how do i get mom to let me have a bf
2006-07-09 15:06:45 · 42 answers · asked by cutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i am 13 and in seventh grade
2006-07-20 19:39:37 · update #1
You will just have to wait until your mother thinks that you are mature enough. Until then prove to them that you are mature.
2006-07-16 18:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first boyfriend in the 7th grade as well...I'm 25 now. I don't believe that the age of your first boyfriend determines your sexual activity. However, if I could tell you anything about high school and boys it's this: don't ever believe that you need them. They need you. When you get to college you'll learn that Jr High and high school boys were nothing but smelly, sweaty, arrogant children. Dating is not fun. It brings so much unnecessary heartache and drama. Now is really a time to build your relationships with your girlfriends. Concentrate on working hard, making lots of friends (with boys and girls) and getting into a fabulous college. Then, when you're 18 and you're living away from home...you can do as you please without anyone looking over your shoulder. There are lots of girls who jump into things too soon and don't remain in the proper "season" of their life. You'll never have 13 back. You'll never have that feeling of longing for a boy to kiss you for the first time or hold your hand. Enjoy it...eventually holding hands won't be enough...and you'll wonder where the time went. The girls who start too soon always want more...it becomes an addicton. Traditionally, first dates are Homecomming of Freshman year in high school...It's new and it's exciting just as it should be. If you start dating now, you will completely miss out on that exciting feeling that you're supposed to have when you're 15 and all dressed up for the first time. I missed out on a lot because I wanted to date and I dated older boys. I regret it every day. Now, I'm a attorney, and I want my childhood back...despirately.
2006-07-22 16:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Beth A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Avatar name is RUGRATS, you should not be dating. Don't worry what others are doing. One day, someone special will come along, a future president, a future person in power, whatever it is, if anything happens when you are young, it may all come back to haunt you in later life, why waste your life regretting what may have been. Don't waste your life by making mistakes when you are so young. If you get teased for not having a boyfriend, just remember, one day these are the girls that will be on the MAURY show getting numerous men tested for the identity of the father of their child. There is time for boys, enjoy being a young lady and carving out a future, a great future.
2006-07-22 01:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by Freckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, from personal experience, i can tell that its hard. u should SHOW your mom B4 u TELL her. heres what i mean: if u have a bf already (if u dont, u should find 1 first, and good luck), then start by inviting him over and introduce him as a friend. later, when he leaves, hug/kiss/do something 2 show your mom how u feel about him. then again, if she gets mad, i recommend that u have plan B @ hand.
hope this helps. ive never tried this B4, 2 B honest, but i think im gonna have 2 in a month or so . . .
p.s. im 13, 2 and i want a bf, so i can understand that. teehee
2006-07-21 18:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by gelly700 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get real, your just 13. You should be enjoying yourself. You
still have many years to go before you mature. Your mom is just trying to protect you. I've been there when my daughter was
just 13. I had to sit down and talk to her RE: SEX. She got
pregnant at the age of 17 1/2, and I got pissed off. But now I'm
alright with it because she's an adult 21. And living up to her
responsibility. Her boy friend (now fiancee ) is working his butt
off to support his family of four. I have two beautiful grand-
daughters. You can have a boy friend as long as it stay
just like that. I'm not your mom but you need to respect your mom.
Your not ready for anything but having fun with your friend.
listen to your mom, don't get mad. don't hide around the bush
ether that's how someone gets pregnant.
2006-07-22 12:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about enjoying your youth and not worrying about having a boyfriend.
You really want to take all the risks of having a boy friend?
(STD, pregnancy, loss of self respect)
So what if your friends all have boyfriends, is it really worth the risk?
If you really want to be different like everyone says they want to be, this is the way to go.
Just don't do it and make your mom proud of you.
You are literally a daughter of God and you are so much better than to degrade yourself with some slime ball boy friend who will say he loves you and cares for you but just wants you for sex.
This is the kind of stuff animals do because they don't know better. Us humans know better and should be better.
Wait till you're out of high school to hook up with a boy friend and save sex for the wedding night.
Enjoy school, get into something you really like to do or find something to do(sports, drama, literary/ yearbook, debate, science, etc..) but don't get a boyfriend because I promise you, you will be unhappy in the long run for the reasons I mentioned before.
2006-07-22 11:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by duhanlorian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend right now, just have him as a friend and try to be happy with that.If you keep your grades up that means over 85 then maybe If you were my daughter I wold let you but I really think you should reconsider the boyfriend thing
2006-07-22 17:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by amira s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Mom! Thirteen is still to young to start getting involved with the opposite sex. You have many years to explore that aspect of life. Enjoy being a kid as long as possible because adulthood comes on fast and then there is no time to have fun and be free.
2006-07-23 13:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u're too young to have a boy-friend. ur mother knows what she's doing; u may not see that now but u will when u have a daughter of ur own (hopefully further on down the road!). in case u're thinking of going behind her back, don't. if u get caught, that'll only reinforce her belief that u're not mature enough to handle a boy-friend. right now u should be worried about school and making something of urself so u won't be dependant on anyone.
2006-07-22 09:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by demonique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 13 ,OK! I have a daughter who's 10 and i say to her the most important thing you have to worry about is education. boys have a tendency to distract them from that goal. you will have lots of time for a bf and if he's a friend he'll understand! you don't need the added pressure
2006-07-23 13:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by ROBERT S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur too young 4 a bf
2006-07-23 10:58:06 · answer #11 · answered by sud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋