2006-07-09 15:35:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well in a way it was but i mean if you didnt know what is there to do about it what happened..happened can't go back
2006-07-09 15:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Janine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u didn't know then how removed is this cousin? If it is your first cousin then it is not lawful to marry this person or should u have sex with that person because if they get pregnant then there might be birth defects!
I am not sure what u can do about it now that it has already happened.
2006-07-09 22:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by jibbers4204 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah your wrong. But you have a few more details to fill in. How close of relatives is HUGE in the wrongness of it. It could just be by marriage then it's all good, but if not lets hope for 5th or 6th cousins
2006-07-09 22:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the "old day's" it would be a terrible mistake!! Now day's it's nothing. Your not going to have a kid with 6 legs,and 2 heads.. Now your family might not like the whole thing,so I advise you both to keep your mouth's shut for a while. You need to kinda test the waters around other people before you come out of the closet...so to speak. Get what I mean?
2006-07-09 22:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were having sex with a stranger. But since you didn't know she was your cousin then no.
2006-07-09 22:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by Tzipor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex with her before you found out, you didn't do anything wrong at the time. If you have sex after you realize who she is, then it's wrong. You can't change what happened, but you CAN stop it from happening again.
2006-07-09 22:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question would depend on cultural standards. People in Kuwait, for example, usually marry cousins to keep the wealth in the family. In the U.S., it is illegal to marry a cousin...
2006-07-09 22:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Geo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you weren't wrong for that reason. You might want to pay closer attention to what you're doing though, but technically speaking, for the concern you had about having sex with a relative, you were not wrong. God Bless you.
2006-07-09 22:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! You had sex with a girl that you didn't know! Relatives are not the worst thing to come from that stupidity! Ever hear of STDs or babies! Wise up and keep it zipped!
2006-07-09 22:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were wrong. Casual sex is full of hazards. Next time, know the girl you are sleeping with.
2006-07-09 22:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your fault if you didnt know. But if you didnt know, then Im assuming that you guys arent close cousins and/or are related through marriage. If you guys r like 5th cuzins or somthin, I would get too disgusted over what happened.
2006-07-09 22:38:39 · answer #11 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋