Family - October 2006

anything that i can make on my own?

2006-10-06 04:03:53 · 10 answers · asked by havenstar11 2

2006-10-06 04:03:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going to jail on Oct. 16 for 90 days which means I'm going to be in jail for my mom's birthday, Halloween, Thanksgiving, my sister's birthday, my best friend's birthday, Christmas, and New Year's. I'm absolutely devistated by this and I know my family is too. I need some ideas about how to make this up to them since it's my fault.

2006-10-06 04:00:35 · 5 answers · asked by Rachel 1

not sure what to do as we have 3 kids ages 6 5 and 2

2006-10-06 03:57:02 · 6 answers · asked by mumof3 3

2006-10-06 03:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by mybigasshippo 1

Im 21 years old girl, and having have been working and going college and doing the best for myself, I still live at home, but have put up with so much pain from my mum, have tried running away, although this is difficult ,she shouts so much at me for no reason what so ever and uses abuses words towards me, Ive complained about her , and have been given some numbers , even if someone calls for me at my door she gets scared and stays back, today she was again starting on the bad words at me, so for the first time I said to her that ,im gonna call on someone on her, and went in my room , she was mouthing off and live on your own someone rape you nasty words like that to , but she didnt dare enter my room and say anything to me, she even started swearing at my brothers, so there could say oh she swears at us too, they were also angry at her behavour although she loves shouting at me behind thier backs if possible, but when I said im gonna call someone, she gone all good with me, what d

2006-10-06 03:39:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-06 03:25:55 · 8 answers · asked by lilchevy78 1

I always wanted to be the girl who stood out. Not because of my pink cavalier, but because I really never had a thing for "getting drunk". it's useless and I could care less if i ever take a drink.

2006-10-06 03:23:55 · 8 answers · asked by Tiffany K 3

He is a real cry baby. I cannot stand him. I deal with him for my mothers' sake.

2006-10-06 03:23:44 · 13 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1

Me and this girl talk to each other. I had to talk to her mother and she ask me my family background and my girlfriend Grandfather is my Great Grandfather brother. So is she related to me. I hope not. I really like that girl. Is that to far down the line for her to be my couzin?

2006-10-06 03:22:32 · 10 answers · asked by Makaveli 2

My parents divorced when I was 3. She married an alcoholic when I was 5. He was mean, acted like us kids were dirt. Mom left him every year for 8 years. We would clean out the house while he was at work and move, only to come back each time. Mom was always too busy worrying and fighting with him. Never got attention. As a teen, she turned crazy it seemed. Called me names, horrible names. Did not want me around. Just always cruel and neglectful. Confronted her when I was going thru therapy 4 years ago. Denied all. Always says she was a good mom and everything she did she did for me. We have still had a relationship since then, but she often upsets me with her words. She is very dramatic and negative. She recently said an awful thing and we have not spoke in a week. She will not return my calls. So much more to all of this, but do not have enough room to type it. I just feel emotionally drained and I have a husband and son to think about.

2006-10-06 03:08:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELP PLEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSE fast

2006-10-06 03:01:54 · 25 answers · asked by shosho 1

2006-10-06 02:57:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my family is really diffrant my dad drinks and my mom stands there lets him say mean things to me and my bros and sises

2006-10-06 02:35:17 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda Fay! 3

i was talking to my bf last night and something came up so i couldnt go to his house today......thanx to my mom...........anyways...he started thinking that my parents dont want us around each other so he told me he didnt know if it would work out or not.........i started crying of course........my mom called me and asked me what was wrong and i told her nothing and she kept asking me.......the first conclusion she jumped to and the first question she asked was if i was pregnant.........like 2 weeks ago i couldnt eat anything bcuz it made me nauseaus to smell food and i told her that and she goes do u have anything u want to tell me and i go like what and she goes usually that means ur pregnant...........she has kept asking me if i am and im not. y does she keep asking me the same thing? is it becuz i went to my boyfriends house like for the last 3 weekends? is that y she thinks i am pregnant? its impossible for me to be pregnant.

2006-10-06 02:24:56 · 8 answers · asked by blondie 2

2006-10-06 02:19:39 · 15 answers · asked by rcdc_wva. 2

2006-10-06 02:00:41 · 13 answers · asked by Kindred 5

because she usese wrong words at me, I even complained about her to some places, and have thought and tried to runaway

but today she was starting on me, and I said I was gonna call someone, she and went in my room, she was just mouthing off
but didnt bother to come in my room and say somthing

I ve always respected her ,even saying this to a mother is not nice
but it worked, I took a step and it worked what do you think, she never stop uses bad words at me she so terreible

2006-10-06 01:54:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my b/f"s oldesy who is 4 has recently started wetting the bed, hitting his brother ,and is showing signs of hate tward things.we think since his mother has not came to see him that could play a part in his change in behavior. he was not as bad as he is now and we are running out of options on what to do with him. we have tried almost every thing we are open to new ideas. and please don't tell me to sit down and talk to him about his feelings because we have tried that over and over again and it DOES NOT WORK not with him atleast.

2006-10-06 01:49:55 · 7 answers · asked by angel_boo_2 2

I have a bad relationship with my mother. She not interested in me and dotes on my brother, his wife and the children. They have made it perfectly clear that im not part of their "Gang"! Should i cut my losses and get on with my life?

2006-10-06 01:27:15 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-06 01:26:23 · 10 answers · asked by freakydemon1221 1

like if you give a 3 year old everything she wants you soon have spoiled her. what if you do everything you parents ask you? and they are just the lazy ones?

2006-10-06 01:23:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have two daughters ages 7 and 5. My youngest daughter has had a lot of medical problems growing up and still has a severe speech problem(she talks at about the lvl of an 2 year old). Other than the speech problem my 5 year old Gracie is a very intellegent little girl for her age and can do things he older sister can't do but she is beyond defiant. I know the problem can't be jealosy or lack of attention, she has recieved so much attention because of her medical problems alone, not to mention that she is being raised in a very loving home. She is now to the point that she will even hit her mother, she doesn't listen, and she doesn't care when she is punished. Nothing works, I've tried everything I even went as far as embarrasing her in front of her friends from school. Sometimes she can be a very loving girl but when she decides she wants to act up there is no punishment, or conseqeunce that will deter her. She even came close to killing the family cat. Is a psychiatrist a good idea

2006-10-06 01:20:55 · 12 answers · asked by ScareCrow26 2

OK I HAVE BEEN CUSTODIAL PARENT FOR 10 1/2 YRS HE HAD PARTIAL HE ONLY WANTED TO BE WITH HIS KIDS ON HIS WEEKEND VISITS NEVER WANTED THEM MORE...HE WAS ONLY PAYING ME 50 AWEEK FOR FOUR BOYS FOR 10 YRS ,THE REASON WHY I ONLY RECIEVED 50 AWEEK WAS CAUSE HE TOLD ME HE WOULD GIVE UP HIS RIGHTS TO OUR BOYS I DIDNT WANT TO BE THE BLAME FOR THE KIDS NOT TO HAVE THERE FATHER SO I AGREED TO WHAT HE WANTED TO PAY .SO I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED FOR CUSTODY I GOT CUSTODIAL AND HE GOT PARTIAL HE AGREED TO EVERYTHING.IT WAS EVERY WEDNESDAY AND EVERYOTHER WEEKEND .WELL HE STUCK WITH IT FOR ABOUT A MONTH TOLD ME HE WAS DROPPING WEDNESDAYS CAUSE IT WAS TO MUCH.I GUESS IT WAS INTERFERING WITH HIS SINGLE LIFE I DIDNT CARE I HAD MORE TIME WITH MY SONS...I DID EVERYTHING DOC APPTS DENTIST ,ER RUNS WHEN THE BOYS GOT HURT I WOULD CALL HIM AND TELL HIM I WAS AT THE ER HE SAID WELL JUST CALL ME I AM SORRY BUT IF IT WAS ON THE OTHER END MY BUTT WOULD BE THERE .(RUNNING OUT OF ROOM WILL BE WRITING MORE)

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17 hours ago
LIKE I DID EVERYTHING AND STILL DO I TOOK CARE OF ALL OUR SONS NEEDS CLOTHES ,FOOD,SHELTER,DOCS,TOOK CARE OF THEM WHEN THEY WERE SICK WENT WITH MY ONE SON TO ALL HIS SURGERIES ETC....HIS FATHER DIDNT GO CAUSE HE SAID HE COULDNT GET OFF WORK TO BE THERE BUT THEN THE WEEK AFTER HIS FATHER WENT WITH HIS GF AND HER SON TO GET HIS FOOT CHECK BUT COULDNT BE THERE FOR HIS SONS SURGERY ON HIS KNEE AND IT WAS BAD.THIS IS THE FATHER AND GF THAT ACCUSED MY SON OF FAKING HIS INJURY WHOM HAD TO HAVE MAJOR SURGERY,ALSO THERE FATHER GRAB OUR SON BY THE THROAT AND YES I REPORTED TO THE DOCTORS AND SO ON HOPING THEY WOULD REPORT IT CAUSE I AM AFRAID OF MY EX HE WAS ABUSIVE TO ME WHILE WE WERE MARRIED I STILL FEARED HIM SO I WENT TO THE DOCS KNOWING THEY HAD TO REPORT IT .I DIDNT NEGLECT MY SON I HAD HIM CHECKED OUT AND TOLD THE DOC.JUST SO EVERYONE DOESNT THINK I AM A ROTTEN MOM I WANTED TO HURT HIM FOR HURTING MY SON .WELL MY TWO YOUNGER SONS STOPPED SEEING THERE FATHER SO HE STOPPED PAYING HIS CONTIN

17 hours ago
SO WHEN HE STOPPED PAYING HIS BIG 50 AWEEK WHICH DID NOT RAISE FOUR SONS I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED HIM FOR THE SUPPORT MY SONS NEEDED AND DESERVED WELL HE TURNED AROUND AND IS NOW TRYING TO SUE ME FOR CUSTODY WE WENT TO A COURT MEDIATOR WHO ORDER A HOME EVALUATION ...WE BOTH HAVE TO PAY 1050 WELL I PAID MY HALF ,HE DIDNT WE ARE GOING INFRONT OF A JUDGE THIS FRIDAY CAUSE HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT,,,,THIS IS A MAN WHOM IS STILL MARRIED TO HIS SECOND WIFE WHOM HE LEFT ONE NITE WENT TO A BAR AND NEVER WENT HOME LEFT HER WITH THERE 2 YR OLD SON AND SHE WAS 5 MONTHS PREGNANT...NOW HE IS SHACKED UP WITH HIS GF AND HER 2 KIDS IN A 2 BEDROOM HOME SHE HAS A 5 YR OLD GIRL WHOM SLEEPS IN THE BEDROOM WITH HIM AND HIS GF AND THE GF'S SON HAS HIS OWN ROOM HE IS 10 AND MY BOYS ARE ON THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR ...THEN WHEN HE GETS HIS SECOND SET OF CHILDREN FROM HIS WIFE THEY SLEEP IN THE BEDROOM WITH MY EX AND HIS GF ALSO THEY ARE 3YR OLD AND 1.

17 hours ago
MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM THE WAY HE FELT NOW THEY DONT SPEAK MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS EVERYTHING FROM WHAT HE DID TO ME AND MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS WHEN HE GRABBED HIM BY THE THROAT CAUSE HE WANTED TO QUIT BASEBALL,AND HE TOLD HIM HE REM WHEN HE GRABBED ME AND ALMOST CHOKED ME TO DEATH INFRONT OF HIM HE SAID DAD IF I WOULDNT HAVE SCREAMED YOU WOULD HAVE KILLED HER ,WELL MY EX TURNED TO HIM AND SAID YOUR MOM BEAT ME MY SON LAUGHED AND SAID DAD YOUR 6 1 300 PDS.MOM IS 5 6 160 AND I WAS THERE I REMEMBER IT ALL ...THEN HE TOLD MY EX ALL HE CARED ABOUT WAS HIS NEW GF AND HER KIDS WELL HE TOLD HIM THATS RITE THEY ARE MY LIFE NOW I HAVE NO OTHER LIFE THEN THEM .WELL THEY HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE FATHERS DAY....THEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF ABOUT HOW HE FELT TELLING HIS DAD HE DOESNT THINK ITS RIGHT FOR HIM TO TRY TO TAKE THEM FROM SOMEONE WHOM HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR THEM AND THE WOMEN WHO TOOK CARE OF US ON HER OWN FOR 10 YRS WITH NO HELP FROM YOU .

17 hours ago
I WAS SCARED WHEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF I SAID MAYBE YOU SHOULDNT HAVE SAID THAT THEY MIGHT USE THAT AGAINST ME MY SON SAID MOM HOW CAN THEY I SAID HOW I FELT...SO I CALLED MY ATTORNEY SHE SAID YOU CAN NOT CONTROL WHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR 14 YR OLDS MOUTH...WELL HE DIDNT PAY HIS HALF OF THE HOME EVAL SO HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT ,,I PAID MINE THAT SHOULD GO TO SHOW I LOVE MY KIDS AND WILL DO ANYTHING FOR THEM ....I WENT TO ALL THE SCHOOL MEETINGS AND WENT TO GET ALL MY BOYS HELP THAT THEY NEEDED ,,I HAVE TWO SONS WITH ADHD SO THEY STRUGGLE SO I GO TO THE SCHOOLS GET HELP OF COURSE HIS FAVORITE SAYING IS THEY DONT NEED ANY HELP THEY ARE JUST LAZY AND THEY NEED A FOOT IN THERE ***.

WELL ON XMAS VACATION LAST YR I ASKED FOR ANY KIND OF HOMEWORK THAT WILL HELP WITH THERE GRADES YOU KNOW MAKE UP WORK IT WAS STACKED FOR ALL MY SONS SO I ASKED AHOLE IF HE COULD HELP YEA HE HELPED I GOT A CALL FROM THE SCHOOL STATING THEY WOULDNT BE GETTING CREDIT I SAID WHY NOT

17 hours ago
CAUSE THE SCHOOL SAID THERE FATHER DID IT FOR THEM THE ONLY TIME IN 10 YRS I ASKED FOR HELP THAT IS WHAT I GOT...I AM SCARED I AM A GOOD MOM I DONT DRINK I DONT SMOKE I DO NOT GO OUT PARTYING UNLIKE HIM I STAY AT HOME WITH MY SONS THAT IS MY PLACE THAT IS WHERE I BELONG..THEY ARE MY LIFE....SO DO YOU THINK HE HAS ANY CHANCE...THANKS

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1 day ago
IM SORRY BUT I NEVER DID ANYTHING WRONG HE SUED ME CAUSE I SUED HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT ..HE ONLY PAID ME 5O AWEEK FOR 10 YRS FOR FOUR BOYS THERE OLDER AND THEY NEED MORE ..I DID IT ON MY OWN FOR 10 1/2 YRS IF HE THINKS HIS BIG 50 AWEEK RAISED HIS SONS HE NEEDS TO GET A REALITY CHECK

2006-10-06 01:19:48 · 7 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1

2006-10-06 01:14:16 · 7 answers · asked by Sue Chef 6

i've been dating this guy for nearly a year.. and for no reason my parents forbid me to have any associatino with each other.. we are tryin to sneak around.. but slowly we are both breaking down, and not gonna be able to handle much anymore. I dont know what to do. I love him

2006-10-06 01:12:47 · 5 answers · asked by holly w 2

We're going to visit family in the US and I have a dilemma. My husband loves his brother and wants to spend 3-4 days at his house. The problem is that my sister-in-law and I don't really get along (to be more accurate, she doesn't like me)! While I would never want to keep my husband from seeing his brother, I only want to stay with them for 1-2 days. I do have other family in the area and he has suggested that I stay for only 2 days (telling them I have other family to see) and he will stay for the remaining time without me. My concern with this is that my sister-in-law is very sensitive to people not wanting to stay at her house because it is small (they don't have a lot of money). We used to live near them and she had an issue everytime our husband's parents would come up and insist on staying at my house because they said it was bigger and "nicer." What should I do? I don't want to make matters worse by offending her, but I also don't want to have to spend 3-4 days with them. HELP!

2006-10-06 01:03:41 · 9 answers · asked by ErnieBert 2

Im a 17 year old girl and my bro were watching "SCARY MOVIE 4" and in the first scene there was a scene where the guy takes viagra mistakenly and has a huge erection....and u know my brother asked me what it was..and i did not have answer to give.....and still he is bugging me asking the same thing...what shall i tell him ( he was shocked to see that scene but i dont know how to explain it to him)

2006-10-06 00:48:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-06 00:30:22 · 7 answers · asked by SpicyK 2

My parents are a bit over protective I used to live alone for a year and they insisted that they want me to be home with them so I said ok after I moved in they started getting a bit controlling they want m to do what they want if I want to go out they say with who and when ur coming back they even tell me what to wear do u thing that’s just normal or they are trying to be protective or what???

2006-10-05 23:58:52 · 18 answers · asked by jesica 2