at the age of 28 is acceptable in society these days? im married and my hubby has a good job but people seem to judge me
2006-09-28 05:45:07 · 25 answers · asked by louisamac14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thanx gum!!!
2006-09-28 05:48:07 · update #1
thankyou everyone for your kind comments, i will ignore what people think and carry on making my footie team!!!!!!! xx
2006-09-28 05:50:14 · update #2
to nora, my children are a credit to society
2006-09-28 05:52:16 · update #3
i,m one of six with two sets of twins... so i think you should round it of to 6..its none of their business
2006-09-28 05:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the children are happy and you and your husband are happy I don't see any reason why people should judge you ... !
I love seeing a woman who can handle that many children ... not many qualify for that job ... lol ... and it sounds like you're all well taken care of ... good for you ... 28 still young and just imagine all the grandchildren you and your husband will get to enjoy ... that's way cool ... !
2006-09-28 13:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if a couple wants to have a big family then let them as long as they do not think the goverment should support them, and if you and hubby have 5 children and he has a great job great it is no ones business, and they should just all take a flying leap
2006-09-28 12:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by whats up all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people will judge you because of your age,but the people likley to do that are the ones that should take a look at their own lives and how they run them,but hey your not scrounging off the government your husband is working just shrug it off people are having kids younger and older every day it doesnt matter whether one is 14 or 63 having kids, people will always have a comment to make.You deserve a medal though i had 3 and they drove me mad.
2006-09-28 13:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who gives a damn what others think. As long as you and your hubby want and can support these kids....have as many as you like. Hell I raised 4 By MYSELF and have 2 dadddies between them and I don't give a damn what anyone thinks about it. I supported my kids solely by working at the same job I have held 18 YEARS this year. Live you and your hubby's life NOT societies. G'luck!
2006-09-28 12:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford to have 5 kids and you're not expecting the government to pay you for the pleasure of having them then i say, you go girl, it's entirely up to you and if you are financially stable then your children will be very lucky to have so many siblings. They'll all have at least 4 friends for life.
2006-09-28 12:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by waspy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey its up to you and the old man how many kids you have. I don't see how they are judging you unless they think you are both out of work. My personal opinion is that as long as the kids are well looked after and loved then it's no-one Else's business.
2006-09-28 12:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Susie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your business how many kids you have. My parents had 7. I had 1.
You've got 5. If people are judging you, are your kids insufferable bastards or a credit to society? I suggest you make them paragons of virtue and rocket scientists, pioneering medical researchers, and world peacemakers. Then, your naysayers won't have a negative leg to stand on.
2006-09-28 12:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ay theres nothing wrong with having a big family, theres a family by me with 12 kids and neather of the parents work, at least your feller goes out and earns a bean!! And besides no one can beat my mate Sonja she had 5 kids by the time she was 21 and now shes preggers with her 6th, (and yes she and her partner both work)!!
2006-09-28 12:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jo. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very lucky. I don't think that you should pay attention to what anyone else has to say about you and your husbands choices.
I have two children, but I would have loved to have more, unfortunately it will never happen. I am blessed with my little girl and boy, and I never forget that.
You go girl.......have as many as your family can take.
2006-09-28 13:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what other people think. It's none of their business. Especially if you are married & you're husband is supporting your family and society is not having to help you.
2006-09-28 12:49:19 · answer #11 · answered by CaffeineAddict 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋