Family - December 2006

i miss my ex boyfriend of today... what do i do? i dont know if i can call i dont know what i would say... i basically dumped him when he told me he was unhappy... now im unhappy?!??!?!

2006-12-26 15:48:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

wattadick??!!!! I think ifany woman ever thought her man thinks like thiat he'd be down the pike. Hopefully 1 person is onto the caveman here on y/a

2006-12-26 15:33:37 · 6 answers · asked by Dotr 5

My brother died this past Sunday and we are not sure how or why or if he meant to or anything. He is 34 and I am 17 and due to our age difference and family situation (he was in and out of hospitals for emotional problems) we never really saw eachother alot. I wrote this and it made me feel better, its corny but just thought I'd share anyway. I will probably add onto it later.

I’m your little sister
I’ll lay you down to rest
I’ll hold back my tears
Or at least I’ll try my best
You are my big brother
You made me the tomboy that I am
I never knew you well
But I’ll remember the best I can
Chrisy why did you die?
Our time was no enough
Would you have wanted me to cry?
Or do you want me strong and tough?
Did you mean to die that night?
What went wrong when you were alone?
Autopsy inconclusive
Cause of death unknown

2006-12-26 15:31:51 · 16 answers · asked by k 2

My husband and I want children. Due to unforeseeable issues with health we have had no luck for five years. I do not want answers on fertility or ways to solve not being pregnant. I am looking for a constructive way to deal with my feelings. My sister just had a baby in November. All day she complained about how tired she was, how horrible it is to be a new parent. My husband and I have both stepped in to clean their home, provide meals, watch the baby when we can etc... But how do I explain to her that her constant complaining is like stab in my heart? I want so badly what she is complaining about. Additionally, we have looked into adoption and are considering that as well. My sister months ago made remarks about how it was so "easy" to just "order up a baby" and now calls her new nephew and niece on the other side of the family the "Asian invasion" I know I am touchy and angry but I don't want to be like this. I don't like this jealousy I feel.

2006-12-26 15:30:39 · 12 answers · asked by bortiepie 4

my dad bought this game its for gamecube and we had one like that last year and it always would get stuck in my head so finally he got rid of it then a couple days ago he bought a different version my family says im overreacting but now i can't go in the room and my dad says to leave the matter alone but i think he shouldn't have even brought it into the house it isn't a necessity and he knows i don't like it if it's out of the house i'd be fine but don't you think he should have just not even gotten it if he knew how much i hated it my mother even told him not to buy it.

2006-12-26 15:16:20 · 15 answers · asked by meli 1

I have stuff planned this saturday, and my mom has nothing to do. Any way to get her out of the house? thanks!

2006-12-26 14:59:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for over two months and his parents don't seem to like me. They won't let him talk to me on the phone. They take his cell phone away when he gets off work. They won't let me over and I can't go over there. I have never had this happen to me because people whom I have been with have been warm and welcoming. I know he is a senior and I am a freshman, but I don't think that is it. Please help me! It breaks my heart to not be able to talk to him!

2006-12-26 14:44:05 · 7 answers · asked by Meg 1

I wanna start babysitting because i REALLY need the money...but I dont know how to get started and how to tell ppl in my little neighborhood about me wanting to...how will i do that????

2006-12-26 14:35:33 · 10 answers · asked by curiousgirl 2

I lent my brother 500 dollars, he said he needed it because his car broke down, and at the time did not have the money.

It's just us two in our own house, and since we both work, I was confident he would be able to pay me back.

I let him know from the start I needed it back ASAP, as we both spilt the bills.

I later found out that he used it for illegal purposes.

I need this money back, and do not want to take him to a court because he is my brother, and he also used the money illegally, and do not want him or myself to go to jail..how can I get it back?

2006-12-26 14:33:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I remember...About 2 monthes ago...My step-dad and my step-brother...Were all getting drunk and I was too drunk to even walk so I went to go take a bath until I sobered up a little bit, and my step-dad was still getting drunk...But when I was about to take a bath I heard my step-brother coughing and I thought he was maybe puking and was choking on it so I quick went into his room to see if he was alright, and he freaked out and said please lay by me and I figured, it was my step-brother he always treats me like I'm his real blood sister and then when I was laying by him for a few minutes...he turned over and put his tongue in my mouth and I said,
"what are you doing?!? Are you drunk?!?" then I pushed him away and went to go get up and leave, bcuz it freaked me out and then he got on top of me and Fingered me me and started rubbing on my boobs, then I got up and went to the bathroom and tried cutting my wrists open bcuz I didn't wanna deal with what had just happened to me.

2006-12-26 14:27:29 · 15 answers · asked by MissSixventies 1

im 14

2006-12-26 14:06:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-26 14:02:40 · 21 answers · asked by tom s 1

we all have lost someone close, or have someone far away.
just wondering?

2006-12-26 13:57:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have two brothers and we hardly get to see each other at the same time. Today we all spent the day together, but one of my brothers (who is 20) was on the phone (texting and talking to) his girlfriend (who is 18) the whole time. We were in a movie and she kept sending him texts even though she knew. He asked her to stop and she wouldn't so he turned his phone off. Later on, she called him to yell at him for ignoring her even though she knew he was spending time with family. This brother I haven't seen in six months because he's ALWAYS with her! When they were on the phone I sort-of-on-purpose said "Someone who loves you doesn't get mad at you for spending time with your family" and she, of course, heard me say that and then proceeded to tell my brother she doesn't like me...I haven't even met this girl yet!

Was it so wrong of me to make that snide comment? Was it that uncalled for? I didn't say it snottily, I just stated it matter of factly.
Now my brother is slightly mad at me

2006-12-26 13:43:31 · 18 answers · asked by Quintessa 2

I got her a robe. It was a nice robe, a hundred dollar robe. But she got me a thousand dollar guitar. Should I get her something to make up for it???

2006-12-26 13:37:17 · 16 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4

My cousins live in spain and at the moment they are in essex (england) we are hoping to go out tomorrow but just cant think where, we were hoping to go somewhere different as we dont get 2 see them very often does any1 hav any ideas, (ages 10, 15, 19,)

2006-12-26 13:25:31 · 4 answers · asked by Everything happens for a reason 4

2006-12-26 13:18:03 · 14 answers · asked by Kitana 2

my cousin and i both have a younger sibling and they wont leave us alone to play video games/jump on the trampoline/ ect.....

any advice to get them to go away?



[ note: we r only 12,11,9,6 ]

2006-12-26 13:10:58 · 12 answers · asked by Daisy 4

My mother is 65 and lives with me. She is capable of taking care of herself but she is dying a slow painful death. (http://www.pulmonaryfibrosis.org/ipf.htm if your interested) She abuses her medications. She is disgusting. She smokes in my house even though I ask her not to. She will not take care of herself. She crapped all over my couch today and did a poor job of cleaning it up. It smells and she stained my couch. If I try to talk to her she cries or yells and screams and plays the "I'm dying!" drama. What do I do? Please, I need serious answers not hurtful - smart *** remarks.

2006-12-26 13:06:58 · 25 answers · asked by Bubblione 2

Okay...the deal is...I don't know what to get my new adopted 10 year old sister for a late Christmas present...I have never met her before...and I sorta want to make a good impression...any ideas?

2006-12-26 12:58:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want my kids to grow up with traditional family values, but I DO NOT want them to be surrounded by fundamentalist Christians (a few are okay, but I want a place where other views are entertained and valued). Where can I find a moral, yet open-minded place to raise children?

2006-12-26 12:52:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My birthday is on Christmas Day, I don't really expect much, one year my husband of 16 years never even told me Happy Birthday!!! My feelings were so hurt....This year we drove 3 hours on Christmas day to my sister's house, my mom and dad were there as well as my brother and his family. As I walked in the door, my sister hands me a refrigerator magnet and says Happy Birthday....That's it!!! My own mother and father didn't mention it at all!!!! Today, the day after Christmas I told my husband that I think he should take the kids to the store and buy me a gift.....I feel so selfish - but that is what I do for his birthday, and I always make sure he has a cake, as well as for my three children........Am I just being a baby - to top it all off, this was a special birthday - I turned 40.....Please give it to me straight...

2006-12-26 12:48:32 · 26 answers · asked by josephina 2

2006-12-26 12:41:30 · 19 answers · asked by tummytuckedout 1

and that boy rang up your house everynight and eventually you decided to go and talk to him..but when we met up i found out how i was in 'love' with him..i havnt told my friend yet because im scared of how she would react, but if i dont tell her he said he's going to tell her.

2006-12-26 12:32:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

And he wants her to "do" it with her whenever HE wants to. Even when she is on her period. He grosses me out. He thinks she is some sexual machine.....my mom doesn't feel like doing it everyday with him, is that so bad? He has porn on his music folder. And he has tried to hit her before....he is NASTY, i dislike him, how do i get rid of him?? I know this sounds bad since he is my dad.

2006-12-26 12:26:16 · 21 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4

My husband's mother calls EVERY day. She wants to know everything and he does give her details of everything even when we fight. I really do not know how to let him know how much it bothers me; I have already told him but he takes it as if I was just being mean to her. She looks for an excuse to call every day, and the other day she told me she should know everything because she is his mom. She is a nice lady but I am starting to feel a little bit ticked off about it.

2006-12-26 12:18:39 · 18 answers · asked by Jessica G 2

2006-12-26 12:04:28 · 11 answers · asked by Cyncyn 1

When iv'e tried to confront her,she goes off.

2006-12-26 11:55:56 · 13 answers · asked by brown1 2

ok so my dad is an asshole. 4 years ago my dad ****** up, did drugs, cheated on his wife, lost his job, and tried to kill himself. So D.Y.F.S came and took me and my brothers away, split us up and put us in different homes. it hurt, but i forgave him. 3 years after that he let me move back in with him.. but he had a new girlfriend.. whom happens to be puerto rican (not to be racist) but totally totally having nothing in common and much younger. her and i hated each other and it finally came down to the point where she made him choose. he chose her and kicked me out :/ . he did the same to my little brother. its been 3 months and he hasnt called. i emailed him twice but he replied to only one. he didnt even send a card, call or anything on christmas. he hasnt sent anything to my mom for child support and were struggling. im left breakin hearted because he just so happens to be my favorite person in the entire world...

what do i do?

2006-12-26 11:49:28 · 8 answers · asked by Krys 1

I have 2 grown up kids, a boy 27 and a girl 23. I was a firm believer in discipline, even in spanking, and both were a bit troublesome when teens. Sometimes I had to be harsh. Today they are graduated, w/ good jobs and are terrific people, but almost hate me. It's more than I haven't talked or seen them. They resent their mom too. I lost any hope they make up with me, though I'll always love them

2006-12-26 11:48:11 · 12 answers · asked by Marcos 1