Ok me and my girlfriend has been going out for about a month now, I'm 19 and she is 16, we are exstreamly close to each other, inside kinda close. but anyway we love each other very much, but her step mom and her step mom's boyfriend wants to move far away, she isn't going to turn 18 for another year, but they are suppose to move this summer. I'm in college should we ask her mom to let her stay here with me and I turn to her Gardian or should I find another college down there and move with them. we both feel that we found the perfect persons that suppose to be in our lifes. What should I do?
2006-12-11 12:31:03 · 8 answers · asked by eclipsefreak 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hey i have a boyfriend who will be in college before me... if she's not turning 18 until next yr.. then that is kind of a problem... Most parents would not let their 17 yr old daughter stay with her boyfriend when they move far away and i wouldn't ask so that you can still hold trust... Talk to your college about taking your classes online... many people do that so that they have the freedom of going wherever they please and then you can move with them...
Hope it helps!
2006-12-11 12:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by littlepirateprincess_93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to really think about everything are your sure this is who you want to be with and not just someone you lust after. You need to also think about how she is going to feel after a while when her family is not by her.That would mean that you would mean that you would have to be everything to her and always be their for her good and bad even if you're not married. Because she is making you her family. If she is 16 then you should not be with her. But I'm thinking you might have push it wrong. But I think that this is all something you two should really think about before you do it because in the end one could hate the other for what the other did for them. Love makes you do alot of think you wouldn't do normaly so please talk alot work it out then do what you both think is best for you. You also need to think about that here you have a place to live. I don't know if you live with her but you do their you would have to start all over and that is hard on someone. Just stop and think about what life is in this love you have to
2006-12-11 12:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 08:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is 16 turning 18??? lets see is that a math a question?
2006-12-11 12:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to be thinking about your school and not some girl because there you say she is 16 going on 18 ...?????? hello lol
2006-12-11 12:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Evey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do none of the above. You are legally an adult. She is not. Concentrate on your schooling for now. She should also be doing same.
2006-12-11 12:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no ask if he can stay till he get s a job
2006-12-11 12:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by A P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your math is WAY off!!!!!!!!!! LOL (laughing out loud)
2006-12-11 12:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kathryn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋