Family - September 2006

As for my husband, I let him do what he has to do. either with friends, work , or family. Hi anger though is so bad. I can't handle it, I try to be as calm as possible. He punishes me by ignoring me sometimes for the whole day, only if I had made him upset. Or he plays mind games just by the way he talks. He makes me laugh sometimes, and we have good times. But now, the majority is his attitude. I feel I have lost who I am...he isn't worried about anything, he just keeps telling me to take care of his mother more than him, feed her, and watch out for her. I do everything for their culture, I even became vegetarian for him, go to customs like him, and do activities. When the whole family sits at the table, they all talk in their language, and nobody never talks to me, they laugh and joke, and I just have my head down. I know the first year of marraige is supposed to be hard, and I set mind to that, but is this right? should there be more comprehension from him? or am I asking too much??

2006-09-28 06:24:17 · 15 answers · asked by Christine 1

well my mother refused to help me have a wedding so i just ened up going to the jp to get married she didnt even help with that and i was only 20 when i married.. but when it came to her having her second wedding i had to help her that just made me feel like you know what

2006-09-28 06:22:49 · 16 answers · asked by gigglezdelight 2

I want to do something for extra money, i tryed a few things but they did not work out But i have to find something?????

2006-09-28 06:22:42 · 4 answers · asked by lisa 2

2006-09-28 06:21:58 · 10 answers · asked by rose2006 1

For example, my mother in laws name is Starnella... my great grandmothers name was Birdella. What weird names are in your family?

2006-09-28 06:14:39 · 17 answers · asked by whaaatthe 3

If a parent is really battling financially, and has a son who has his own business and is doing pretty well, assist the parent financially.? The parent will not ask for help, but goes without medication and sometimes a proper meal to make ends meet. Sad thing is that the son is aware of the parents situation.

2006-09-28 06:10:10 · 21 answers · asked by Vonnie S 4

we are having a hard time setting boundaries and giving appropriate privledges to our 13 year old son. what should he be allowed to do and what should we expect in return ie chores around the house minimum grades and participation in sports

2006-09-28 06:06:43 · 9 answers · asked by Melissa G 1

My dad died when i was 3, and my mom rased my sister and I all by herself. Now that i have a good job i try to give my mom all my money. I get the thing i need, but not the things i want. I dont have much money as it is, but would it be wrong to take myself out, or get my gf something nice, or even buy my-self a new movie, or should i just keep giving all my money to my mom. Is it bad to give my money to my mom?

2006-09-28 05:53:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 11 year old and a 15 year old. I believe it is my 15 year old. When I ask her she is completely on the defensive. I do not know how to stop her.

2006-09-28 05:49:04 · 9 answers · asked by keetahay 1

at the age of 28 is acceptable in society these days? im married and my hubby has a good job but people seem to judge me

2006-09-28 05:45:07 · 25 answers · asked by louisamac14 1

2006-09-28 05:44:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

She bent over pretending to tie her shoe thats already tied and looks while smiling if im checkin her behind out.she looks at my eyes lips smiles then looks down.she leans on me and doesnt know.give me a smile and sexy look when entering bathroom.looks at me a lot.and just smiled when she saw me with shirt of.wanted me to show my dog bite scars.kept sayin please.bought me a choc bar without me ask

2006-09-28 05:43:43 · 15 answers · asked by nasser_matrix 1

i've tried everything i bought her her own little potty yet she won't use it what do i do?

2006-09-28 05:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, he has some brain damage right, and we always yell at eachother but this time..

I was going in and out of the kitchen and he got mad at me, i dont remember how it all went down but he was being immatu;re and i gues i was too, I just remember getting really mad i went up stairs because he wouldn't shut up and i just got soo mad and i knee'd my door and it broke right off the hindges and flew into the hall way...how can i control this rage when he says stuff too me...he's handicapped.

2006-09-28 05:41:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

we got married 3 months ago, after one month from our marriage he went back to Europe, he lives in Europe, but originally we are from the same country , and I can't go to where he lives now untill I get the resident permit from this country immagration and that will take at least if I am lucky 8 months , he can't come here again cause he has work there , we talk on the phone every day but this is not enough I miss him so much what should I do ?

2006-09-28 05:34:34 · 13 answers · asked by WR 1

I have been with my man, the father of my 2 children, for 6 yrs and I am so unhappy. He is a very blunt, get to the point type of person. Hes not romantic, or sweet. Even when it comes to our children. Our 2 yr old doesnt really bond with him, because i guess cause he sounds so mean all the time. Anyways.... Him and I have been through so many hard times, it feels like it all killed the way that i feel about him. When hes at work I miss him... but as soon as he gets home, we seems to clash, and Id rather him not even be here. We just recently moved to FL from Upper Michigan. over 1500miles. If breaking up is what should happen.. which I cant explain the whole situation with the little space. But what do I do. I cant be a single mother with no money, no current job. Its so expensive to live here..but I dont want to go back to MICHIGAN. I hate it there. It cost so much to move here to begin with. I am so confused, so scared to make the wrong decision. Do I try to be happy, but im not.

2006-09-28 05:32:05 · 7 answers · asked by 2girlsmother 1

I think it should be very inhuman to send a message to future killers as to their fate if they kill a child.We need to take the gloves off and at act like this is a major problem.Hell is to good for a person who would hurt a child but I say send a few there anyway!

2006-09-28 05:29:34 · 21 answers · asked by sjwest74 2

2006-09-28 05:27:31 · 4 answers · asked by LUIS C 2

As my partner has been working away a lot lately, I have been looking after my two young children myself. I now totally admire people who do it alone. So all you single parents say your peice and 2 points are yours!!!

2006-09-28 05:23:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

my 3 yr old has just started nursery school, she was getting on great until they started to do a story time in one of the small rooms, children have limited space and are sitting in a large group. my daughter crys through this, she does not like in the tiny room with all of the people. the school has story time every day.

2006-09-28 05:20:07 · 11 answers · asked by A G 2

2006-09-28 05:16:14 · 8 answers · asked by hc 1

I used to be a believer. I am perfectly happy being atheist. But sometimes I do miss believing in god, it can be comforting. So with that in mind, I am not sure what to do about my 3 kids. What should I tell them about god and all that?

2006-09-28 05:12:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 04:59:49 · 4 answers · asked by mich 3

were going to my husbands 30th runion and he was a big shot in highschool and is very outgoing and he is putting on the party , i was very shy and still don't like talking to people , i don't want to ruin his fun what should i do hide in the restroom,i have a 300 dollar dress having my hair makeup and nail done and new boobs and a full face lift but i still feel icky i don't like meeting people what can i do he spent a lot of money on me , i feel bad

2006-09-28 04:59:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 04:49:40 · 11 answers · asked by Cocolocococ 2

I have 2.5 yr old step daughter, and i can't seem to bond with her, even though she lived with me her whole life (2) I get so impatient with her, and i see my self often getting irritated at her. I have a daughter of my own who is the same age, and i look at her in differnt way. I don't get impatient with her, and i'm not irritated by her crying when she does. On the other hand, step daughter tantrums drive me nuts (her crying does) My husband says and has seen that i often baby (as he calls it) my daughter more then my step daughter (which is more like mine) I don't know why i feel this way, and what i should do. I want to have the same bond with my step kid, as i do with my biological kid..what should i do?? am i crazy to think this way?? help me How long does it take to bond with your stepchild?? should i go and see counsler??

2006-09-28 04:47:24 · 12 answers · asked by kayt 1

We already have one child so I know we can have children, so I need some tips on how to get pregnant. We have tried different positons and still nothing, please help I am ready to have another baby. It is getting frustrating.

2006-09-28 04:33:53 · 11 answers · asked by DB 1

My mom is crazy. She has lied and said that I slept with other men during my relationship and that my baby's father might be another man. Its untrue! What is wrong with her? what can I do?

2006-09-28 04:33:42 · 7 answers · asked by KelBean 4

2006-09-28 04:31:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where can I find out which area of the RAF my Grandfather served in in WW2? Is there a general list of men where I can look for his name ? I would love to be able to share our family history wih my children but have no idea where to start looking. Thanks !

2006-09-28 04:29:06 · 6 answers · asked by Lily 4