my daughter bullies me, she's gettin harder to deal with, any ideas.?

Answer 1

file an unruly on her , that way if any violence happens they will see that you are trying to get help for her. they will place her on probation, give her community service and send her to anger management. hopefully she'll learn that there are consequences for her actions and some sense of responsibility on how to deal with other people. if she goes out in the world with that attitude she is going to get hurt or wind up in jail for hurting someone else. you also may get some counseling established so they can find out why she has so much animosity towards you and you can gain control back in YOUR household. good luck. I'll keep you in my prayers.

Answer 2

I really cant understand people like you, how can your daughter bully you? Who's the parent? You need to show her who's boss, when you set a rule stick to it, if she does'nt obey the rule then carry out a punishment. Yes, i'm old fashioned, children should be given lots of love but they also need someone strong to make them think twice about doing wrong. She's getting harder to deal with because she's getting away with murder. Sit her down and tell her this is how things are gonna be from now on. Say it and mean it, you'll be doing her a favour in the long run.

Answer 3

That would depend on your child's age. You have to establish yourself as the adult in the relationship. I'm going to assume that your daughter is a teenager if she's trying to bully you.

If she is a teenager, try taking away some of the things she thinks she may be entitled to. Make her laundry her own clothes, walk or take public transportation from school. Give her no allowance or additional money. Force her to take care of herself until she recognizes how totally powerless she is to her mother.

There is also plan B. This a called the "Southern Mother Discipline Method". Knock her upside the head. When she comes too...she should have assimilated all the knowledge necessary.

Answer 4

How old is your daughter? For one thing you are the mother here and if any bullying is to be done you should be the one to do it.

If you daughter is under the age of 17, then you tell her straight that while she is under your roof, she needs to learn some respect, and she needs to do what you tell her to, other wise you will put her into care

If she is 18, then she is an adult and you need to throw her out of your house so that she can't bully you. Tell her that you will not put up with this and you don't have too. If she admits to raise her hand to hit you, the phone the police and have her arrested for assault

Answer 5

if shes little then try to have a more fun relationship.....but dont let her walk all over you. if shes a teen try to get involved in her interests a little (I DONT mean come down the stairs for breakfast one morning wearing a linkin park t-shirt, mini skirt, boots and dyed hair) i mean if she likes a praticular type of movie go up to her one day when she seems like she doesn't have anything planned and ask her if she wants to catch it with you. if she says no then no big. try again at a later stage....dont seem desperate to get her attention no matter what age she is, that will only let her know that shes in control. you can be the nice friendly kind caring mother, but with a sting. if she bullies you a lot then simply send her to her room. (If shes a teen make sure you lock the windows of her room too) everytime she fights you add a day on to her grounding. ban her from the tv, games consols, computer, simple things like that. when you give her a punishment look her right in the eye but if you think looking her in the eye for too long is hard then tell her to get moving quickly, or just walk out of the room yourself, she will(Once shes calmed down) think about what shes done. take it from a recovering hell raiser.

Answer 6

Your daughter can only bully you if you allow it (this is provided you are speaking of a child 18 or younger and not a grown child abusing the elderly).

You and your daughter need counseling now...both separately and together. You need to learn to set limits and boundaries where she is concerned and why you have not been able to. She needs to understand that bullying anyone is wrong and why she bullies. Together you need to establish a better relationship.

Answer 7

I'm guessing your daughter's in her early teens. You propably won't like this answer but I think (and it's only my opinion) that many parents allow their children to dictate and rule the roost when they are young eg. 'turn the channel over and let her watch the cartoons', 'if you don't like it I'll cook you something else', and letting them decide what time they go to bed etc. Then, when they get to their teens and start dictating to their parent on more important issues the parents think the children are to blame. Remember she is a child, YOU are the parent, they need you to tell them what to do, but will always push the boundaries. For your daughter's sake, be a parent. No one else will allow her to bully them so she is going to end up in a lot of trouble.

Answer 8

How old is your daughter? If she's younger than 13 then you have to set down the law with her. Parenting is not a democracy, she has to learn to deal with the fact that there are rules that should be followed and that you, as her mother, know better. Don't allow yourself to be intimidated by her, that way she'll understand that she can't get her way all the time.

Answer 9

Be firm with her, you're the boss. I wouldn't have dared to bully my Mum or disrespect her when I was growing up. And actually it might not be p.c. to say so but I really do believe in a good hiding if need be. If I was really bad, my Mum used to throw her shoe at me then make me pick it up and take it back to her. Soon learned to be respectful. Parents are far too soft with their kids these days.

Answer 10

First of all how old is your daughter? Second of all she can only go as far as you allow her too. If she is small. Whoop her butt. If she's to old for a whoopin' I suggest you get a bat from Wal-mart. Are you can take opption three, hit her in the throat. You make her think your as crazy as she is and I bet she'll back off.