my big brother is all of a sudden moving out and i dont know what to do can you help me ive lived with him my whole life and we had a close relasonship help on how to get it over with please
2006-10-05 14:29:33 · 6 answers · asked by Angele' 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
u all dont no how he left he left without saying good bye and ya hes 18 and im 12 but still
2006-10-05 14:41:22 · update #1
u do not say how old he is... what you are experiancing is seperation anxiety!! it will pass with time... he is your big bro. !! you will miss him, but he is NOT leaving you, just moving on with HIS life !!! the nest must become empty !! that is the course of things.... we all grow up and move out and sometimes away !! make him a special gift of a scrap book of pics of memories of you and him... that will keep the connection between the 2 of you always open... write a special poem to him, that tells him what he has meaned to you as a big brother... God bless
2006-10-05 14:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. Is he moving very far away? You can always stay in touch with him by calling him whenever you feel like. That way, you still feel connected. Plan on visiting him when he's settled. Remember you are close to each other and you have to reach out to him, not get disconnected. Good luck!
2006-10-05 21:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by MaTriX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, let me tell you this Angie what he has done is decided that he wanted to move out I have done the same thing with my family I moved out and really didn't say bye to my sister either she holds that against me to this day, but you have to understand when you turn 18 you will in your mind believe that you are old enough to make your own desicions rather it be or not be an agreement to those around you, don't be upset at your brother though because that will give him reason to get angry back at you, if I were you and If I were my sister I would give us time, to recooperate on what our lives are and how we want to spend them...I know it is hard to deal with now, but believe me it will be better Remember Angie there is always a two sunny days for every rainy one, but if you let your brother be and let him cool down and get situated on life, he will be there for you always just as you are for him, Remember just because he leaving doesn't mean he is that he wants to be away from you or that he is shutting you out of his life he is just at that age as I was that we want to build a life for ourselves, Trust me Angie no matter how far your brother goes he will always be there for you and ALWAYS be in your heart right...so be there for him at this time of his life instead of against him I should know how he feels I was the same way and watch Angie one day you will be too, and someone will be on Yahoo Answers saying, My ______ just decided they are going to move out, I have lived my life with them and now they are going without really saying goodbye." and you will be able to answer them.....Good Luck and cheer up because you always will have a friend in me and you know how to get a hold of me. Blue
2006-10-06 04:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by E.F. Landeros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has to grow up sometime and things always seem dismal in situations like that. I guess it has to go with the fear of being along. Talk to your brother about it, let him know how you feel, I'm sure he will help you to adjust and you will always have his support so in fact, it is not the end of the world.
2006-10-05 21:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i had a older brother , well all you can do is visit him and call him as much as you can
2006-10-05 21:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by mewantcoffee16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll come back.... but in the meantime enjoy your parents& concentrate on your schooling....
2006-10-05 21:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by No 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋