I'm in love with the mother of my only daughter, however, she has conducted herself in a manner of a pure forinicator at 39 years old for the last 4 years since I have known her. I am 28 years old. How do I get over her in a mature manner without becoming a dog myself?
2007-03-02 20:13:17 · 8 answers · asked by babydaddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just walk away from the situation. Most importantly realize your self worth. And know you can never MAKE this woman love you back. If someone doesn't show you respect, you need to realize that you deserve better. I have been on the other end of this relationship spiral and trust me, you can not do anything to change her and chance are she is staying with you for means of support. I know you may think keeping the relationship together is the best thing for the child. But two parents together in an unhealthy relationship is not the best situation for a child to grow up in. Demand your respect and make sure you get it. You don't have to be a dog to tell someone you want out of a relationship. One thing though, things can get ugly. Remember that your daughter needs to see you only in loving ways. Don't fight in front of her and don't down talk the mom around the child either. Kids are very smart and she will make her own choices about her mother's mistakes. Good luck, hope you find happiness soon.
2007-03-02 20:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Own up to your responsibilities to your daughter with no gripping and complaining. If you love the woman, truly love her, help her, don't complain, try to get her to see the errors of her ways and explain without accusing what you would like to see her change. Be prepared to hear what you need to change also and see that you work on yourself too. Relationships are a two way street.
I don't recommend falling out of love, that isn't the answer here, working on differences and complaints are the issues...
Good luck...try to keep it together for the kiddo, they do much better with both parents!
2007-03-03 04:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by teddybearloverus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the person that you really need freedom and you want to be free from certain responsibilities. But bear in mind that if you still love the person why do want to break ur and her heart also plz don't advice problem for urself it's not good.Try to talk with her about your intension. if she is agree with you then you are lucky. GOOD LUCK?
2007-03-03 04:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ameerah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in love with her why should that be a problem unless she isn't still paying attention to you. I cant understand why we often get so upset when someone has sex with someone else. Is that the problem she is playing around? Is it a problem for you really? Is it dangerous? Do you have to stay in a sexual relationship with her to still love her?
There are so many ways to deal with this!
2007-03-03 04:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by searcher_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and just see ur daughter evry 3 days you will grow apart eventually
2007-03-03 04:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by astridtonto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assign her the label of child's mother...not a possible partner for you...keep your mind focused on that label only...look elsewhere for companionship and don't look back
2007-03-03 07:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time.
With time you will see what it is that you need to see in order for you to see the bigger picture regarding her....
2007-03-03 04:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by selysammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend that she's a man.
2007-03-03 04:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋