Family - October 2006

It has been almost four years since I have seen my children. Their mother and I never got along well, and she took off with them after she had me incarcerated for 6 months in the county jail. When I got out she let me have them for a summer vacation but then went back to Texas. We had visitation agreed upon but I have not seen them since August 2002. I have moved on with my life and am now married and have two more children. I want my son and daughter to be part of my family and I miss them drastically. No one seems to have any advise as to find out how they are, or where they are. Their mother used to have an email, but she closed that over a year and a half ago and I have heard nothing. My child support checks get cashed but mail is returned from the last known address in Kilgore, TX. No one seems to want to help I don't want to cause trouble I only want to know that they are healthy and well cared for and I want them to know that I still love & miss them I have not abandoned them.

2006-10-05 15:56:16 · 12 answers · asked by dadslookingforyou 1

What should I do to get my medical history?

2006-10-05 15:51:39 · 9 answers · asked by littletiger859 2

his name is bobby lee rose.his birthday is 12-1953. he used to live in fort worth,texas. he is 53 years old.my name is robbie cooper but my last name used to be lambert. i am 27 years old.i was born october 22,1978.my moms name is ellie or ella lambert.i have only seen my real dad three times.i look just like him too.my grandmother raised me.her name is georgia cooper.she is now deceased.i remember my dad had a yellow chevelle with black stripes on it.i remember sitting on the hood of it.i also remember when he took me to the lake.he would always sit me on his knee and tell me that he loved me.the first time i saw him was on a sunday when i was six.we came home from church and he was sitting on our front porch.i often wonder if he thinks about me.i think about him everyday.i just want to know him.i miss him even though i don't know him.i love him too.i look so forward to the day i finally get to meet him again.

2006-10-05 15:31:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or with your family or close friends in another location?
And every time you see your ex , your stomach churns and you take out the stress on your kids( that happened to me sometimes how about you?)
Having that absent father drop in every now and then for a cameo apperance(it is called "in-out" ex)does more damage to your children than it benifits them . Since he's not on a regular basis anyway, and there's every indication that he's not committed to participating regularly in his kids lives. I'd move if I had family in the next state asking you to come live near them.

Perhaps your family is toxic,tearing you down at every turn and driving you to beat yourself up and act out of obligation. As difficult as it may be , I'd opt for staying where you are. Or if you're living close to toxic family members, I'd suggest that you move from them.
If that's the case , and your kids struggled in school as a result-- acting out because ot the pressure at home ,

2006-10-05 15:23:54 · 3 answers · asked by babykatdream099 5

I do keep in contact with her Dr. and we have made med. changes, but seems the meds aren't correcting the problem they're designed for, which I think my kid has ADD, not OCD. When do I "fire" her Doctor? Give him a chance?

2006-10-05 15:22:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-05 15:21:38 · 12 answers · asked by sportznut05 3

Ok here is the problem my wife thinks that her mom's aunt is her aunt is this right or not to consider them aunt she only met them once and never talks to them I don't consider family just because they are I consider people family that i love and care for and that have been there for me and that i have been there for them what do you guys think whos right on this?

2006-10-05 14:57:28 · 3 answers · asked by snoop90044 2

Please help me

2006-10-05 14:55:54 · 15 answers · asked by jimmybellich 1

My Grandfather died about a year ago and he was quite well off and all of a sudden my parents became obsessed with money. When they were sorting through all his things they were like vultures and I felt so ashamed that I was related to them. He had made a will and everything but it was like they just couldn't help themselves! I know we need money to survive but it's as though they think it's the be all and end all. They have always been materialistic, especially my mother, but it's just taken over. It's like they think they are better people for having money. Am I making any sense or am I just being naive? Are people really impressed by someone's bank balance?

2006-10-05 14:53:33 · 21 answers · asked by Helen B 4

Me and this girl talk to each other. I had to talk to her mother and she ask me my family background and my girlfriend Grandfather is my Great Grandfather brother. So is she related to me. I hope not. I really like that girl. Is that to far down the line for her to be my couzin?

2006-10-05 14:49:46 · 10 answers · asked by Makaveli 2

my big brother is all of a sudden moving out and i dont know what to do can you help me ive lived with him my whole life and we had a close relasonship help on how to get it over with please

2006-10-05 14:29:33 · 6 answers · asked by Angele' 3

2006-10-05 13:58:24 · 8 answers · asked by JoAnn R 2

2006-10-05 13:50:28 · 16 answers · asked by CHAMPAYNE 1

my sister lives far away from here with my mother, and she has run away. she also has a bad criminal record. you wouldnt realize the rights this girl has. she has been arrested for car theft, using faulse identity for an arrest, prostitution twice, and still manages to have the law on her side. she has gotten slaps on the wrist, and she has a trial date 2 months from now. the judge said he has no grounds to hold her, but has ordered her to stay at my moms house and listen to her orders until trial. she straight up said she is going to run away again, and there is nothing we can do. if she does run again, she will be in trouble if caught. but that is the thing. if she gets caught. she may, she may not. i am afraid for what can happen to her considering the lifestyle she leads. she has more rights than i could ever imagine, and no one will help. any suggestions???

2006-10-05 13:45:06 · 8 answers · asked by yankeesarethechamps 2

I am 13 and I have a 16 year old brother. He was my absolute friend for my entire life, up until I was about 10. Those years we didn't have any other friends because we were homeschooled, eachother was all the friends we had. We were really close, we never went a day without talking and discussing something we liked. Now that he's 16, he has a computer, a game, and friends online he's never met before. They all seem more important to him than anyone in the family now. A few minutes ago, he said he can't stand any of us and doesn't like us (love was on the tip of his tongue). We haven't done or said anything against him. He barely has to do ANYTHING. But he complains about us as if we are the scum of the Earth. It's hard hearing those words from someone who used to be my best friend and hero. I love him more than life itself, but I don't think he feels like that anymore. What I'm even more afraid of is when I turn 16, will I be the same? Will I hate my family? How do I deal with this?

2006-10-05 13:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My little cousin lives with me and she thinks she is the bad ****! I mean liek she thinks she can boss me around and takl back to me?... what do i do with a brat like her?

2006-10-05 12:38:48 · 17 answers · asked by Someonetolove 2

The last time I felt I had a christmas Celebration was before my mother had a stroke, and ended up in a nursing home. I would visit her there often, I would spend a couple of hours with her watching movies, because she wasn't able to talk, and she was my only reletive that I knew. Then when she died last January of 2005, I felt more misrable that I did not get to spend time with a family member. Other famlies seem to keep it to themselves. What should I do. Thanksgiving,christmas,New years I feel so alone, and majorly depressed.

2006-10-05 12:26:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am doing a baby scrap book and need some ideas for the pages!!!!!!

2006-10-05 12:22:40 · 7 answers · asked by Broadway_Addict 2

2006-10-05 12:12:41 · 2 answers · asked by chompersstace 1

she is 15 now and just plain out grown. She has boyfriends and girl friends. We used to be so close but not anymore. I'm 20 now and i don't know what to do with her. Help.

2006-10-05 12:07:13 · 6 answers · asked by teeka 3

Aren't we pushing our kids too fast to become little adults with sexy clothing, their own cell phones and laptops?

2006-10-05 12:06:22 · 9 answers · asked by Zelda Hunter 7

2006-10-05 11:56:40 · 25 answers · asked by donniec_22 1

Why did you put it off anyway?

2006-10-05 11:56:05 · 11 answers · asked by osunumberonefan 5

2006-10-05 11:55:33 · 17 answers · asked by ? 4

thing your:
mom
dad
best friend
bf/gf
has ever said to you, besides they love you,

2006-10-05 11:51:41 · 3 answers · asked by Dawn C 5

Im a single father of a 3 year my wife died in a very bad autoaccident not her falt when my Daughter was just littel over 1 years old a few weeks back i heard her playing in her room a lone and it really sounded like she was talking to her Mommy she said some times she see me crying and she likes to play with her toys and likes when daddy takes her to the zoo or store i neaver tooken her to the cemetery and when she asks me about Mommy i just say Mommy is with god honey and it seems to buy me some time is what she is doing normal like talk to nobody or do you think maybe she can see her mommy some how also when is a good age to talk to her about this i try my best to be honest with her other family members think now is a good time some also feel its ok for her act like this im just a little scared and worred i dont want her to be a afford to ask me anything or say anythign to me

2006-10-05 11:50:53 · 5 answers · asked by dan35mn 1

does anyone else relate to this song as much as i do? if so tell me ur story. i am listening to it now and feel depressed. i want to kno if other ppl have gone thru similar to me. here are the lyrics:

Father's hands were lined with dirt
From long days in the field
And mother's hands are serving meals
In a cafe on Main Street
With mouths to feed
Just trying to keep clothing on our backs
And all I hear about
How it's so bad, it's so bad

(Chorus)
It's too bad, it's too bad
Too late, so wrong, so long
It's too bad that we had no time to rewind
Let's walk, let's talk
Let's talk

You left without saying goodbye
Although I'm sure you tried
You call the house from time to time
To make sure we're alive
But you weren't there
Right when I needed you the most
And now I dream about it
How it's so bad, it's so bad

(Chorus X2)

Father's hands are lined with guilt
For tearing us apart
Guess it turned out in the end
Just look at where we are
We Made it out, we still got clothing on our backs
And now I scream about it
How it's so bad, it's so bad,
so bad, so bad

(Chorus x2)

No time, last one, let's go.

2006-10-05 11:41:47 · 1 answers · asked by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6

2006-10-05 11:32:08 · 11 answers · asked by mybabe 1

My Grandmother's health has been declining. We hate the thought of putting her in an assisted care facility. We have been taking care of her at her home, splitting the time up among family members. It is getting to the point where we are having trouble giving her the care she needs. She has chronic health problems that have her in, and out of hospitals at least once every other week. How do know it is time to think about a rest home? Many years ago, they had to put my Grandfather in a rest home, and it just killed me. I was younger then, I swore that I wouuld never do that to a family member. It is just at the point now where we don't know what to do. If you had to make this dicision, I would like to hear how you were able to deal with it. Thanks.

2006-10-05 11:25:30 · 9 answers · asked by jam961 5

2006-10-05 11:24:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous