Family - March 2007

When you were a teen...you saw your parents as maybe pretty cool or kinda old fashioned and imbarasing....My question is....when you look threw your kids eyes at yourself, do you see your mom or dad?

2007-03-13 03:38:28 · 5 answers · asked by steve 5

I have a problem that has caused me to have the unhappiest pregnancy I could have imagined. I am due to have my first child in four weeks. The father is gorgeous by any womans standards, and he knows this. However, he is very gentle with me, caring and sensual. Most of the time. About twice a month we have an over scale blow out. I scream, he screams ( and says nastier things to me than any one ever has in my life) and twice now he has shoved me. Once was about two weeks ago. I have hit him in this face a handful of times, he isnt completely to blame. My mother hates him, they both say horrible things about eachother to me. My mom blames me for his actions and he punishes me for who my mother is. I almost hate them both anymore. I work for my mother so I cannot get away from her. I love him more than anything in this world, but I am having trouble forgiving a lot that has happened. I almost feel like my life would be better without both of them. Should I leave?

2007-03-13 03:29:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-13 03:25:24 · 9 answers · asked by SOJLO 3

My neighbor has 2 daughters, 14 & 11. The 14 year old hasn’t talked to the 11 yr old for 6 mnths because her parents don’t allow her date, go to the movies or friends house, & are very strict. She told the 11 yr old to tell her parents to give her the freedom & not worry about her because when she was 11, she wasn’t allowed to do many things the 11 yr old can now because the second child always has more freedom than the first. The 11 yr old refuse to tell her parents to give her the freedom. She feels it is unfair because her younger sister has freedom because of her & she can’t get freedom because of her sister. She say her little sister use her for freedom & is selfish & will not talk to her sister until she do what she says. The parents know the 14 yr old hasn’t talked to her sister, but don’t know why. They are worried & want to help but can’t. Sometimes I want to tell them, but don’t because I was bought up “Don’t put mind someone’s family business unless it is life threatening.”

2007-03-13 03:24:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 34 year old women, my bf is 37. I have all my life been dealing with a controlling and unhappy father. My boyfriend of a year has bowed down in a sense to my dad to get his validation etc. last night after my father knocking every statment made by my boyfriend, my boyfriend went back at him and it lead to very, very heated argument. i am currently in therapy to finally deal with my fathers always being so unaccepting of me all my life. i have been venting quite a bit about my dad latley to my BF and so has my brother since he works with my BF. so after my dad starting with him last night, with all this in mind, he went off..... and u know what i wasnt mad, i was like yeah, tell him. i felt like it was everyting ive wanted to say for over 30 years. my bf tried to apologize and my father keep feeding the fire with comments.
Has anyone had a situation like this?? how can we make it work, i dont want to choose between them.

2007-03-13 03:24:29 · 6 answers · asked by coco 2

2007-03-13 03:20:35 · 8 answers · asked by spice 1

my two daughter dont talk to each other. 24 and 17 years-old. since earlier age they never had good reations . the older jealous at the young and young was suffering her abuse. we tried to settle things together told them how important this relations are, but it looks like they are afraid of taking the first step. cause the other may reject her.

2007-03-13 03:19:54 · 8 answers · asked by limeline 1

umm... if so, what about..


working full time..
apartment searching/ finding..
dropping out of school or what?

Reminder: this is for a teenage whom just turned 17, i really need help. This advice is going to effect another persons' life.

Also, leave the source of which you got your answers from.

2007-03-13 02:56:04 · 14 answers · asked by kajames3790 2

We are only mucking around and unfortunatley do not live together so have very little time on our own!In our 30s!!Cant even hug in private or anything without 'looks'.Or being accused of being 'SAD'.

2007-03-13 02:54:58 · 8 answers · asked by Australia 1

i adopted out my son when he was 2 hes now 21 hes living in plymouth but i dont know were the social work dept are helping but it seems to be taking too long i just dont know what to do
can anyone please tell me how i can find him

2007-03-13 02:52:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any who actually DO get along with theirs?

2007-03-13 02:51:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-13 02:28:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost both of them and I regreted not telling them what I felt about them!

2007-03-13 02:20:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Isn't correct that a woman's most fertial day and when she begins ovulation is about 14 days after the first day of her period cycle?

2007-03-13 01:59:09 · 7 answers · asked by jaina64 2

I mean loosing by death.

2007-03-13 01:59:02 · 22 answers · asked by Pinka 3

how do you feel when your parents make you sleep with them and let other people like your cousin that you dont particularly like since they like to ask stupid question and touch your thins for no apparent reason take over your room...

2007-03-13 01:45:11 · 3 answers · asked by jaja 1

aint got much money what should i get my mum?

2007-03-13 01:43:01 · 16 answers · asked by Mal S 1

2007-03-13 01:33:56 · 30 answers · asked by sada 1

I has married to him for 9yr. Divorced for 8 yrs and back together for 8 as my boyfriend. he did drugs & drank. he now has 11 yr old daughter who lives with us. promblem he is belittling, sarcastic, mean to me. he give me 400 a mo for bills. i own the house and pay all bills, buy both them, clothes, gifts, wants and needs, doctors , accountant, problem solver, do improvements to house, ie plumbing, painting, etc and all the house work plus go to dump mow the yard take care of plants, take dogs to vet, give meds to them and more. however he is not loving, or care for me. he loves hugs the dogs, is daughter. not me. he complains about me all the time. he has a mouth and when we argue he gets so that he must MUST have an answer that he wants to hear, even though it is not what happened. His daughter I've been with since she was 3yrs and she is starting to act like her father towards me . i bought an house and going to leave, but i feel so awfully GUILTY. am i crazy

2007-03-13 01:30:39 · 15 answers · asked by MESAMATER 1

2007-03-13 01:23:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-13 01:21:50 · 18 answers · asked by rajiv 1

2007-03-13 00:52:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-13 00:50:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last year my parents had a Ruby wedding anniversary and me & my sister gave them a week in a lovely hotel in Prague as a gift. My sister also got married and I gave her the money for the wedding photographer as a present. I wanted to do both of these so that's not the issue, but I had my 10th wedding anniversary (also last year) and received no card from either parents or sister and was given £5 towards an anniversary meal from my mum..

2007-03-13 00:36:14 · 16 answers · asked by christine s 4

ok....where to start,I am a 17 year old girl in the uk.I live with my partner and we have been together since i turned 16 (August 2005). When i moved in with him a year ago my parents did not talk to me but told my partner that i would come crawling home within 3 months,

Anyway i did'nt go crawling back and im still happy I work four days a week for £300 and help his 60 yr old mother at home as she is ill.
Heres the problem,ever since i moved in it seems my mum only wants to talk to me when its a time that some one in the family has to recieve presents ie Xmas b.day easter ect.
last yr we were planning to go to portugal and she signed my passport form then when i got a letter saying i needed a birth certificate of my mums she and my dad laughed in my face and said i was not going untill i was 18!!!(I got round the problem with my fathers birth cert and their wedding certificate,so i g2g to portugal!)
my dads being awful two and there causing me and my partner to row what can i do

2007-03-13 00:27:01 · 7 answers · asked by Candiece D 1

Hi there... I use to live in London and I used to work in a Barclays bank, Compliance department, everything was gorgeous but when my contract finished, I decided to go back home with my mum... I've made the biggest mistake in my life... They-> (my parents) push me down they want me to stay here in my country, but I get used to live by myself, to be responsible about myself… And it is quite difficult to explain what I’m feeling… I am adult but still I’m feeling like a child… And there is no chance to explain them; I tried to shout, scream, no way… I understand that there in UK no one is waiting for me… What should I do?

2007-03-13 00:24:52 · 14 answers · asked by Kate21 1

im really fat and i cant cantrol my weight i just keep eating please tell me how i can reduce my weight!!!!!!!a friendly advice plzzzz!!!!!

2007-03-13 00:23:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi there... I use to live in London and I used to work in a Barclays bank, Compliance department, everything was gorgeous but when my contract finished, I decided to go back home with my mum... I've made the biggest mistake in my life... They-> (my parents) push me down they want me to stay here in my country, but I get used to live by myself, to be responsible about myself… And it is quite difficult to explain what I’m feeling… I am adult but still I’m feeling like a child… And there is no chance to explain them; I tried to shout, scream, no way… I understand that there in UK no one is waiting for me… What should I do?

2007-03-13 00:23:29 · 8 answers · asked by Kate21 1

2007-03-12 23:20:51 · 6 answers · asked by Stupid 1

I would think you wouldnt want to be to soon, and you definitely would not want to wait to long.

2007-03-12 23:06:41 · 9 answers · asked by julelyn 1