i dont live at home. i got snippy with my dad the other dad and he told me to get out and now he wont talk to me. he doesnt want anything to do with me . he told my mom to tell me if i come to see her to call and he'll leave. was snippy at him enough to make him hate me and what do i do to make it all better again?
2006-11-19 06:14:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
why not send him a card and in the card let me know how you feel - if you are truly sorry - and want him back in your life - tell him this - let him know that this was the very thing he had to do to you to make you grow up and respect him. but, remember, you really have to mean these words, you just can go back to your old ways with him - because the NEXT time, (if he forgives you, and, i think he will) he may not change his mind. you can just get so many chances - until the person you are hurting, gives up on you. so hold true to your word to him, if you go with this idea. i wish you well.
2006-11-19 06:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you said
An all out apology, heartfelt and true is a start
Remind him that you do love him and that you are incredibly sorry and completely missing him and would not look forward to a time without being able to come to him. (Even Cedric - Ivanhoes father - was able to forget percieved wrongs after disowning his son) Family ties is what makes our country work.
Whether your words to him were true or not is irrelevant - some battles simply are not worth winning.
I could not imagine a thing that my daughters could do that I could never forgive them for.
Although total disrepect is one of those things that would hurt, a heartfelt and honest apology would undo the pain in a minute.
2006-11-19 06:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your father is doing to you is extremely like what my mom does to me while she is mad at me. Your father IS being immature and could finally advance up. My father is the comparable way approximately autos. If we even harm them, he cares extra related to the value of adjusting the vehicle than our lives. it is so ridiculous that my father places money and fabric products in the past his enjoyed ones. As for you, only ignore approximately your father and act like he would not exist. extra suitable yet, act as in case you haven't any longer have been given a dad, and doubtless then he will understand that he's being a jerk and could understand which you're what concerns extra suitable than that stupid automobile.
2016-11-25 19:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you were in a really bad mood and you didn't mean to take it out on him. apologize and tell him you want to make things better.. he's your dad, im sure he'll forgive you eventually. hope it all works out!
2006-11-19 06:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try apologizing to him. Let him know that you love him and want him to forgive you.
2006-11-19 06:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋