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I am 14 and i want to run away and i have two options to run away to because they told me i could go stay with them!!! What should I do???

2006-12-11 11:15:44 · 27 answers · asked by Kathryn 1 in Family & Relationships Family

27 answers

Why do you want to run away? If you would like to talk you may E mail me. I am a mother perhaps it would help you to talk. Please don't do anything rash but think this through.

2006-12-11 11:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0 1

Don't run away, this will get you into a great deal of trouble when you do finally come home. And you will, people are only going to allow you to stay with them for so long for free. And you are two years away from being able to legally work, and you will need a work permit. Besides you need to continue on with your education so you will be able to care for yourself when you graduate from high school and want to attend college. If things are so bad at your home, you need to talk to an adult that you can trust such as a school teacher, the school guidance counselor or school principal. Good luck and God bless****

2006-12-11 11:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

Looks like you really do need to get away!! If the problem is solvable and you can work things out then you shouldn't run away becuase that means you are taking the easy option and running away from it. It will just cause more problems down the track but if it isn't then maybe you should and it's good that you have somewhere to go other then not having anywhere and being on the streets!!

2006-12-11 11:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by pqr 2 · 0 1

You say you have a couple of places to run away to? You arent running away to anything, youre running away from something. Your best bet is to stay where you are unless youre being abused physically, or being molested. In that case you should tell the police, or a counselor. At 14 every boy or girl wants to run away, because they are feeling smothered by thier parents. Trust me on this. Your parents are your biggest supporters. It wont get better somewhere else...probably worse. Good luck

2006-12-11 11:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by ob10830 2 · 0 0

What are you running away from? That is not the answer whatever the problem is I am sure you can work it out! The world is not a kind or nice place to be without someone who cares for you by your side! Stay at home and stay safe!

2006-12-11 12:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by nuttynat_69 1 · 0 0

Don't run away I'm sure your parents love you very much. You would not be able to survive out on your own believe me its hard for some of the adults to do it. Just remember tomorrow is a new day so forgive and forget the sooner the better.

2006-12-11 11:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Cheezy 2 · 0 1

Bon Jovi - Runaway BA: Yeah, it kind of feels they might constantly give up at my condo on their means and I might speak them out of it. Maybe that is why they stopped through. I ran away while I was once in top university. I bumped into my first-rate (woman) pal even as I was once simply escaping the snatch of the vice most important. I want I hadn't, due to the fact she involved such a lot approximately me. BA2: I haven't any proposal. Some of them put up it on thier profile

2016-09-03 08:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

dear Kathryn,
Of course you should NOT run away, and I think you know this already because we smart people named Kathryn know such things! Obviously there are reasons you're unhappy at home, and so THAT is what needs your attention, and needs fixing. Please tell your parents--or if you really can't tell them, then tell the nicest teacher in your school, even if he or she isn't your own teacher-- that you wrote this question and got my answer--and try to start talking about the things that make you want to leave. I'm betting you're smart enough to take this first step and start FIXING things rather than making them worse (which is what will happen if you run off...). Good luck! I know you can do it.
--Another Kathryn

2006-12-11 11:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Kathryn 1 · 0 1

Stay at home. Once you run away, you are at the mercy of the people you stay with and at 14 the only money option you have is being a whore or porno.

2006-12-11 11:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Don't run away. If you really want to get out, get a job, save some money, and then you can get a place of your own in a few years. I'm 18, want to move out, and am looking for jobs so I can get some money to get my own place too. But is it really that bad? If you can enjoy these years you should.

2006-12-11 11:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by leena 4 · 0 0

Life is not the same as it used to be in the olden days. If you have an opportunity to change the people you live with, I'd suggest you do it legally, while hurting the least number of people. Sometimes, and overworked mom would welcome the fact that her teenager was able to stay in a new, SAFE place.

2006-12-11 11:39:08 · answer #11 · answered by J89434 2 · 0 0

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