and that boy rang up your house everynight and eventually you decided to go and talk to him..but when we met up i found out how i was in 'love' with him..i havnt told my friend yet because im scared of how she would react, but if i dont tell her he said he's going to tell her.
2006-12-26 12:32:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't get me wrong by what I'm going to say but "please remind me again of why you call her best friend", I think that this's a type of things where you will see alot in a movie. I know that we need to be realistic a open minded but don't exaggerate, I understand the feelings you have for that guy but if I was your so called best friend as soon as you tell me i'll say that it's fine because really what else can she do, and then never talk to you or him again and just live your lifes happily ever after. I bet you that even if she might say ok that's fine i don't have a problem, she will some how seek revenge. How do you know if what she says is truth? I think that if you really care that much for your so call best friend you should stop anything that might happen between you and him at least until you're still best friend and tell her about it so like that if he comes to tell her something about it she won't feel betrayed by him and most importantly by you, avoid been the liar on your best friend's eyes. Trust me as soon as you open your mouth to tell her about it and then start dating the guy, your friendship with her will change for ever "I mean he is still her ex" and imagine her thinking of what would've happend betwen you and him if they were still dating, is going to be hard for her because she'll say or think that her best friend liked her boyfriend, so if I was you and really care about my friend I wouldn't even think about it, besides what will make you think that as soon as he's through with you he's not going to mess around with your probably by then, ex-best friend or someone else you care about for instance, "another friend".
*Just remember this, what goes around comes around!
and if she is worth then don't loose a friend for a guy who is trying to hit on his ex- best friend. why do you have to take her left over? you can do better than that. Best friends are suppose to love and respect each other not screw each others boyfriends, girlfriends, ex-boyfriends, or ex-girlfriends. That's not what a friendeship is all about. good luck.
2006-12-26 13:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by D1NONLY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright well these situations tend to be very tricky, deending on how close you and your friend are and how close her ex and her were things between the two of you could definantly be over in regards to the friendship. You have betrayed your friend and obviously this is not one of the best ways to keep a friendship,, but what you need to do is think about this: Is this guy worth loosing your best friend? If the situation were the other ay around would your friend have done this to you? and if she did/didn't how would you react about hearing about your ex talking to your friend? Do you see the relationship lasting more than a year? Do you think that he could do this with one of your other friends behind your back? Is this really love or lust from forbidden love? To be honest most people who find themselves in these situations do not stay together, because they always try for all the wrong reasons, and ususally the reason is just to prove a point that was wrong to begin with. Many of my friends did this to each other, and none of them are friends, and the guys who they chose over their friendships are nowhere to be found, sometimes it's best to just be the better person, and leave the guy, because before the guy came along, your friend was there for you. think about it, and good luck
2006-12-26 12:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Summer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're able to make beneficial she is thoroughly over him and would not have emotions that are too extraordinarily sturdy left for him. that is awkward on the two aspects. as quickly as you have carried out that i could say it somewhat is unfastened run. you're able to be calm with it and produce it up slowly in a communication to make beneficial she is over him. desire this enables! -Dazlinen112
2016-10-28 10:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend's ex is always off limits. What goes around comes around!
2006-12-26 13:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by So lyrical 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and wait a while. u dont wanna hurt ur friend but u dont wanna b untrue 2 urself by trying to forget about him. if u like him, then wait for a little and ask him out. tty friend first, try and get her opinion. if shes a good friend, shell apreciate that u talked 2 her about it first and while she might be jealous at first, i think shell be ok with u goin out w/ him.
2006-12-26 12:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by ~*[{BasKeT CasE}]*~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well why did your friend break up with him? But if you really do LOVE him than dont be scared to tell your friend
2006-12-26 12:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Ask&learn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out with him and you will lose your best friend am sure.If he is more important than her then go out with him.Impossible to be in love with him.It is just a crush.I suspect you are very young.
2006-12-26 12:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by jjinbkk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now you have to decide who you love more, your friend, or her ex, cuz you can't have both. It simply won't work!
You'll always be suspicious of them, she won't ever be the same. The only person benefitting is him!
2006-12-26 12:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Each1Teach1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. That's sleazy. You don't really fall in love like that.
2006-12-26 14:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TELL HER BECAUSE SHE IS GOING TO HAVE TO GET OVER HIM AT A POINT, AND SHE WOULD JUST HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE FACT THAT YOUR IN LOVE.
2006-12-26 12:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by brooklyn diva 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋