him?. :( What if she's playing him? Uhhh this is diffucult! Plus I forgot to say this. The girls in my younger brother's class have an attitude sometimes.

2007-03-02 16:17:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 13th birthday is in 2 weeks. I dont play in any sports, and i dont walk home. How do i convince them to get me a cell phone. The phone i want to get is free and 40 dollars a month.

2007-03-02 16:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by k317 1

i was just curious. i know that (in the case of a traditional family parents and kids no divorce) that the kids parents are the guardians for the children until appointed in a will for after the parents death. though what about in the case of the kid grows up and marries with both parents still alive now are the parents still his/her guardian or is their spouse their guardian now.????

please if you know the answer let me know or if you know where i could find the answer let me know that.

2007-03-02 16:01:34 · 16 answers · asked by miss_lissa87 1

Hi! I am a 28 year old who just lost her 54 year old mother a little over 2 months ago and I am having a very hard time dealing with it. She was not only my mother but also my best friend, we did everything together, were very close and life just doesn't mean that much to me anymore now that she isn't here to share it with because I shared everything with her, we had no secrets. She was sick for 15 months before her death with a rare kidney disease that caused her to go into renal failure and require dialysis and from then on out she was always in the hospital it seemed, her body just constantly worked against her. I was her caregiver when she became sick also so that just brought us even closer. What makes it harder is out of my 28 yrs. I think we went maybe 2-3 days without talking and now not having her here to talk to is killing me. Like I said, life just doesn't seem important now and I know she would not want me feeling this way. So, does anyone have any tips for me?

2007-03-02 15:57:02 · 9 answers · asked by xxxButterflyxxx 1

well when i was 13 years old my mom was in the hospital and i had to stay with some people till my mom got home well when my mom come get me i was no where to be found i did not know any thing for a very long time but next friday will be 14 years to the day i was kiddnapped and taken to flordia i was druged my drink was spiked and i could not tast any thing odd in the drink next thing i know i am wakeing up in another state i was beaten raped and druged for a long time i have been in hospitals and been on med's and foster homes you name it and by the time i was found i was half dead from not eating since i was not aloud to if i did i would get beatin worse then before i still have flash backs and night mares of this and i just turnd 13 on march 9th 1993 and till this day it still haunt's me i try not to thank about it but every doc i have seen in the hospitals told me it dose not go away so easy i know i am lucky that i made it back home alive it took my mom 2 years to get me back

2007-03-02 15:55:15 · 12 answers · asked by free spirit 1

My father working in weaver

2007-03-02 15:43:01 · 23 answers · asked by william cary 1

my mother has abused me for almost 22 years of my life, she gets joy out of my misery, i've moved out 5 years ago, initially i still contact her by calling her and visiting her, but her poison continue to affect me, last time she told me that i do not deserve my boyfriend as i am not beautiful, also i am an untrustworthy person, she constanly shows her favour towards my sister, things like that made me decided to cutting her off completely, i've stopped calling her for 8 months and changed my phone number, last Friday she came and knocked on my door, lucky i wasn't home, my boyfriend let her in and she give him a letter, she try to be very sweet and concerning, i threw the letter away without reading, now i am living in constant fear that she may knock on my door again, what should i do if she does?

2007-03-02 15:35:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sister asked me what lmao means and i told her the answer but she wont believe me so can you tell her for some proof!

2007-03-02 15:32:14 · 8 answers · asked by Deleted! 2

I am about to be 16 years old. I really want to know who my birth parents are....

2007-03-02 15:13:31 · 5 answers · asked by `Ladi*Joka` 2

to make a long story short his exwife hates me and trys in every way to make my life hell.after doing all this stuff to me behind my back she feels its "her right" to sit right next to my fiance at their kids sports games(which is about 2-3 times a week)and chit chat with him thru the whole thing.we have tryed to sit away from her(the field is very large)but this just pisses her off as she sits and watches for my fiance to come.

2007-03-02 15:08:55 · 3 answers · asked by kathy56martin 1