i was talking to my bf last night and something came up so i couldnt go to his house today......thanx to my mom...........anyways...he started thinking that my parents dont want us around each other so he told me he didnt know if it would work out or not.........i started crying of course........my mom called me and asked me what was wrong and i told her nothing and she kept asking me.......the first conclusion she jumped to and the first question she asked was if i was pregnant.........like 2 weeks ago i couldnt eat anything bcuz it made me nauseaus to smell food and i told her that and she goes do u have anything u want to tell me and i go like what and she goes usually that means ur pregnant...........she has kept asking me if i am and im not. y does she keep asking me the same thing? is it becuz i went to my boyfriends house like for the last 3 weekends? is that y she thinks i am pregnant? its impossible for me to be pregnant.
2006-10-06 02:24:56 · 8 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to talk to your mom. She is trying to open the lines of communication, and she doesn't know the right way to do that. I have teenagers, and I will tell you that it is very difficult talking to you guys. Her asking you if your pregnant is another way of her asking you if you're having sex. She loves you! She is worried about you! What is in her heart isn't coming out through her mouth in the right way. You are offended, (which I completely understand), that she would think that you could be pregnant. And, she wants you to know that if you want to talk to her, she is there for you.
I suggest asking her for some time with her. Maybe go out to dinner or something. Be open with her about your level of sexual activity. Explain to her that you aren't having sex, and that her assuming that you are is offensive to you. Ask her--if and when you decide to have sex, is she willing to be understanding of that? See where she stands on the subject. I bet she will surprise you.
The fact that she is asking shows that she loves you very much and is concerned about your well-being. Be thankful for that!! It is soooo much worse to have parents that don't care what you do. Hang in there! Work with her, she just doesn't know!!!! But, she does love you! Good luck
2006-10-06 02:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you did go to your boyfriends house three weekends in a row. That and getting sick from the smell of food is a sign of being pregnant. She is just worried. That and a lot of girls/ women are getting pregnant theses days. Plus moms always think of those things first. One more thing unless you are not having sex chances are you can get pregnant. There are only a few other ways that you couldn't and I think that you are too young for those.
2006-10-06 09:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happend to me!! i got sick at the sight of food and i could never eat anything...but then suddenly i couldnt stop eating...but my mom was like "i know ur pregnant, ive been pregnant a few times, i know what im talking about" so maybe your mom is either very concerend or she is just a real *****.so yea
2006-10-06 09:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by *~Angel_Eyes~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, she just loves you and doesn't want you to endure the hardship a pregnancy can bring for a young person like yourself. Just sit down with her and be honest. If you are having sex, you need to be taking precautions. If you're not, then simply tell her that. If you're honest and share your life with her, she won't be all over you with questions. Be good to your mom, you won't always have her there.
2006-10-06 09:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get put on birth control, and quite having sex(if you are) and if your not let your mother know so she can quite worrying.
2006-10-06 09:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just loves you and is worried about your welfare. Just behave like an adult and she'll treat you like one. Show her she has nothing to worry about. If you are having sex, please use protection.
2006-10-06 09:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sexually active with your bf, you could be preggy.
2006-10-06 09:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by cherox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cares for you
2006-10-06 10:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋