Family - December 2006

Ok me and my girlfriend has been going out for about a month now, I'm 19 and she is 16, we are exstreamly close to each other, inside kinda close. but anyway we love each other very much, but her step mom and her step mom's boyfriend wants to move far away, she isn't going to turn 18 for another year, but they are suppose to move this summer. I'm in college should we ask her mom to let her stay here with me and I turn to her Gardian or should I find another college down there and move with them. we both feel that we found the perfect persons that suppose to be in our lifes. What should I do?

2006-12-11 12:31:03 · 8 answers · asked by eclipsefreak 4

My family doesn't have a history of longevity, so have lost close aunt's and grandparents to death. The same is true of a few old friends. How do I react? You could say that I really don't, not in an impetuous or melodramatic way. When I learn that someone has died or is near death, I become inquisitive, wanting to know everything I can about how they died or what the problem is. I am willing to try and console those who may be more deeply affected than me, though I don't enjoy it or have a talent for it. But I don't cry with them. I don't hug them, unless they hug me. And I feel like I can understand them but don't feel or even desire empathy in that situation. Today, I got some bad news. My grandfather, a close relative who I bonded with and never lived more than 30 minutes away from, is in the hospital with a possibly fatal ulcer. I just came back home from visiting that room with my crying mom and cousin. I just didn't feel what they did. Should I?

2006-12-11 12:25:31 · 9 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7

My bf always plays video games for hours before he even starts his homework at the last minute. Every time he does that, he'd stay up all the night. It seems like he does things at very last minute. If I say something, he'd snap and talk back with attitude. It got to the point where he hung my laptop by hand as he yelled at me. Not a long time ago, I tried to get him the counseling and he refused to take it seriously. Should I back out and run from this relationship?

2006-12-11 12:15:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She can't help me with my homework, at all. She doesn't know how. She got mad at me for no reason again today!

2006-12-11 12:13:33 · 20 answers · asked by V H 1

My poor grandmother has been having a lot of stuff going on and she's had a lot on her mind since my grandpa has been sick recently. I can understand how she might have forgotten to call, I mean, it's something we've all done, and I tried to explain that to her but she's really shook up and I think she was crying! I feel so horrible and I don't know what to say to help her feel better and let her know in another way that it's ok.

2006-12-11 12:12:18 · 17 answers · asked by Hola Lola! 2

YOU SUPPORT IT?

2006-12-11 12:01:13 · 13 answers · asked by PROTEUS 3

I have not seen my father since i was 6, I was told that he died in 1984 but I am certain i encountered him in 1998. I contacted a private investigator and he found that his social security number that i know was his wasn't in ssn death index and that it had been used four times after 1984 as recent as 1990. There was no other identity attached to it and so the pi, a reputable one, informed me that it had to be him based on that fact, it wasn't someone trying to falsely obtain credit. He informed me the next step in finding him was to contact local municipalities, voter registration, etc. I'm not even sure where he lives, what city, can only guess as to where... can any one out there help me, i dont have any money because I'm sick and on disability, how can I find him?

2006-12-11 12:00:21 · 3 answers · asked by sam s 1

Alot of times I talk to my sister on the phone. About all she ever wants to talk about is what she's either getting for her home or she already has for her home. I would much rather be healthy for the rest of my life than have material things.Another thing, you can't take it with you when your gone. Most people don't stop and think about this.

2006-12-11 11:59:05 · 13 answers · asked by Nancy M. 4

Since I won't be here till saturday, I wanted to post it now. I am so happy! I'll be 41 this thursday.

2006-12-11 11:53:42 · 8 answers · asked by alizelatina41 3

My dad doesn't want me to move out, because he wants me to focus on getting my MBA. Since I have to work for a couple of years in order to get into a good MBA program, there's no way of getting my MBA sooner. I really want my independence and I have always been scared of my father. I've never done anything against my father's wishes, and I'm having a lot of trouble gathering the courage to confront him.

When I first asked him about it, I asked if I could move in with my boyfriend, since I would be splitting half the rent. From this, he forbade me to move and thinks I will get side tracked and forget about advancing my career.

I know I'm 22 and legally am able to do what i want, but I need some advice for daughters who are too scared to confront their fathers.

Please note: He has never hit me, but then again, I have rarely given him reasons to.

2006-12-11 11:50:42 · 15 answers · asked by deena 1

2006-12-11 11:48:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Especially when it comes to me dating!

2006-12-11 11:45:10 · 29 answers · asked by sarah h 2

Like, my parents are like in their 60's, and they're way too old to do anything fun, but they never give me anything. Why don't old people give some of their money to people who are young enough to have fun with it? It seems like all the rich people I ever meet are old. What are they going to do with the money besides pay for nursing homes?

2006-12-11 11:23:35 · 12 answers · asked by cdrfish6002 1

I am 14 and i want to run away and i have two options to run away to because they told me i could go stay with them!!! What should I do???

2006-12-11 11:15:44 · 27 answers · asked by Kathryn 1

I have ssn and stuff like that but no one will give me info or they whant me to pay a butload of money for it

2006-12-11 11:05:02 · 4 answers · asked by demonvona 1

my brother joined the airforce in august, right out of highschool. its been 4 months and i've only seen him once. we talk alot on msn and stuff...but i still dont know what to get him for x-mas. i want it to be important and to show that i love him, hes my brother. but im clueless...help me

2006-12-11 10:45:02 · 4 answers · asked by Soccergrl77 2

we are kinda tight in the budget and trying to stretch the dollar.anything nice but inexpensive items?

2006-12-11 10:36:57 · 2 answers · asked by naiobe 2

did u evr think proud of it?

2006-12-11 10:36:27 · 3 answers · asked by thik2luv 1

How are me and my Cousin's - - Cousin related
so there is (1) me and my mom. her sister married. (my uncle) and his sister had a (2)kid

How are we 1,2 related ?

2006-12-11 10:36:26 · 1 answers · asked by Merlin 2

There is this midnight thing at my church and my dad wants me to go but I don't know if I want to.

2006-12-11 10:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband will do things I ask of him but that’s all. It’s almost like I’m his mother. He will let the laundry pile up and won’t take it upon himself to do it eventhough he doesn’t have any clean socks.

Am I living in a fantasy world where I expect my husband to be pro-active?

2006-12-11 10:25:58 · 9 answers · asked by Summer 4

isnt ok with it because hes worried about a new man in my life after being my dad for over 10 years any suggestions to what i should do?

2006-12-11 10:24:32 · 8 answers · asked by clayton a 2

anything you know about teepees,the report is due tomorrow, and we dont know anything,please help!!!!

2006-12-11 10:18:44 · 5 answers · asked by icantdothisanymore 1

She smokes atleast one pack every three days. She did one time get close to stoping, but didn't. I try to tell her, but she doesn't listen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-11 10:14:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is a teacher (Substitute ) but she has an accent, and no one can understand her sometimes. And people talk about her, "Shes retarded, How can someone teach engish and not know how to speak, etc. It gets on my nerves and sometimes makes me cry, and when they talk about her, I try to Ignore them but then it gets to hard to handle, so I start to cry and put down my head. later they see me crying and and say sorry and I didn't mean to make you cry ect. and today that happened again and I started to cry but after a couple of minutes my teacher saw me crying and after class he talked to them and gave them a warning. and I get scared sometimes because I have breathing problems and when I cry I can't stop and I can't breath so I put my head down for a while untill I feel better. Today was the second time this they have made me cry (Different people) and I don't know if I can handle it for 4 more years (until I graduate) sometimes I don't want to go to school, but I go. What should I do?

2006-12-11 10:02:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please Help!

2006-12-11 09:47:32 · 17 answers · asked by Tierney T 1

2006-12-11 09:42:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a two cousins. a boy who's about 16 and a girl who's about 12. They live in india and have a birthday coming up. I'm not worried about getting it to them since my nani is going there soon, but i'm not sure what they would want for their birthday. I live in America and I would like to get them something that they may not be able to get there in India. They live in a medium sized village and own land there. My parents earn an average amount here. Do you have any ideas of what they may want?

2006-12-11 09:40:35 · 16 answers · asked by naina92 2

he is coming from chicago,ill,12/12/06..ineed to get him in scholl and get health,food,financial aid,etc..he is in grade school. my wife is drawing unemployment/job layoff.. im on social security..im a vietnam vet..

2006-12-11 09:33:41 · 7 answers · asked by wallace k 1

Have you ever been in a disagreement with a sibling and they stopped talking to you? Despite leaving them emails, phone messages and what not they are determined to ignore you? WHat did you do to get that realtionship back or did you just let them come around on tehir own terms?

Long story short- got into an arguement via email over holiday plans that sibling was bugging about. said a few things that werent mean but they thought they were. I apologized even though i did not feel like i was in the wrong but i havent heard anything from that person in over a week even though my trying to communicate.

whats your thought on this?

2006-12-11 09:27:02 · 4 answers · asked by glorymomof3 6