Family - July 2006

i have a 14 yr old son and a 14 yr old stepdaughter and a 3 and 4 yr old. here lately the two older kids have been saying your not my dad and your not my mom, i hate you, im only a step kid to you, is it because we had 2 more children together or what? it all started about 1 1/2 yrs ago. i have a seriuos problem and need help if you can help me please email me where i can give more info. more to story , please only serious people who want to help reply

2006-07-09 17:28:19 · 12 answers · asked by curious 2

my mom is over protective and does not want me to grow up so my bed time is 8:30pm which totally sucks i would like to know what do u think a bed time for a freshman in high school should go to bed

2006-07-09 17:17:50 · 16 answers · asked by Kristin E 1

my mom is over protective and does not want me to grow up so my bed time is 8:30pm which totally sucks i would like to know what do u think a bed time for a freshman in high school should go to bed

2006-07-09 17:17:36 · 8 answers · asked by Kristin E 1

my great grandfather came from italy (calabria) about 50 years ago. is there a place in italy one could go and find information about relatives in that country? perhaps a site on the internet?

2006-07-09 17:16:54 · 2 answers · asked by Bruno 1

I am the oldest of two girls. We are both in our 40's.

2006-07-09 16:42:51 · 44 answers · asked by ladysodivine 6

I mean good honest working people go to work everyday to job they probaly don't like and still can not get ahead. What can u do you? If god created all of us equal then why is there rich people and poor peolpe, why aren't we all rich are all poor?

2006-07-09 16:22:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am angry at my father. i've disliked him for a few years now. but, i need to apologize to him before it's too late. i'm in a pretty tight situation. the thing is, i don't want to talk to him. i don't even want to look at his face. i know damn well i have to change my ways before i regret it. it's just... how do you be nice to a person who you extremely loathe?

2006-07-09 16:14:56 · 19 answers · asked by anak sendu 4

2006-07-09 16:04:59 · 14 answers · asked by Francheska W 1

The person with this yahoo nickname, who has been bashing black girls, who thinks he is an asshole?zzzznnyzzzz

2006-07-09 16:03:48 · 23 answers · asked by Diabla 6

Need some advice on how to get their 10 year olds more involved in activities?? I do I was out of my sons life for a few years but now I'm back but he doesn't really want to join anything. I know the importance of keeping kids busy to keep them off drugs what can I do. Please be nice I need some help here. I've tried lots from being the coach of the soccer team to trying to be a cub scout leader he isn't receptive to much. When he does he changes his mind. He joined golf but never got out of the car. Joined band but never went to practice. I don't really know what to do. I f I try to force him he gets really mad and doesn't have any fi=un or make any friends. Remember please be nice I love my baby. Sorry so long

2006-07-09 16:02:52 · 4 answers · asked by Kookie M 5

im already 19, im crazy sick of my mom, she smothers me with too much love, but she NEVER, and i mean NEVER lets me go out with my friends ever since!!! the result of my ignorance from the outside world made me make mistakes in high school, dont wanna give in to details but i sort of became the school's resident sl*t.

my mom may smother me but when we get into a really bad fight, she punches me, pushes me, pinch and other hurtful things, my parents are divorce, i want to run away to my dad, but he has two kids for his new wife and he cant take care of me...

my mom's boyfriend is also driving me crazy!!! he's starting to give signs of ill-behaviour towards me, telling me he "loves me" in a totally WEIRD way, kissing me when he's not suppose to! i am freaking out here alot!!

i want to run away! but i live in this country where it's dangerous and you have to be a college graduate in order to work, and im afraid because of my ignorance that i might get raped and/or become a real hooker

2006-07-09 15:58:49 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

my two sons, one is 12 going on 13 and the other is almost 9, they fight CONSTANTLY. they act like they hate each other all the time. i ask them to please get along and they say they hate each other. i dont know what to do and im at my wits end.

2006-07-09 15:56:08 · 13 answers · asked by boo4272002 2

Why doesn't anyone discipline their children anymore? Hasn't anyone noticed that back when it was "ok" to spank a child's behind, there weren't near as many kids running around acting like spoiled brats? Psychologists say that the "reasoning" part of the brain doen't develop until around the mid-twenties, yet these same Drs want you to try and reason with a child who is misbehaving.

And don't waste your time calling me a child abuser just because I believe in spankings. There is a HUGE difference in spanking a child and abusing a child.

Also, yes, I am the father of two children who receive spankings when they misbehave, and they are very normal, outgoing, and respectful kids.

2006-07-09 15:51:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-09 15:37:07 · 20 answers · asked by sunnygibson78 1

2006-07-09 15:35:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking to adopt a older child between 11-13 years old. If anyone can please give me some information on where i could do this, with out it costing me a fortune it would be greatly appreciated. thanks

2006-07-09 15:33:44 · 6 answers · asked by lindakarenwhiddon 2

the mom and dad, (the mom is my daughter) believe in talking and DO NOT allow physical dicipline and thats okay with me but I seem to see conflict between the parents about what dicipline should be used ... the kids take that indecision and manipulate their parents, then must the rest of the family put up with these brats?

2006-07-09 15:24:04 · 11 answers · asked by frenchysandi 1

asking you what you are doing? My mother does this to me frequently and I am 24. And if I tell her what I'm doing its not like she is going to understand, so why does she ask?

2006-07-09 15:19:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-09 15:09:13 · 9 answers · asked by oaksterdamhippiechick 5

how do i get mom to let me have a bf

2006-07-09 15:06:45 · 42 answers · asked by cutie 2

2006-07-09 15:05:57 · 9 answers · asked by funyakkers 2

Whenever I go out with my parents, to dinner, or some event...the days stress finally takes its toll. I can never tell anyone my true feelings about life and how I learn to cope with it day after day. They say I'm depressed and I always "ruin their meal".
I know I'm not depressed because whenever I'm out with my friends, I have a blast and I'm the star of the party. I don't have any disorder except for type I diabetes, which I learned to manage and control with the help of my dad. How can I make myself more enjoyable to my parents and not get them stressed out all the time?
Thanks.

2006-07-09 15:03:23 · 11 answers · asked by oreo_cream_76 2

2006-07-09 15:00:32 · 13 answers · asked by cindybd 2

2006-07-09 14:54:26 · 12 answers · asked by QARC 3

There are rumors that he is "clean," but those never pan out it seems, but because of his extremely violent history towards me and the rest of the family as well as the community we have chosen of course to keep my new son away from him. My dad told me and my siblings about his "recreational habits" and those of my grandfather's (which were the same as his) and I turned out okay, but my siblings are all on drugs (2 are teenagers) or started sleeping around at a very young age. My question is how do I keep from deceiving my little boy later in life, but also keep that influence away? My husband and I don't do drugs, drink, or smoke, so he won't have that influence at home.

2006-07-09 14:43:14 · 32 answers · asked by cheesey :) 3

He is my 3rd child and also my 3rd boy.

He is very intelligent. He talks quite a bit and very playful. I am having a hard time accepting the terrible 2's with him. He is very whiney...and very demanding. I am normally very patient...but I find myself getting frustrated easily! I work full time and my husband is disabled, but is Mr. Mom. (He wasn't for the first 2, we both worked)

My 21 month old refuses age appropriate toys. He wants hot wheels, anything having to do with cars, action figures (he says spiderman), and game systems.

His brothers are 6 and 8 years old. So, another question...consider it a bonus question. How can I convince them to let brother have the old toys they won't play with anymore? Should I consider letting him have hot wheels this early?

I am planning on giving "best answer" points. So, please take this seriously...and not just for points.

2006-07-09 14:33:12 · 6 answers · asked by FairyGurl 3

my mom and dad are divorced. my dad lives in california and me and my mom live out in michigan. today me and my mom got in an argument. we worked it out and its all cool now. but just now, i heard my mom talking to my dad on the phone telling him all about the fight and how it is all my fault! its so aggrevating!!!! why does she do that? she does it every time we fight. what should i do? should i talk to her about it?

2006-07-09 14:23:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can anyone tell me? I can't stand kids. Not all women were meant to be mothers, you know? When my friends tell me they can't wait to "have a family", I 'm like, What the hell are you talking about?! The idea of it disgusts me! Why on earth woud you want to give up any chance of future happiness (for yourself) and freedom just to have some guy's litter? I've even asked MY OWN MOTHER this, and even she confessed, she could have done a lot more with her life and career if she didn't have a family. I agree. The first step of avoiding the "desperate housewife dilemma" is not to become one in the first place, right?
What do you think?

2006-07-09 14:17:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-09 14:07:43 · 5 answers · asked by Ney Rosas 1

She just turned 2 and I think i have to potty train her now. But whenever she sits on a potty she would not pee. and she doesn't want to sit there too long. she can't speak a whole sentence yet and sometimes she can't understand what i'm saying. Help!

2006-07-09 14:03:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous