Family - November 2006

me and my 15y/o son got into a heated argument and he told me to go fuc* my self and i then told him to go kill himself. now he wants to live with his mom full time(right now we have joint custody)
since he doesnt want to live with me anymore will the judge make his decision completely based on that and give her full custody even though she lives on a fixed income?

2006-11-19 07:02:07 · 5 answers · asked by Charles B 2

I won £5000's worth of holiday vouchers in September and used £2000 of them to take my son to Mauritius in October, then asked my mum and brother where they would like to go.

My mum said she'd like to go to St Lucia and the best time for her was February 07 so I used a further £2000 of the vouchers to book a 2 week holiday for her and my brother. My mum told me yesterday very matter of factly that if she was to go now she would not get holiday pay from work as she had no entitlement left, therefore she was not going to go now.
I explained that the holiday was NON-REFUNDABLE, NON-CHANGEABLE and NON-TRANSFERABLE so no-onelse could go in their place - the £2k would be lost if she did not go. I also said "but you were the one who told me to book for that date, and if I'd known you were going to change your mind I could have booked the holiday for other people to go". She really does not seem to care that £2k is wasted and I feel so hurt and angry that she has done this..

2006-11-19 07:01:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin is a hair dresser and she won't take money from family I have 50+ cousins what should I do instead of paying her she won't take money I was thinking of taking my 2nd cousin to Gymnastics because she is bussy?HELP ME!

2006-11-19 06:56:49 · 2 answers · asked by *Pooka* 4

Well i was sat in my bedroom with Shadow who was cleaning my infected toe whilst i was eating my supper and i heard a strange scraping at the window. I had a look out and i couldnt believe it. Brother was hanging from some rope with his pyjamas on staring in with some binoculars. I quickly closed the curtains and ran downstairs, when i ran downstairs he was in the kitchen and when i confronted him he denied it and said that he'd been cooking kippers and cheese for the last half an hour! Ive also noticed that he's been watching me and following me in my cat because when ive stopped at traffic light he was in the car next to me with his binoculars and I knew it was him because he had on his favourite Sponge Bob Square Pants Y Fronts. Shadow wants to scratch him but I said not to. What should I do?

2006-11-19 06:54:55 · 26 answers · asked by Shadow Fletcher 1

2006-11-19 06:50:00 · 10 answers · asked by Direktor 5

2006-11-19 06:47:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example, a parent tells a kid to go to their room and they walk out the front door instead.

What can a person do?

2006-11-19 06:32:56 · 15 answers · asked by Led*Zep*Babe 5

my mother takes everything the wrong way.if i say that the room is dirty,she'll call my dad and then i get in trouble 4 it.i've never done anything like sneak out the house or something that'll set her off like that.i'm always appoligising 4 things i didn't even start.i have 2 younger sibs,4,&,7 & she acts like they are more important then me.i ran away 2 my bffs house but i got caught.i know it not the right thing 2 do,but,it's the only way i can get away from all her bitterness and rudeness.she used 2 call me by my nickname,but stoped calling me by it.what should i do!!!!
P.S. dont be mean please! ;(

2006-11-19 06:28:38 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer T 2

My boyfriend gets hit by his adopted mom once and a while...she also kicks him out sometimes...should i bring him to my house and have him stay here for a while? what can i do? keep in mind that we're still in high school...

its been bothering me cause i feel like i can't do anything about it, how can i help?

2006-11-19 06:23:07 · 5 answers · asked by Blondie 2

i dont live at home. i got snippy with my dad the other dad and he told me to get out and now he wont talk to me. he doesnt want anything to do with me . he told my mom to tell me if i come to see her to call and he'll leave. was snippy at him enough to make him hate me and what do i do to make it all better again?

2006-11-19 06:14:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-19 06:10:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHERE ARE YOU NOW..... YOU WANNA MEET YOUR SON

2006-11-19 05:57:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-19 05:55:09 · 7 answers · asked by sheblese m 2

2006-11-19 05:48:30 · 28 answers · asked by porker animal 2

2006-11-19 05:43:46 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there a website that helps me locate this information? also i cannot find her will, she always told me she had one.

2006-11-19 05:42:50 · 1 answers · asked by joey w 1

she says that in her house my husband will not discipline my daughter (not biological) because it is her house. If i dont call her the day before she babysits, she says when i show up "oh I am watching her today no one called me" even though this has been our schedule for over a year now. She gets made at me when i tell my almost 5 yr old to hurry up and quit being pokey, saying i am being mean she is just a baby. She says i expect too much to have her make her bed (no one critiques her making it we know it isnt perfect) , and that she never made me do that stuff when i was younger. She says I better not move away since they just bought a house in the surrounding area since last time i said i would be in that area. She does alot for us dinners/laundry/ has purchased alot. I didnt ask, she says she wants to, even though i have said you dont need to, but i feel she uses this as a way of still being needed. I cant approach her about this she will just get mad at not talk to me for weeks

2006-11-19 05:36:13 · 6 answers · asked by xchy 1

Ther reason i ask this is because earlier this week i told my cousin how i felt about him and my other cousin and how they are datin. was i wrong for telling him that and just to let you guys know they are both cousins but im not mad at him im mad at her because she did the same thing to me 2 years ago she wen ot with my boyfriend behind my back. now she is takin my cousin away from me after me and him reunited after 6years so am i wrong or is she.?

2006-11-19 05:29:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister-in-law is very jealous of our family, and she's expressed this jealosy to her mother who told my mother who told me. Long story short--we have everything in a family she's always wanted.

She wants to take my son out for a play date with her friend's son. On the surface, I'm thinking, "yes! I can do shopping and cleaning! Thank you!"

However, today she told us that she was feeling out of place being with her friends who have kids and want to feel at home.

I'm feeling like she's using our son to fit in with her friends. I understand, but could I not be involved as well? That's me being selfish, but I've expressed a desire to attend as well.

This hurts, stemming from the point that our church basically considers our son to be hers since we had a child out of wedlock. Doesn't make sense, but that's how they've treated us.

The question: how should I approach this? While I know that I cannot block my own feelings, I know that there is no solution.

2006-11-19 05:17:54 · 3 answers · asked by FaZizzle 7

i dont know if this is normal, she says i dont show concern for her only for my husband// unsure what i should be concerned about, my husband has medical issues, she is jealous of attention i give to him// she says he cannot discipline my daughter since he is not the fahter, she nit picks how i am with my daughter, she says i should always answer my phone because what if someone was killed // died? she says if i loved her i would contact my sister (whom they had a falling out) to make sure she is alive. She is upset because i didnt offer to host thanksgiving? she is made at me because i wasnt all upety about our wedding decorations, she says, i dont know what to do she has me convinced i am horrible person

2006-11-19 05:10:53 · 11 answers · asked by xchy 1

i need quiet
where do you go to get quiet times
i cant concentrate
it is doing my head in
please help me
i have tried another room
i have tried my bedroom
i need help
please
help me

2006-11-19 05:05:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

..soon..

My Dad has had a serious heart problem for the last coupla years - he is 65, lately he has been feeling breathless/pains etc and seems to have aged 10 fold in last coupla months.

Therefore when I put my daughter who is 2 to bed for the last 3 nights I have just cried and cried. I keep remembering all the stories he told me when he was younger and about my Granny..also flooded with memories of when I was a kid and stroppy teenager/selfish young adult etc

My Dad is my best friend and I could not have asked for a kinder, brighter or funnier man so the thought of life without him there just absolutely destroys me..

Dunno if this is normal either but also just feel so sad that he did not have a better life (money very tight and always some quagmire) and guilty for the many times I was a brat and did not appreciate him or took him for granted or was grumpy etc

Writing this just feeling distraught..

2006-11-19 05:02:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My older sister recently purchased a property from my aunt. Residing in the building are three tenants. One of the tenants is my aunt's daughter-my cousin Deidra, age 46. Deidra has lived in her mom's building for 10+ years and has not paid rent. She has two jobs, a 22 year old daughter who lives with her and works full time, and also a 1 year old granddaughter. Her mom gave her a car, so she has no monthly bill for that, and her mom pays her gas bill. Her only expenses are electricity and phone.

My sister's mortgage is $3000. She has raised the rent for the tenants to $1200 each and told Deidra she must pay. it's been 2 months and Diedra is avoiding the family and has not paid. When I talked to her about a week ago, she laughed as if it were a joke. My sister is very serious about starting eviction proceedings. She would rather the apartment be vacant than have to continue paying this cousin's rent.

My sis would like some advice on dealing with this situation constructively.

2006-11-19 05:01:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so im 13 and my friends step dad has really good connections and is getting me, my other friend, and his step-daughter free tickets in first, second or third row for the Red Hot Chili Peppers concert on Febuary 27 in Chicago. We will be getting free food and backstage passes to meet the band. My parents say that im too young but im trying to get across to them that i am a very responsible child (i hate drugs'n'stuff like that) and that this is a once in a lifetime experince. is it? and what shoud i say to my parents?

2006-11-19 04:54:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 16 yrs old and I have 2 other sisters, ones 13 and one is going on 18 andd she is a heroine addict and my mom really wants her to get help she has brought her to a rehab facility just for my sister to change her mind saying she doesnt want to go, my mom is really frustrated and doesnt know what to do anymore so she is becoming a mean and bitter person towards everyone in our family and she really needs help before i go crazy and kill myself. What can I do?

2006-11-19 04:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by hbhh 4

2006-11-19 04:48:52 · 22 answers · asked by J.Poet 1

My son lives in another city. He wants me to come visit for the holidays but he also wants my ex to visit too. I can not be in the same house with him not because we fight (we get along), its just I don't want to spend any time with him. I don't have anyone, neither does he and I feel my son wants us back together again but it won't happen. I have told both my grown son and daughter that I will not go there if he is there. Spending time in a hotel is out of the question as the nearest one is too far away. What do you think?

2006-11-19 04:17:52 · 12 answers · asked by sunshine_lady 1

She's being really mean, degrades her sister, is jealous and even put her money in her sister drawer to make believe the ynunger had stolen it. The truth came out and she apologized and show regret. How to handle this w/ justice, showing thd younger we are fair, but also w/ love, without destroying the 13 yo? We must have some fault in this sad episode.

2006-11-19 04:17:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Names accepted from every culture.

2006-11-19 04:11:43 · 28 answers · asked by ancutzabatalar 3

dislike sum1 for being a mamas boy when his dad is dead. he is a real mamas boy he wont see me w/o her therea nd its only like 1 time per month

2006-11-19 04:07:24 · 5 answers · asked by the5500 2