ok so im 13 and my friends step dad has really good connections and is getting me, my other friend, and his step-daughter free tickets in first, second or third row for the Red Hot Chili Peppers concert on Febuary 27 in Chicago. We will be getting free food and backstage passes to meet the band. My parents say that im too young but im trying to get across to them that i am a very responsible child (i hate drugs'n'stuff like that) and that this is a once in a lifetime experince. is it? and what shoud i say to my parents?
2006-11-19 04:54:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that you should respect your parents call on this one hun...sorry. You are only 13, and your parents love you and are protecting you from experiances that you are not yet ready to handle.
2006-11-19 04:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea backstage passes don't come along that often...I'm an amateur musician who's been at it for years and I actually never had any backstages to speak of...but mom and dad have a point too...there's things going on back there from what I understand that are shall we say, off the hook?...I mean...it might be no big, but then again it might be...the world of the concerts back stage is one of well drugs, groupies and more of the same....not all bands are the same so you might not know what to expect...but it might be better if you had a chaperon...lay that on the table and you might get in...pick someone who has experience in music etc....good luck...
2006-11-19 05:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were going to have to sit down with them and tell them that you want to talk to them. You must look be really serious about this. Asked them if they really trust you enough to let you go to the concert. Tell them that you know that this is a really big deal for them because you were there little daughter and they love you and they are only trying to protect you. Make sure that there is someone that they trust that is with you that they can depend on to keep an eye on you. No matter what happens remember that they just love you and they are really worried about you. If you have never done anything to make them ever doubt you you might have a chance if you sit down and have a serious talk with them. Good luck with the concert
2006-11-19 05:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by buddyl52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not a once in a lifetime experience...to be honest...that group has been around for a good while now and they will probably be around next year too...If you want to SHOW your parents you are responsible to try to help convince them to let you go...try being a good kid...like doing as you are asked without complaining and whining about every little thing like my niece does...her parents never let her go anywhere because even if she wants to go she will find some thing to complain about and it's a night mare for everyone around her. just talk to your parents and tell them calmly what you think and that you really want to go this year while the band is still HOT in the music scene, and before they become "has beens"
2006-11-19 05:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ultimatly just sit down with them and explain that this is a once in a lifetime experience. If they still don't think this is a good idea...then yours is too obey. Sometimes parents will make you miss opportunities like this if they fear you may be in some danger, or exposed to something you shouldn't be. It does sound like you have a good head on your shoulders...so I'm sure they also know it.
Be open and honest with them. But respect their decision.
2006-11-19 04:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young and the step dad is being an irresponsible show off. It's possible that minors under 18 won't be welcome backstage. Your parents are right. Thank God someone has some responsible, intelligent parents- be glad they're yours. Stop nagging your parents about this or you'll ruin Christmas.
2006-11-19 04:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might be responsible but there are those out there who arent. Are there adults going with you to the concert? If so do your parents know them? If there are adults going(I would hope so), then introduce them to your parents so they know who will be taking responsibility of the most precious thing in their lives.
2006-11-19 04:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by beatagammaray 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you really need to go. you are not too young.It would be a great experience which should not be missed. I'd encourage my kid to go. part of learning to be independent. You will learn to handle what ever comes your way. a parents job is not to control but prepare their child to be prepared for adulthood. This experience would be a good place to start. good luck and enjoy the show.
2006-11-19 04:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask the father of your friend to get another ticket and have an adult or older sibling chaperon
2006-11-19 04:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not have your parents talk with your friends parents (step-father) and sit down and maybe arrange to have someone chaperone? i can totally appreciate their concerns but perhaps they need to talk with your friends parents for reassurance. in answer to is it a once in a life time opportunity? the answer is no. you are 13. you will have many once in a life time opportunities God willing.
2006-11-19 04:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by bella36 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋