can u desi guys tell what u like so i can do it for my husband?

Question

he only looks at his mother too much his sisters too,when his mom comes in room he drops everything and when he leaves outside room he sees his mom his eyes only go on her is she his gf by any chance im sorry i didnt mean this but seriously tell me what i should do so he looks at me not her

i actually told him but telling him is not good cuz guys r jerks they will do it on purpose if u point it out

Answer 1

I'd come straight out and tell him what you just told us.... Tell him that it isn't normal, nor appropriate.

You have to be willing to make a choice to either stick to your guns or live with it...

Good Luck

Answer 2

I don't know where you hail from, but that is the custom in India. Being respectful and attentive to elders when youngsters come across them. Also looking at mother and father before leaving as that would count as a blessing. Anyway, that is just a little time spared for them. The rest of the day he is with you. So why are cribbing?

Answer 3

hi honey,
as u're problem is concerned i can understand it but u havent specified a few things such as how long u've been married it was a love or arrange marriage.look it sort of sounds abnormal too me but probably could only be 2 thing either u're u're husband would be respecting too much towards his mum or lusting for her loook dont take it deliberately but u never know it might happen according to me only solution to this problem is that u try & make him happy on the bed & try to be as u're mother in law lives adapt her living standards till an extent.if u r newly married couple try & spend more time with him dont hesitate on any type of demands he makes too u cause men love those women who try & listen them ,understand them & least but not the least loves them.
so keep on loving him try to make him speak by himsely why he behaves so strangely in front of his mum but make him speak by his own it'll definately work.
BYE.

Answer 4

Dear Sara,
I think u r married for not many months..
I think ur mom in law is beautiful, at least ur huby thinks so.
May be he has a crush on her.
I guess u cud try to emulate her, try to be like her.
May be try to be her friend. and get closer to her.
ASk her for help, be with her, help her in small things. Be her close friend. Drop ur egos and admire her in front of ur huby. Hold her hands, hug her, comb her hair, do small and intimate things with her. She will love u for that and ur huby will start seeing her in u. If it is too difficult to like her, at least pretend to like her a lot.. he will become ur slave soon.

Answer 5

first of all, I think that you have a misconception that you are extraordinary,,and as you say "desi" it points out that you are a very fickle minded person, if you didn't like desi people then why didn't you sorted out these things with your desi husband before marriage, now since all other people are ready to accept you in their family, although they may not like you due to your mean nature, then you should also try to love and respect them,and also I think that although you are an indian but you don't have very good "sanskars" as to call the guy's mother his gf..

sanskar is the ability to bring good thougts in our minds, these sanskars we get from our parents and family..

Answer 6

u r partly right and partly sarcastic.
may be he very much impressed by women at home.
don't take things otherwise. he will soon outgrow and have much better feelings for u.

Answer 7

tell him that he is not doing justice, be brave for your rights.

Answer 8

to keep him happy